Ukukhala, ukukhala ngokukrakra yisandi sokuqala esenziwa ngumntwana ekuzalweni. Kwaye xa i-bundle encinane yeengubo ikhutshwa esibhedlele, ixesha elitsha lobomi eliqala ngeemvakalelo ezingaqhelekanga liqala nje kuphela ngomntu osandul 'ukungena kweli hlabathi, kodwa kunye nabazali bakhe. Ewe, ukuba ngaba unomntwana wokuqala. Oomama abanamava kunye nabagadi bavele becinga ukuba bafuna ntoni, kwaye balungiselela ukuba baya kufuneka bagxume naliphi na ixesha lemihla baze babalekele ilungu elincinane kunazo zonke zentsapho-ukuba bafumane izizathu zokunganeliseki kwakhe. Nangona kunjalo, ngokuqhelekileyo unina osemncinane ezinyangeni ezimbalwa unokuqikelela ukuba le nto, ebizwa ngokuba "ukusuka kwinqaku yokuqala", kunye neziqu ezingenakunqwenela ...
Izizathu eziphambili
Ukukhala - phantse, ukuba ithuba elilodwa lomntwana weenyanga zokuqala zokuphila ukuxelela umntu omdala ubuncinane into ethile malunga neminqweno kunye neemfuno zakhe. Ngokuqhelekileyo, phawula, ebalulekileyo. Ngoko ke, iingcebiso eziphambili kubazali abancinci akuyikunyamekela loo mqondiso, ukusabela kuyo ngokukhawuleza kwaye akukho nto inomsindo, ungabi ngokumemeza ... Inkqubo yakho yeentlanzi, kungakhathaliseki ukuba yinkxalabo kwaye idiniwe, isagxininisa ukuxinezeleka. Kungcono ukufumana isizathu sokukhala kwaye uqinisekise ukuba umntwana wakho ulungile.
Walamba
Imfuno ebalulekileyo yentsana kukutya. Ukukhala komntwana olambileyo kukukhethekileyo: kuqala umntwana wengwenya, ukhawuleza ngokukhawuleza, kwaye uqala ukukhala-ngokuqhubekayo, ngokugqithiseleyo nangaphezulu. Akukho ncoko-inkolelo ayinakunceda - umntwana unokuphazamiseka imizuzu emibini, kwaye emva koko umbutho omtsha uchaza ilungelo lakhe lobisi. Ngokuqhelekileyo, ukukhala okunjalo kuhambelana nokunyuka kwimilo yomlomo, ukukhangela, "ukukhangela" isifuba - usana luya kuguqula intloko, kwaye ukuba uthetha ngenyameko kwikona yomlomo wakhe - uya kuguqula intloko yakhe eminwe aze azame ukuncelisa. ukondla "ngeyure", ukungaphenduli kwizicelo zakhe zokutya, ngumsebenzi ongenalusizo nangobungozi. Kwiiveki zokuqala zobomi inani lokutya lithembele kuphela kwiminqweno yelungu elincinci lentsapho - ngokuphindaphindiweyo ama-8-10 ngamaxesha, kodwa mhlawumbi kabini ngaphezulu Nguwo kodwa akukho nto inokuncedwa, imvelo ithatha indlela yayo, kunye noomama kufuneka balungele naliphi na ixesha ukuzithuthuzela iinqabunga zabo ezikhalayo ngoncedo lwebele okanye ibhotile. "Phantse ngenyanga yesithathu-4 umntwana uya kuba nolawulo olumnandi kubo bonke abantu. Eli xesha ngokuqhelekileyo abazali bayakwazi ukubona izicelo zezingane kunye neemfuno zabo, bafumana amava kunye nezakhono.
Okwesithathu
Ukuba unina unobisi obaneleyo, ngokuqhelekileyo isidingo sokuba umbane unelisekile ngelixa utyisa, kodwa ngobushushu behlobo, ngokugqithisa ngokugqithiseleyo nakwezinye iimeko, xa umntwana ekhupha kakhulu, unokufuna amanzi abilisiwe. Ewe, ngokutya okufakelwayo, akunakwenzeka ukuba ulungelelanise inani elifunekayo lamanzi kwimimandla, ngoko kunengqiqo ukunikela umntwana ukuba aphuze, xa ecela into ethile, kodwa wenqaba ukutya.
Idiaper engcolileyo
Ukuba ukukhala komntwana kuqhubekayo, ngaphandle kokukwazi ukuphazamisa kwaye ngaphandle kokuziphatha kosesho-mhlawumbi, umntwana unecala nje elingathandekiyo, into ecasulayo. Ngokuqhelekileyo i-diaper emanzi okanye i-diaper, ngoko enye yeentshukumo zokuqala zomama onolwazi olukufutshane nomntwana olilayo ukhangele ukucoceka nokuma kombongolo. Ukujonga kwaye utshintshe i-diapers nge-diapers kuyimfuneko ngokukhawuleza kunokutya-ngenyanga yokuqala yobomi umntwana uhamba ngokuphindaphindiweyo ngamaxesha angama-20 ngosuku, kwaye ukuphindaphinda kwesitoli kunye nokutya okwemvelo kufinyelela kumaxesha ama-5-6 ngosuku. I-diaper engcolileyo idinga ukutshintshwa ngokukhawuleza (kunye nokunyanzeliswa kwengcinezelo yesikhumba somntwana!), Kwaye kwanamhlanje "oomileyo kakhulu" amanzi afanelekileyo athatyathelwe ubuncinci rhoqo kwiiyure eziyi-2-3: ayifumene phantse onke amaninzi, kodwa ukukhupha okukhulu kwesikhumba kwanele ukucaphuka.
Ngxaki
I-gum edibeneyo, iifolda kwi-diapers, i-swaddling eqinile nayo ingabangela isizathu sokukhala. Cwangcisa umbhede, khangela ukuba kukho into ephazamisa umntwana. Kungcono ukunxiba iimvumba kwiimvumba kunye neekhati (izibhambathiso) ezinika ukufudumala okukhululekile, kodwa ungazivumeli ukunyakaza-oku kuya kubangela ukuxhalaba okuncinci, kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu ekuphuculweni komntwana.
Ukushisa nokubandayo
Ukugubungela iimvuthu akunakwenzeka - kodwa, nangona kunjalo, nokugqoka kulula kakhulu. Inkqubo yokufudumala kwangaphakathi kwiintsana ezisanda kuzalwa ayinakwanela ngokwaneleyo, ngoko iintsana ziyavalela nakwiindawo ezincinane zokuguquka kweqondo lokudala. Ukuba umntwana onondliweyo, ococekileyo nomileyo akafuni ukulala, "ukhononda" malunga nokuphazamiseka-khangela ukuba ingaba yanyisa okanye iqhwaqha. Kwimeko yokuqala, intamo kunye nebunzi baqala ukukhukula kanye, kwaye ukushisa komzimba kungakhuphukela kuma-38C, okwesibini, ngaphambi Ukongeza kwiimpahla ezifanelekileyo, kufunekakile ukunyamekela ukushisa komoya rhoqo kwigumbi - kungcono ukuyigcina malunga ne-22 ° C.
Microclimate
Ubhedu abufanele ukuma kwidrafti, kufuphi nefestile, ngokukhanya kwelanga - kodwa ngexesha elifanayo umntwana ufuna icocekileyo, umoya omtsha, abantwana basabela "ngokunyaniseka" kunye novumba olungathandekiyo, belila .Ukuba akukho nto yokunciphisa ukukhanya ekugumbini ngexesha lokulala umntwana - udinga ukuthuba umbhede. Ebusuku, ngokuchaseneyo, kungcono ukushiya ukukhanya kwelanga-ke umntwana uya kuvuka ngokuzamile.
Ukuxhatshazwa
Phantse wonke umama kufuneka ajongane nale meko ngexesha elide: yonke into ibonakala iyilungiselelo, umntwana usondliwa, ixesha lokulala-kodwa kunoko umntwana uyabetha, uyakhala ngokukhawuleza ... Enyanisweni, ufuna ukulala-nje akakwazi ukulala. Kwakhona kunye nathi, abadala, akunqabile, ngakumbi emva kokubonakala okucacileyo, ukukhathala. Yaye imvumba iyinombono - intsha, kwaye isebenzisa amandla ekukhuleni kwakhe okungaqhelekanga. Kulo mzekelo, umntwana uya kufuneka aguqulwe - ahambe kakuhle, uhlale naye, ucinezele, uhlabe, uhlabelele i-lullaby ethule. Kubalulekile ukuba usana luve unina kuye, ukuva ilizwi lakhe elizolileyo. Ukuba umntwana akanako ukuhlalisa - ungayithatha kwiingalo zakho, uhambe kancane, ucinezele kwisifuba sakho kunye nokugubha. Nangona kunjalo, iimvuthu akufanele zihlakulele umkhwa wokulala kuphela ezandleni zabo - oku akuyi kwenza okulungileyo kuye okanye kuwe. Nangona kunjalo, unokugungqa umntwana wakho kungekhona ezandleni zakho kuphela. Iimpawu zangoku, ngokungafani nemidala emidala (kungekhona ngegama eliye lafumana igama labo kwigama elithi "shake" - ukuguqula), alungele ukulungelelanisa oku, kodwa kunjalo, kukho indlela yokukhupha umntwana ongenasiphelo kwiintsapho ezininzi ezincinci. Ukuba, bahamba ngokukhawuleza behamba ngomntwana, ogqwesileyo kubo bonke benendawo evulekile kwaye eqinile, akuyona into elula ukulala kubo ngaphandle kwesibhedlele, umntwana weveki zokuqala zokuphila akakwazi ukukhupha ngaphandle komntwana, kodwa ukumgibisa, ukugubungela nokuhamba buyele Ngaphambili, kuya kuba lula ngakumbi.
Ubuhlungu
Ukumemeza kubukhali, ukuzwakala, ukubhoboza, ukukhwaza kancane. Ngelishwa, iintsana zisenako ukusitshela ngeemvakalelo zabo, ngoko kufuneka uhlolisise indlela yokuziphatha komntwana ukuze uqikelele isizathu esinokwenzeka sokuba intlungu. Ukuba unokrokreka ukuba umntwana uyagula - akudingeki ukuba uhlehlise umnxeba ugqirha, ukwesaba "ukuphazamisa izihlwele." Nangona ugqirha akafumani nantoni na, uya kuba noxolo .Kuba nawe, umntwana usenokuzincama - nabo abantwana basoloko bethinteka kakhulu kwiimeko zengqondo bazali.
Colic
Lezi zibuhlungu emathunjini, zihlala zibonwa kwiimvuthu kwiinyanga eziyi-3-4 zokuqala. Umntwana ngokukhawuleza ukhawuleza, utyhafile, uzama ukugoba imilenze uze ucindezele kwisisu, udibanise. Nangona kunjalo, ukubonakala kwe-colic (ngokuqhelekileyo ngexesha lokutya okanye isiqingatha seyure emva kokutya, ngokuhlwa ngokuhlwa kunye nobusuku) kubangelwa ukuguqulwa komsebenzi wamathumbu, ukungafaneli kwexesha lokuvelisa i-enzyme ngokutya okwandisiweyo kokutya. Nika isandla kwi-colic ne-air input in esiswini ngexesha lokutya, kunye nokwandiswa kwemveliso yegesi. Abantwana abakhethiweyo baya kufuna iimfuno ezikhethekileyo "zokuchasana" ezingavumeli umoya ungene kwisipuni kunye nokutya, kwaye ukuba akukho nanye, zama ukugcina umxube ugcwalisa ngokupheleleyo ingxube ngelixa umntwana esitya kakhulu.
Ukukhusela i-colic, unako ukunika i-teaspoon yamanzi e-dill okanye itiye ye-baby nge-fennel ngaphambi kokutya. Kodwa oku kukuthintela, kodwa kuthekani ukuba i-colic iqalile? Ngoxa iimeko ezingxamisekileyo zeendlela eziphuthumayo - ukusilalisa. Umntwana kufuneka abekwe ngasemva aze ahluthe isisu ngesitomyhi esithambileyo, ngokunyanzeliswa kancinci kwindawo ejikeleze inamba (ngaphandle kwesahlulo esezantsi, ngamanye amaxesha kucetyiswa ukuba ucinge malunga nombhobho womntwana ihashe yeehashe kunye neengcipheko ezijongene phantsi kwaye uhlaziye kunye nomjikelezo wayo). Kwakhona kuququzelelwa ukufudumeza okulula, umzekelo, ukusetyenziswa kwe-flannel diaper efudumele. Unokuwufudumala ngentsimbi. Ungasebenzisa ama-heaters kagesi kumandla amancinci, i-raber "yamanzi" inzima kakhulu ngenxa yesisu somntwana - kubo umntwana, ngokuchaseneyo, isasaza i-tummy phantsi), ityhuna efudumele, njl., Khumbula - into efunekayo kufuneka ifudumele kunokushisa Ukuba i-colic yenzeke rhoqo, qiniseka ukuba udibane nomntwana wezilwanyana.Nokuthi unika amachiza anciphisa umkhiqizo wegesi, kodwa unokuncomeka ngendlela elula, eninzi yendalo - i-enema okanye ipayipi yombesi. nokuba neentloni, okanye usoyika kweemveliso irabha, kodwa engento - ukuba intlungu elibukhali kwi esisu ibangelwa ngumsi Skopje, elula irabha ithumbu ngamanye amaxesha uyakwazi ukuphelisa ukubandezeleka iimvuthuluka ngomzuzu.
Amazinyo
Esi sizathu esinqandekileyo sokukhathazeka kwabantwana. Kodwa ukuba yonke into icacile ngokukhuphuka, kulula ukuyiqonda, ngoko enye yezinto zokuqala zokukhula (ezineminyaka engama-3 ubudala) ihlala inganakwa kwaye ayikhunjulwa ukuba nangona umntwana olambile ngokukhawuleza wala ukutya, uphosa isifuba ngexesha elinye ngokukhamuluka nokukhala. Kwimeko enjalo, oomama abancinci badla ngokukrakra ukuba "bachithe" ubisi, bayesaba ukuba umntwana uya kunqaba ukuyidla konke, njl. Nangona kunjalo, ngokuqwalasela ngokukhawuleza kunokufunyanwa ukuba izilwanyana zilila kwaye zenqabile isifuba kungabikho kwindlela yokutya, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha - ngokuphindaphindiweyo emini kwaye ngexesha elifanayo, kunye nokutya kwebusuku kunokugqithisa ngokucokisekileyo. Lokhu kubangelwa kukugqithiswa kokukhula kwendalo yonke (kunye namazinyo!), osebenza kakhulu emini. Ezinye izibonakaliso zandisa ukonga, ngaphambi kokungena Lka emlonyeni wamancinci amancinci amancinci avela ekumanyeni rhoqo- "ukukhawuleza". Ngokuqhelekileyo le meko ayihlali ngaphezu kweeveki eziyi-2-3.
Uxhala
Ewe, ekugqibeleni, umntwana usenokukhala ngenxa yokuba wayeyedwa, ndifuna umnina, umthando nomthando. Ungesabi ukuphazamisa i-crumb - de kube yinto engenakwenzeka. Thatha umntwana engxenyeni zakho, ucinezele, udibanise. Ngamanye amaxesha imvana ifuna nje ukubona uMama kufuphi nayo, yiva ilizwi layo ukuze uzinqabise. Emva koko, ihlabathi elikujikelezayo likhulu kakhulu kwaye aliqondakali, ngamanye amaxesha lisoyikeka-kwaye ukuba umama usekufuphi, akukho nto iyantyikisayo. Zama ukuthetha nge-crumb, ukuphazamisa umdlalo, "ukunyuka" kwigumbi elilandelayo - kodwa kubalulekile ukuba umntwana uzizwe ngexesha elifanayo ukukhusela kwakho, ukuhlala okuzolileyo .Vala ukuthintana, ukuthembela phakathi komntwana nomama, umkhwa wokufaka inkxaso - , iminyaka emininzi ...