Ngamnye wethu ufanelwe ngumyeni onobuqili, onamandla, omhle nomnene. Kuthatha umgudu omncinci, kwaye zonke iintombazana ziya kuba nethuba lokufumana ulonwabo olulindele ixesha elide.
Beka izinto eziphambili.
Qinisekisa into oyifunayo kumntu. Ngaba ufuna i-satellite ephawulekayo yokuphuma? Umthandi onomsebenzi? Indoda ethembekileyo nonamandla onokuyinyamekela zonke iingxaki zakho? Kwaye, mhlawumbi, ukhangele ubaba ongabantwana bakho kwikamva okanye umxhasi okanye umhlobo nje?
Ngokuxhomekeke kubani oyifunayo, iindlela zokufumana oko ufuna ukutshintsha.
Ukuze ufumane uncedo ekuqhubeni phambili kwinqanaba lomsebenzi, kufuneka amadoda kuphela ukuba athabathe i-VIP yezona nkampani ezithandekayo-ezinye.
Ngokucacileyo ucinga ngeminqweno yakho, kuya kuba lula ukufikelela kwinjongo ekujoliswe kuyo.
Kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuba ukuthanda yonke into ngexesha elide kunokuba luyatha. Ukusuka kumhlobo, umgcini weqela, awuyi kufumana oko umthandi weqhawe okanye umntu osapho oyisibonelo anokunika. Ngoko ke, kuyimfuneko yokwenza ukhetho, njengoko kuya kubakho ukugqiba isigqibo ebaluleke ngakumbi: ukuqonda ngokufanayo, uxolo kunye nokuthembeka, ukuzonwabisa okanye imali.
Hlalutya.
Fumana ukuba yeyiphi na ibhinqa oyithandayo uhlobo lwabantu onomdla kuwo. Kubalulekile ukuqwalasela zonke iinkcukacha: ukusuka kwiphi inkampani amadoda afuna ukubonakala kunye nabafazi, kubaluleke kangakanani ukubonakala kweqabane, ngaba amadoda anjalo alungele ukunceda umfazi uphucule kunye nokunye okuninzi.
Awukwazi ukuguqula izithethe ezisisiseko zaliphi na iqela loluntu, kuya kuba lunengqiqo ngakumbi ukuyihlalutya kwaye uzame ukuba ngowakho.
Maski ngokwakho.
Okokuqala, vavanya ngokungabalulekanga zakho iingenelo kunye nokungahambi. Khumbula, intlanzi enkulu ayilanga kwi-bait encinci, ngoko ke ukuba ufuna - awuyifunayo, kodwa uya kulungelelanisa isimo somyeni ozayo.
Yilungisa yonke into engalungiswayo: isibalo, i-gait, imilinganiselo, ilizwi, imfundo, umdla. Gwema ukunyaniseka, ngaphandle koko unobungozi bokulahlekelwa ngumntu ngamnye kwaye ube yinye yeedodoli ezingenanto engenakudliwa ngabantu ngaphambili.
Ufanele ulungele kakuhle, uqiniseke ngokuqinisekileyo, kodwa ungaziqhenyanga, ube neengqiqo kunye neengqiqo ezihlelekile ngaphandle kokungcola, ukulungeleka kunye nomnqweno wokuphuhlisa phambili. Ukufunyanwa ngokuqhubekayo kolwazi olutsha kunye nezakhono, kwintsimi kude neenkalo ezinzulu, kuqinisekisa ukuba ubuncinane ubunomdla kumntu wakho. Emva kokuba unamathele kwindawo enye, ubomi obusondeleyo buza kuba msinya.
Yenza uqhagamshelwano.
Awukwazi nje ukuza kwinkampani entsha yabantu abaphumeleleyo kwaye ubalekele impumelelo kubantu abajikelezayo kule ndawo okanye kuluntu. Iya kusebenza nabalingana nabo ekilasini kunye nommelwane, kodwa kungekhona nabakhonkethi abanobubele, abahlaselwa rhoqo ngabazingeli abanolwazi ngakumbi kunoyobo.
Uya kufuneka uqalise ukuhlanganisa abaqhelanisiweyo abanokwazi ukuqala-kubaphathi beemfuno zokutya ezifashisayo, ii-salons kunye neeklabhu. Uya kufakwa ukujonga imicimbi yamuva kwimpilo ephezulu. Ukuba wenza ngokumnandi, uya kuba nomdla kubaninzi, intombazana enobungane engenzi iingxaki, emva kwexesha ezininzi iingcango ezivaliweyo ziya kuvulwa, kubonga kubantu abaqhelana nabo kunye nezixhumo.
Ukuphosa intonga yokuloba.
Ukuze iingcango zobomi obungcono zivule phambi kwakho, akwanele ukukopisha umfanekiso weCinderella. Kubalulekile ukuba unomdla kumntu othile othe ngqo onesimo kunye nesimo kuluntu.
Akulula ukwenza oku. Abantu abahendekayo abayidingi i skirt e mfutshane, kwindoda eyaziwayo. Inketho efanelekileyo - ngokukhawuleza ihanjiswa kuwe inomdla kumntu onolwazi oluqhelekileyo. Ukuba akukho nanye, qalisa ukuya kwixhoba uze uqalise abaqhelana nabo kwiindawo ezithile zolwandle loluntu. Uya kuba nethuba lokumelwa nje kuphela, kodwa ukuba uye kwiindawo ezithile kunye neziganeko, apho uya kuba nako ukunxibelelana njengomntu owaziwayo. Kwaye oku kuyinyathelo elikhulu ekwenzeni ulwalamano oludlulayo lukhule libe luhlobo oluqinileyo okanye uthando.
Sika!
Ngokukhawuleza ukuba le ntombazana ibanjwe kwinqanawa, musa ukuchitha ixesha, ukufumana inhlanhla emsila. Ukunxibelelana nawe akufanele kube mnandi kuphela, kodwa kunomdla. Ingxoxo encinane ngokwakho, phulaphulaphula, cela imibuzo - ityala. Kodwa qaphela, musa ukubuza ngezinto ezintle. Ukuba ubonakala ungenasidingo, ubuhlobo buya kuphela ngaphandle kokuqala.
Musa ukuma, phuhlisa. Iinkalo ezininzi ozifumanayo, unomdla wokuba uya kuba ngumntu.
Kubalulekile ukuba ube ngowona mfazi, unxibelelwano oluqukethe i-pluses eqinile. Ngoko musa ukuwuthululela umphefumlo wakho, ungayilayishi iinjongo zakho okanye zabanye, gcina isimo sengqondo esihle nesimo esihle sengqondo. Kuya kukunceda ukuba uphume ngokuchasene nemvelaphi yabanye abafazi.
Ngokukhawuleza xa indoda ingena ezandleni zakho kwaye ihlanganiswe ngokuqinileyo ngamanatha, iya kuphakamisa yonke into ngokwayo. Kodwa ndifuna ukukunceda i-beech ephazamisayo kakhulu ngaphantsi kobuhle obumnandi novuyo.
Abantombazana abanenkani kunye neentente, ngokuqinisekileyo, baya kufeza injongo yabo. Kodwa umbuzo uvela: ukuba singakwazi ukufezekisa umntu ongenakufikeleleka ngenjongo ethile, ngaba yizinto zokomoya okanye izinto eziphathekayo, akunakukwazi ukubeka amandla ethu nexesha kwisigqibo esiphezulu, ukuphepha abaphathi phakathi kwendoda enenzuzo? Yilo lwazi lokuzimela kwaye ngaphandle koluncedo lomntu ukuphumeza luphumelele ngakumbi kunamanye amaqhinga. Indlela yokuba yeyiphi na indlela yokuzingela impumelelo kufike kuwe.