Umntu othembekileyo ngumntu onoyolo owaziyo ukuzonwabisa ubomi kwaye abone ihlabathi ngemibala eqaqambileyo. Ithemba elihle lihlala libona izinto ezintle kunye neenzuzo kunokuba zingonakali. Kuye, iglasi igxininiswe ngokupheleleyo, kwaye ayinanto. Umntu onjalo akakhonanga, akayi kulila kwisibambiso, kodwa njengomthetho, uyamamatheka kwaye phantse ukuba akahluphekanga. Ngoko kutheni ungaba nethemba? Ubomi obu buza kuba mnandi ngakumbi kwaye bube lula.
Nazi ezinye iingcebiso malunga nendlela yokuba nethemba kwaye uqale ukuzonwabisa ubomi:
- Khumbula njalo ukuba ukulindela kwakho kufanele kwanele. Ungathembeli kwimozulu efanelekileyo ukuba imvula iqikelelwe. Musa ukucinga ukuba ngonyaka nje uya kuba ngumgidi-mali. Ungalindelanga okungakumbi kunabantu kunokuba banokukunika.
- Yamkela ixesha elidlulileyo njengoko kunjalo, yeka ukucingela. Phila kwaye usebenzele ikamva lakho.
- Fumana amacala amahle kuzo zonke iimeko ezimbi. Njalo, nakwiimeko ezimbi kunazo zonke unokufumana ukukhanya kokukhanya. Ukuba uxoshwa emsebenzini, unethuba lokufumana enye apho unokuhlangana nabantu abatsha. Ekupheleni kokuphela, ukhululekile ekunxibelelaneni kwansuku zonke nomntu oqhayisa okanye oqhayisa kakhulu. Ekugqibeleni, unemihla emininzi ukuphumla, ukuhlangabezana nabahlobo okanye ukutyelela izalamane. Qiniseka ngembono yokuba uvula entsha, ngokuqinisekileyo, iphepha elincomekayo lobomi bakho.
- Sebenzisa oko unayo okwangoku kwaye uzame ukuphucula kuyo yonke indawo yobomi bakho. Khumbula, ukuze uthathe esinye isahlulo sokutya, kufuneka ugxume, esele sisemlonyeni wakho.
- Yinyaniso, uthembeke-yiba nguwe. Yeka ukugqoka iimaski uze wenze sengathi ungumnye umntu, uluntu olufunwa ngumntu, kodwa kungekhona. Yamkela ukuba ungumntu nje. Akukho namnye kuthi ongenazo iimpazamo.
- Zixhamle nabantu abanezinto ezilungileyo. Ithemba linomdla. Iphupha. Yikholelwa ukuba amaphupha akho aya kuba yinyaniso kwaye enze konke ukwenza ukuba kwenzeke. Yenza umkhuba wokusebenzisa kwiingcamango zakho nentetho kuphela, amazwi aqinisekisayo nemibandela.
- Khetha ngokucophelela into ofuna ukuyifunda, ubukele okanye uphulaphule. Amajelo angabinayo impembelelo kunye nefuthe elihle kwimvakalelo yakho.
- Mamela umculo. Umculo unempembelelo enkulu kumoya wethu. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba usisidlo sakusasa, uhlambe okanye uqhuba imoto-vula kwi-rediyo uze ucule.
- Ukungena rhoqo kwimidlalo. Ezemidlalo - isixhobo esihle kakhulu sokuxinezeleka.
- Zama ukuhlala uxolo ngonaphakade xa ujamelana neengxaki ezahlukeneyo zobomi. Musa ukuvumela ingqumbo nemvakalelo emibi ukuba ivuke emphefumlweni wakho. Khumbula ukuba uxolo noxolo ziyisiseko sempilo yengqondo. Yiba ngumntu oguquguqukayo kwaye uthembekile. Funda ukulungelelanisa kwiimeko.
- Yibulela yonke into onayo, kwakunye nabantu abakujikelezile. Ukuphuhlisa umva. Funda ukuxelela ama-anecdotes kunye nokuhleka kwiintlanzi ezahlukeneyo.
- Sebenza ngokubonakala kwakho okungekho. Pamper umzimba wakho nengqondo. Yiya kwimbhiyozo, ikhonkethi, i-ballet, ubhalisele ukusilalisa, tyelela i-salon yobuhle, uhlambe kunye ne-sugar maslam.
- Impumelelo yakho ebomini ixhomekeke ekubeni uya kusebenzisa amathuba okuphuhliswa kwakho kwexesha elizayo. Yonke inyathelo elincinci yinyathelo kwixesha lakho elizayo. Kodwa unexesha lokuyeka, ezinye izinto azifanelekanga umzamo kunye nexesha elichithwe kuzo. Gxininisa kwisisombululo, kungekhona ingxaki.
- Nika ixesha elingakumbi kwizinto ezibalulekileyo kuwe kwaye kukuvuyisa, umzekelo, intsapho, uhambo, abahlobo. Yiba ngumzekelo omhle kubantwana bakho, abahlobo, intsapho, oogxa.
- Khangela umdlalo oza kuwenza rhoqo imihla ngemihla yakho. Inokufunda, ukuloba, ukupheka ukutya okumnandi, ukuthunga, ukucoca, njl. Oku kuya kukuvumela ukuba uphumule kwaye ujonge iingxaki ezininzi ukusuka kwenye indawo yokujonga.
- Qhubeka ufunda into entsha. Ukwandisa ulwazi oluluncedo ebomini bakho. Zama into entsha. Kungaba isidlo, ukunyuka kwiparachute kunokwenziwa nje kweenwele ezintsha.
- Gcina intliziyo yakho inomdla wobomi. Hlala kude nantoni na ebulala wena ngomnqweno wokuphila. Qhubeka uphumelele kwimigudu yakho. Ukunyamezela ngenye yezitshixo zokuphumelela. Zama ukukhathazeka ngaphantsi. Ukuxhalabisa kubangela uxinzelelo.
- Jabulela kwimpumelelo yabanye abantu kwaye ufunde kuzo. Ukwandisa impumelelo yakho ngokufunda kwiimpazamo zakho. Hlaziya ukusilela kwakho kwixesha elizayo ngaphandle kokuphindaphinda iimpazamo. Funda ukuxolela.
- Soloko unenjongo. Ukuba uyifika, faka entsha phambi kwakho. Yiba neenjongo ezinkulu. Funda iincwadi kunye namanqaku malunga nokukhuthaza.
- Gwema iingxabano kunye neengcinga kunye nezicwangciso kufuneka zilungiswe. Yakha umoya osebenzayo ekhaya nasemakhaya. Njalo uhlale ucinga kwaye ucinge ngawe. Zibone ngeso lengcinga. Khawucinge ngenye imeko ofuna ukuyiqonda, kwaye uyifake ngexesha lakho lobomi.
- Hamba ngokuthe ngqo, kunye nokuzikhukhumeza kunye nentloko ephakamileyo. Smile ngokuphindaphindiweyo njengoko unako. Ukumomotheka kudla ngokuhambelana nokunyaniseka. Khumbula ukuba ubomi bufutshane, kwaye kufuneka uphile ngokusemandleni akho.