E mse benzini
Namhlanje, ubudlelwane basebenzi abuqwalaselwe into engaphandle kwesiqhelo. Kakade, akufanele uvakalise. Kwintsebenziswano kunye nabalingane emsebenzini, abantu bayaphuma ngokukhawuleza. Emva kwakho konke, ixesha elide sichitha yonke into apho, kwaye ngokuhlwa akukho nto iyakuthanda izaqathe, abaninzi babo, beza ekhaya, balala belele. Kwaye kwixesha elona xesha "li shishini" siseofisi. Ukuphosa "ikhibhodi kunye nabasebenzi befowuni" kwiingalo zabanyunyana abancinci, abaphathi bezesondo kunye nabamelwane abasemagumbini okubhema. Olu luhlu olukhethekileyo. Bobabini abalingani bavavanya ngokuqinisekileyo amathuba olwalamano olunjalo kwaye akunakwenzeka ukuba bathethe malunga naziphi na iimvakalelo okanye bazibandakanye. Isondo esinjalo asinalo nje uhlobo oluthile lwe-caresses kunye ne-preludes-lingabandakanyeka kwanxibelelwano phakathi kwamaqabane. Unxibelelwano lwamazwi, okwenene, - banomzimba okwaneleyo. Nangona i-romance yenkonzo iyakhupha iinyanga ezininzi, kwanokuba iminyaka. Lo luhlobo lwe-detente - kunye nesinye iqabane eliphumayo, kunye nomsebenzi wokuzonwabisa.
Kwi shenketho
Ngelishwa, akusizo zonke iimbini zikwazi ukuphumla kunye. Omnye akakhululwa emsebenzini, umntu onomoya akayinyamezeli umlingane othanda kakhulu iNdiya okanye ilanga laseYiputa elivuthayo. Kwaye ezinye iindwendwe zikholelwa ukuba iholide enye iqinisa ubudlelwane kwaye ibenza bahluke ngakumbi. Kodwa inyaniso ihlala - iholide ngaphandle komlingane okanye amaninzi ayithathwa njengento engeyonto, ngenxa yoko, ilanga elikhanyayo kunye nabathandi bezanti ezishushu ziya kujongana ngokwahlukileyo. Kwaye apho, kwiindawo eziphambene zomhlaba, ii-hormone zombini ziqala ukuthatha zazo. Ngaloo xesha, ilizwi eliphantsi lisoloko lihamba okanye liqala ukudibanisa idama: yenza, akukho mntu uya kukwazi. Kwaye emva kokumangaliswa, into enomnqweno ilula, kwaye umnqweno usoloko unxibelelana. Abasetyhini bezobudlelwane ngokoqobo ngokwenene "balder" - xa unokufumana i-store yonke yokuvuma kunye neentlanganiso zeveki? Kwaye abantu bayakuvuyela ukulungelelaniswa kuzo zonke iintlobo zeentetho zabantu abahlala kwiidolophu zokutyelela okanye iindwendwe ezifanayo kunye nokufuna iinjongo zokuthanda. Njengomthetho, ngobudlelwane obunjalo bonke bathola oko bafuna. Emva kwakho konke, akudingeki ukuba ucinge ngekamva, ingakumbi ungazami - emva kweentsuku ezimbalwa iindaba zomsindo ziya kugqitywa, kwaye abatshatileyo baya kubuyela ekhaya, wonke umntu ovela kwilizwekazikazi-ukuhlangabezana kunye nokulungelelanisa ubulili bobubonisa ukuba wonke umntu uhlalise ngokucokisekileyo malunga nabaninzi abamukeli abatsha abavela kuyo. Ngendlela, kubafazi, iveliveli zothando zihlala ziphumelelanga - ukuba ufumene intloko yentshonalanga ye-oriental eshushu, ungabhala phantsi, ungabhali phantsi kuye ngesandla esincinci kwaye uzityhafise ngcamango "kutheni engabuyi kubuyiselwa." Kwaye emva kokuphishekela ingcamango engapheliyo unokulahlekelwa luhlobo oluqinileyo. Yaye indoda yam intanda. Makhe kancinci. Vumela i-horny encinane. Kodwa intanda.
Intlekele
Ngaba uke wafunda idilesi yomnye umntu? Imbali yemiyalezo kwi-ICQ? Okanye i-imeyile? Kwakhona akukho mfuneko. Ndiya guquka, ndingumoni. Njalo ixesha ndizithembisa ukuba ndihloniphe ubomi bam nomlingane. Njalo naxa ndiphazamiseka. Ikhompyutheni ivuliwe, umthandi akakho ekhaya, zonke iinkqubo zisesandleni sakho. Vula. Awu, uyathanda. Kwiingxaki zomsebenzi? Ukuphazamisa uncinane namhlanje. Yaye yintoni le? Phew, yintoni inkohliso. Amathuba kwimeko enjalo ye-affair mass - iSMS, incwadi ye-elektroniki, inombolo enkulu yesondo kunye nezinye izinto zobugcisa. Iskimu silula: hambani, nize ne-nickname ekhangayo kwaye niqale ukuthetha. Ungakwazi ukubeka isithombe - i-poerotichnee eninzi, kunye nezambatho ezincinane. Amadoda azibonakalisa ngokulula kubahlobo bobuqili kubo bonke ubuqaqawuli bawo, kodwa amantombazana kwesi si cwangciso ayedla kakhulu. Iifoto ze-electronics seductresses azibonakalisi ngokukhawuleza, zibazise kule mzuzu. Abaninzi babo bathumela umfanekiso ukusuka kwi-intanethi ukuya kwi-intanethi endaweni yesithombe sabo (okwenyaniso, iifoto zabasemagunyeni ayisekho imfashini - ukuba "i-zamanuha" ezinjalo zithintela ukukhuselwa komzimba), kwaye umntu ulinganiselwe kwingcaciso yomlomo yeentshukumo zabo. Kutheni izibini ezitshatileyo zityhafile iibhedi zentsapho zidonsa kwiwebhu ekhulayo? Izibambiso ezinjengokuthi "ukukhathala kwi-bedtime" kunye nomgangatho oqhelekileyo othi "idemoni kwintambo" apha iya kuba yinto ebomvu. Into ephambili ebhenkisayo amadoda namabhinqa ngesini ngokwasemthethweni kukuba akukho nto inqatshelwe kuyo. Awuboni iqabane lakho, kodwa akakuboni. Awusoze udibana. Ngoko, unokukwazi ukuthenga konke, nokuba ezo zinto unamahloni ngazo ukuthetha ngokuzwakalayo.
Amadoda nabasetyhini abatshintshile iqabane labo, bazisola ngesenzo esilungileyo, nangona into yokuba isenzo sihlale siyimfihlo. Ezi ziphumo zezifundo zanamhlanje ezenziwa ngabafundi beengqondo kunye neengqondo ze-psychotherapist kwiminyaka yamuva. Cinga ngaphambi kokuba uwele umgca onqatshelwe. Imizuzu yokuzonwabisa ayifanelanga ukuthembela komntu othandekayo.
"Ngobudlelwane obudala"
Ubungqina be "intombi ezindala" kwiindawo ezithembekileyo akunakwenzeka ukukunceda. Kanye nje "nabahlobo bakhe" kunye nabangaphambili nabo. Omnye uthe ubuhlobo phakathi kwendoda nomfazi buya kwesini, luhlehliselwa emva koko. Iingcamango zalo mbandela zihluke kuzo zonke. Kodwa unxibelelwano olunjalo lunokukhula ngokukhawuleza lube yinto engakumbi. Enye into embi (okanye ingenjalo) phakathi kwabatshati - kwaye baya kuthuthuzelwa kubahlobo. Kwaye ukuba umhlobo uphenduka ukuba uhlukile kwesini? Ewe, kwaye ubukeka buhle? Mhlawumbi, kwakukho umnqweno wemfihlo phakathi kwakho kunye neminyaka yesikolo? Ubutshwala obuncinane bunokubangela ukuba lo mxube uphumelele. Kwaye umphumo uyintloni nje phakathi kwabalingani. Abasetyhini emva kokunyanzelisa okunjalo, njengomthetho, baphinde baphumelele kwintsapho - kuthintela ingqalelo yecala. Uqhagamshelwano nomngane wakho unokuphela ixesha elide. Kwaye amadoda ahlala ekhululekile - anokuqhubeka nokuthetha kunye "nentombi endala," kodwa akunakwenzeka ukuba ixesha lesini lesini liza kuba likhulu. Iinjongo ezinjalo ziphela ngento-kubantu abadala, abahlobo babo abavavanywa ixesha, abavame ukuphuma bathanda.
Uhlaselo olungapheliyo
Ngelinye ilanga ingcamango ephazamisayo yambeka entloko yam ukuba ubuhlobo bebuqalise ukukrakra, kwakungekho okwaneleyo kwento ephilileyo neyintsha. Kodwa, njengenhlanhla yayiya kuba nayo, umntu wam othandekayo wayengeke afikelele, kwaye andizange ndimele ndilinde iindibano ezinomdla. Ubusiso obuqhelekileyo, ubulili obuqhelekileyo. Kulungile, asiyi kuyenza ebhedeni, kodwa, umzekelo, phantsi. Kwaye kuya kuthiwa "ukuhlukahluka." Kwaye ke apho ndikhange ndikhange i-adventure "kwinqanaba lesihlanu." Ndazicwangcisa kakuhle: Ndenze icebo lento endifuna ukuyisebenzisa, ndacinga ukuba kungenziwa ntoni kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu, abaviwa abakhethiweyo kwendima "yeqabane elichithwa ngokukhawuleza." Umntu wokuqala wayengumhlobo omdala. Umhlobo omdala sele ephupha ukuba asiyi kuba ngabahlobo kuphela, kodwa abahlobo, abancinci ngamanye amaxesha balala ngesondo, kodwa njengokuba baninzi - ukwenza njalo. I bell. Isimemo kwivenkile yokutyela. Imirhumo ende. Inkonzo yeeteksi. Isidlo. Enye iteksi. Kwaye sele sele kufuphi nomnyango, "umgqatswa" wam unxila "waqala ukunyuka. Ndiyifunayo, kodwa ngaloo mzuzu yaba yinto enyanyekayo neyizothe. Ndasinda kulo mqhubi. Kwaye kwenzeka ukuba adibane nomthando wakhe wangaphambili. Ukukhanya okubomvu entloko yam kubanjwe umlilo, kodwa kuphelile - umbane sele usebenza. Mhlawumbi ikhofi? Siya kuwe. Isandla sam sephexheni lakho. Ndiyamanga ngesifuba sakhe. Kwaye ke ndayifaka njengento yangoku. Kule ndlu ndandinamakhulu amaxesha. Amaxesha amaninzi ambopha le ndoda. Kwaye yonke into ibonakala ngathi akukho nto ishintshile. Iindonga ezifanayo, i-sofa efanayo, iincwadi ezifanayo, i-vase efanayo yeekese kwifestile yekhofu. Ndikhangele emehlweni am kwaye ndiyiqonde. Hayi, ayikho. Andikwazi. Kule mizuzu embalwa, ndakhumbula konke: kutheni ndimshiye lo mntu, kutheni ndizange ndiqale ukuthetha ngoko. Ndibalekela kwindlu.
Inkonzo yeeteksi. Ekhaya. Yintoni elandelayo kwisicwangciso? Hayi. Ukuqhelana nomntu ongaqhelekanga ngokwesondo. Kwiqela. Okanye kunye nabantu abangaziwayo. Hayi, hayi! Ndanele ngokwaneleyo! Hamba kakuhle. Ifowuni igxina. "Ewe, intshontsho yam? Ewe, ndiya kuba khona apho." "Ndibuhlungu ngokwenene!" Nawe? Ngoko ukukhohlisa kwam ngokucokisekileyo nokungacwangciswanga kwakungazange kwenzeke. Kodwa ngoku ndaqonda ukuba andifuni mntu. Kwaye ukukrokrela umntu othembekileyo uye wancinci - sonke singabantu. Kwaye ukuba ndifuna ngamandla, ndiza kubuyisa ngokuphindwe kabini. Njengomthetho, abafazi banqanda oku. Kubantu kunzima kakhulu. Uninzi, mhlawumbi uya kuzisa ekupheleni. Kuphela ukuze uqonde ukuba "yakho samovar ibhetele." Uzola. Yaye wena, othandekayo wam, uya kuhlala uvuyile. Ewe, mhlawumbi kungcono - kuba uyazi ngaphantsi, njengoko besithi, ulala ngokugqithiseleyo.
Ekugqibeleni, ndifuna ukusho enye into. Konke okufundwayo akuthethi nantoni na ukuba umthandi wakho uzama ukukufundisa iimpondo kwimihlaba yonke. Ewe, iindawo ezinengqondo zidla rhoqo. Kwaye oko akuthethi kuthi ukuphela kothando-kubalulekile ukuhlukanisa ubudlelwane nomnye umntu kunye nesondo nje. Kodwa, mhlawumbi, emsebenzini, umyeni wakho akacingi ngemilenze emide yomnye umntu osebenza naye kwikompyutha engummelwane, kodwa malunga nokuba unokumema kuphi iveki. Okanye ukhumbula ubusuku bakho bokugqibela.
Ewe, ukuba ukhangele izinto ngokucokisekileyo - isebenza nje. Isebenza ukuze ukondle intsapho, uze uye kwi-resort kunye nawe. Kwaye ungakhange ukhangele khona, kwi "samovars zabanye abantu." Kwaye kunye nabahlobo bakhe abalala ngokungahambi kakuhle-mhlawumbi baxoxa ngesilumko esivela kwingxoxo yesondo, eyamthumela isithombe se-blude Hilton, kodwa ayikho. Ubudlelwane bwakhiwe kwi-trust-so-trust, kwaye iingxaki ezinjalo ziya kukugqitha. Izintando ziya kuqonda.