Abantwana abahlali nje banolonwabo kuphela nawuphi na umfazi, kodwa novavanyo olukhulu. Ngokukodwa kumfazi weshishini, owayesetyenziselwa ukuchitha ixesha elide emsebenzini. Ngaba oku kuthetha ukuba umama kukushiywa ngokubaluleka komsebenzi? Akunjalo! Unokufumana indlela yokudibanisa umsebenzi kunye nokukhulisa umntwana, ufihle imivumba yakho kulabo abanokuthenjwa. Kodwa yintoni ongakhethayo - inzala, inzala okanye uninxeba uncedo? Inketho ngayinye inezinzuzo kunye neengxaki zayo ...
Akungabazeki ukuba kulunge ukuba umama ukhuliswe kwintsapho. Kodwa ihlabathi lanamhlanje lichaza iimeko zalo. Uninzi unina ukhetha ukubuyela emsebenzini emva kweenyanga ezimbalwa emva kokuzalwa komntwana - kwaye oku kulungile. Kodwa ke lixesha lokugqiba ukuba ngubani omele uthembele umntwana wakho? Izinketho zihlala zintathu kuphela. Makhe siqwalasele ngamnye ngomnye iinkcukacha.
Kindergarten
Ingxaki enkulu apha akufumani umyezo ofanelekileyo kwindlu. Akunabo bonke amaziko athabatha abantwana abancinci, ngaphandle koko, ukunyumba kwabasebenzi. Kodwa malunga nabo kamva. Kwii-kindergartens eziqhelekileyo zohlobo oluqhelekileyo, abantwana bayamkelwa kwiminyaka emibili ubudala. Kwaye emva kokutyunjwa emva kokugqithiswa kwekhomishoni yonyango. Umntwana ongazi ukuba aziphathe njani (ukutya, ukugcina indebe, ukuya kwindlu yangasese okanye ubuncinci ibhodlo) akangxami ukuba athathe emadini. Yilungiselele oku. Nangona kunjalo ukuba akukho mithetho ethile okanye umgaqo kule nqanaba, ootitshala benza konke okusemandleni abo ukuba bangazibekeli "inzuzo" ngokwabo. Ingxaki yesibini yimeko yomzimba yomntwana. Ukuba umntwana wakho uhlala egula kwaye kukho ukuqinisekiswa kwonyango kwikhadi - ingadi inganqabela ngokusemthethweni ukuthatha umntwana wakho ekhayeni lakho. Kwaye kuya kusemthethweni. Eyona nto ingxaki - ukulungiswa komntwana omncinci kwiqela lezingane, ubomi ngaphandle kwekhaya ngokwemigaqo nemigaqo ecacileyo, uxinzelelo kunye nokuzihlukanisa nezihlobo - zonke ezi zizathu ezibalulekileyo zokucinga.
Izinzuzo
- Kwi-nursergen umntwana uya kunxibelelana kwaye asebenziseke phambi kwabantu abaninzi nangabantu abangaziwayo, ngaphandle koyiko. Ngaloo ndlela, ukuya esikolweni, umntwana akayi kuba neengcinezelo ezibonakalayo kubantwana abaninzi abakhuliswe ekhaya. Wayetyenziselwa ukuba ingqalelo ayihlawulwanga kuye kuphela, ukuba "akayi" intonga yomhlaba, "ukuba kwakukho nabanye abantwana abasondeleyo.
- Kwi-kindergarten, ukukhuliswa komntwana kuya kwenziwa phantsi kokufundiswa kunye nokulawulwa kwabasebenzi abaqeqeshiweyo abaneminyaka emininzi yamava.
- Kwi-nursergart, abantwana bafunda ukuqeqeshwa kunye nemisebenzi emininzi ekunokukhula kwabo. Bahlakulela ukucinga, ubuchule, nezakhono eziya kuba luncedo kubo kwikamva.
Iingxaki
- Umntwana wakho unokuziva ulibalekile kwaye ushiywe, nangona le nkxalabo isele ikhulile abantwana. Abantwana kulo mbandela abaxhatshazi kwaye baqhelisela imeko entsha ngokukhawuleza.
- Kungenxa yokuba abaninzi abantwana baya kubantwana bokubeletha - bahlala besasaza iintsholongwane kwaye umntwana wakho ulungele izifo. Phantse wonke umntwana oya engadini, ubuncinane kanye, uyagula ngezifo zentsholongwane. Oku kuqwalaselwa ngokuqhelekileyo.
Nanny
Ngokuvamile ama-nannies athatyathwa ngabobooomama abangafuni ukukhulisa umntwana wabo "phakathi kwabanye." Bafuna ukuzityhalela umntwana ngokufudumala nokunyamekela, ngokokuba wayesezindongeni zendlu, engahambi ndawo. Kodwa ngexesha elifanayo zama ukudibanisa umsebenzi kunye noqhagamshelwano nomntwana ngexesha elifanelekileyo kubo. Kukho iinkampani ezingenakubalwa ezinika iinkonzo zokunakekela abantwana kumntwana, okuqinisekisa ukuba u-100% ubugcisa. Kungcono ukuqesha umnxeba kwinconywa yabangani, ubuncinane ubuncinane obubukeziweyo ngolu hlobo malunga nalo. Ngoko unokukhuseleka kancinci wena kunye nomntanakho kumntu ongeyena mqeqeshi okanye nongcikivo oye wangena nje ngoku kutshanje. Kungcono ukuba umongikazi unemfundo yonyango yesibini. Ukuba unemfuno ezizodwa zemali (umzekelo, xa umntwana wakho efuna ukusela amayeza ngexesha elithile) enze uluhlu lweemfuneko. Ukusuka kuso kuyacaca ukuba iimfuno zakho akufanele zithathwe phantsi. Ufezekileyo ngumntwana onotitshala ogqithisileyo, kuba unamava amaninzi asebenza nabantwana.
Izinzuzo
- Ubeka ixesha lomntwana, ngokuxhomekeka kwindlela ukhululekile ngayo kuwe. Nangona usuka ekuseni kakhulu emsebenzini okanye ufuna ukuhamba ngesidlo sakusasa ngokuhlwa ebusuku - unina uza kuba uncedo lwakho kwaye uncede
- Umntwana wakho uya kufumana ingqalelo yedwa, ngokungafani nabantwana bokubeletha, apho umntwana wakho angakwazi ukuhlala emthunzini (ungondli kakuhle, abanye abantwana bayamkhathaza, balala kakuhle, njl.).
- Ukuba awufuni ukuthumela umntwana wakho kwi-kindergarten, noogogo nomkhulu basasebenza, kwaye ufuna kakhulu umntu onokuyilandela umntwana-nanny isisombululo sakho esihle.
Iingxaki
- I-Nanny yonyango ebiza kakhulu, kodwa ungathatha umntanama ngomsebenzi wesikhathi esithile.
- Kunzima ukumthemba, ukwazi ukuba usuku lonke umfana - umntu, ngokuqhelekileyo omnye umntu - usekhaya lakho.
- Inxalenye ebalulekileyo yemfundo yabantwana kunye nokukhuliswa ngaphandle kokuthatha inxaxheba kubalwa ngumntwana. Kwaye ukuba awuyithandi isifundo afundise umntwana wakho, awuyi kubuya, njengoko bathi "iminyaka emithathu edlulileyo", ukulungisa imeko.
Inkulukazi
Le yinto ehlukileyo kakhulu yokudibanisa umsebenzi nokunyusa umntwana kwimeko apho ibhinqa likhetha ukuqhubeka nokwakha umsebenzi. Ukuba, ngokuqinisekileyo, ugogo akasebenzi. Ungumntu lowo umntwana owaziyo kunye nalowo umntwana uya kuziva ekhuselekile. Akukho ugogo ongcono, othanda abazukulu kakhulu kwaye uyabakhathalela ngothando nangqalelo. Njengowe, kwaye bayavuya, kuba bachitha ixesha elininzi nomntwana. Oku kuyindlela efanelekileyo. Kodwa ...
Kukho imeko ezininzi xa iingxaki zentsapho zivela ngokuchanekileyo ngenxa yoko. Ukuba umntwana ukhula phantsi kwefuthe likagogo. Kwaye umama uhlala "engekho emsebenzini." Kukho abanamandla kakhulu, oogogo abanamagunya abafuna ukunyanzelisa intando yabo kwizingane ezinokuziphendulela. Kule meko, umntwana uba yipropati yakhe, ngoko ubuncinane uvakalelwa. Kunzima kakhulu imeko xa ugogo (unina kamama) echasene noyise womntwana kunye nangona kunjalo. Oku kunokukhokelela kwiingxaki ezinzulu kwixesha elizayo.
Izinzuzo
- Uya kuzinza, ngokuba umntwana usezandleni ezilungileyo.
- Oku kuyona ndlela encinci kunoluhlu.
- Ngokungafani nootitshala be-kindergarten ootitshala, ugogo akazange abe nolwazi lokuthetha kunye nabantwana "abangaziwayo". Ugxininisa kumntwana omnye kuphela.
Iingxaki
- Ngenxa yothando lwabo kunye nokunyamekela, amaninzi awenza unomntwana ophangaleleyo oya kuba neengxaki kwixesha elizayo.
- Esikolweni esikwinqanaba, engaqhelekanga kwiqela elikhulu labantwana abasondeleyo, umntwana uya kuba noxinzelelo. Uya kuhlala engakufutshane, uya kuziva ehlungu kwaye aphumele.