Uthando ... yintoni enokuba yinto enhle kakhulu? Ucinga ukuba unolwalamano oluqinileyo, ukuba unzulu. Isicwangciso sekamva elilodwa sele senziwe. Kwaye akukho nto iprofeta ukutshutshiswa komthandayo. Ubomi bakho, ukuvumelana ngokupheleleyo.
Njengoko sasicinga ukucinga-bonke abantu bafana kunye nabo bonke, njengoko bethetha, iibhokhwe. Akunakunyaniseki nathi, bahlala bengayithobeli, bengabikho bengqondweni, ngeendlela ezininzi abayiqondiyo ... konke oku kusenza sicinge: "Ngaba lo mthandayo uyasikhathaza? Into ephosakeleyo kuye. Ufihla into kum. "
Kodwa ke ngabantu. Kwaye ngokuphindaphindiweyo umona wethu uphenduka ube yi-paranoia. Ndifuna ukukuxelela ngale nto. Abasetyhini abayekanga emva kokukrexeza. Leli bali ibali lokwenene.
Badibana iminyaka emi-2. Kwaye bonke abahlobo, abahlobo bacinga ukuba lo mbandela wawuphela ngomtshato. Isibini esibalulekileyo asifumaneki! Ngamehlo enzondo, uthando kunye nokuthuthumela. Akukho mntu unokucinga ukuba yonke into yayiza kujikeleza njengaye ... Abazali bakhe babehlala kwenye idolophu. Emva kokugqiba kwakhe ukutyelela ngeveki; wangena emotweni waza wahamba. Wambiza ngelanga elilandelayo waza wathi wayeshade ngoMgqibelo olandelayo ... Lesi saziso sasinjengomese entliziyweni. Ngomzuzwana, balahlekelwa ngumthandayo, fumana ukuba akayi kukufuna kwakhona. Badibana naye ixesha elide, wayefuna ukudibanisa naye bonke ubomi bakhe ... Wayedakiwe, kodwa ngokukhawuleza waqala imoto waza wagijima kuye. Kwimizila, wayengozini. Wazikhusela waza wabuyela endleleni. Imoto kwi-rattle isesibhedlele. Ndiyabulela uThixo yonke into eyenziwe.
Wayibonanga njani kwiminyaka emibili ukuba wayeyinyumba kuye? Mhlawumbi, yayingumfama nje. Ukutshatyalaliswa komntu othandekayo, yintoni inokuba buhlungu ngakumbi?
Lapha uze ufike kwisigqibo. Jonga kakuhle abathandekayo bakho. Khetha isiqingatha ngokucophelela, ukuze ungakwazi ukunyamezela ukuthengwa. Njengoko bathetha kwelinye lezahlulo: themba, kodwa khangela. Qaphela kwaye unakekele omnye nomnye.
Ukuba usabhekene nokungcatsha komntu othandekayo, ngoko uziphatha ngesithunzi. Musa ukwenza i-scandals kunye ne-hysteria - lo mntu akayi kubuya, kodwa ukucinga kakubi kwakho kuqinisekisiwe. Vala ukuvala umnyango phambi komntu kwaye uthathe umoya. Zixabise kwaye ungagxeki, kwaye umrhweba uya kuzisola oko wakwenzayo kwaye uya kubuzwa ukuba abuyisele.