Kodwa ngenxa yezizathu ezithile zobomi bemihla ngemihla yonke into ayikho njalo. Amaninzi emva kokuqala kwesondo kuqala, nangona kubonakala sengathi bathandana. Kwenzeka njani. Ukuba ubuhlobo bokuqala, kunye nomnqweno wokuba kunye kunye bekunye. Kwaye okokuqala, unokuqala ukugqibelela, njani ukwenza yonke into efanelekileyo kwaye yothando.
Ukuba uxelelwa ukuba emva kwesondo lokuqala uza kufumanisa ukuba uyahambelana neqabane lakho okanye awuyikukholwa. Mhlawumbi, kuya kubakho iindibano ezingaphezulu kweyodwa, xa unokuyiqonda. Kodwa kungekhona emva kokuqala.
Kwaye isizathu sokuqonda silula. Kanye ngexesha lesini kunye neqabane elitsha, nantoni na eyenzekayo. Le meko ayimfuneko kwaye awukwazi ukuphumla ngokupheleleyo, uya kuziva unyanzelekile, ixesha. Unokuphazamisa ukungakwazi kwakho oko iqabane lakho likhethayo. Emva koko, sonke siyahluke kwaye iminqweno yethu ayifani nentsingiselo yomnye nomnye. Bonke bayabodwa, ngakumbi kwisini. Omnye onamandla kwaye onobubele, okanye ngokuchaseneyo, ongenasineke. Omnye uyalayo, kwaye umntu uthobela.
Ewe, kukho ukungahambelani ngokubanzi. Umzekelo, isimo sengqondo somntu ngesini. Kukho abantu abafuna isondo njengomoya, abakwazi ukuhlala ngaphandle kwemvakalelo ephakamileyo ngexesha lesini. Ababheki ubomi babo ngaphandle kwesondo. Ubomi babo bunomdla, ukuqhuba kunye nemvakalelo. Ubundlobongela ubomi babo kwaye kunokulandelwa ngokuqhelekileyo kwindlela abagqoka ngayo. Abantu abanjalo bahlala bedlala ngothando kunye nokuphikelela akuzona zabo. Iimvanoveli zabo, njengezikhathi zonyaka, zithatha indawo yazo rhoqo.
Kodwa kukho i-conjugal yesini, kwaye ngokwemigqaliselo yesondo, akukho ngaphantsi. Ubomi obatshatileyo - ezi zifana nezo zesondo kuphela, kodwa zithandana, zithandekayo kwaye zingabi phantsi kwelokutsala. Loo mbini uya kugcina iminyaka emininzi umlilo kunye nokudlala ngothando, ukunqwenela iintlanganiso kunye naso sonke ixesha ukuveliswa kweentlungu. Bayazi kakuhle kwaye sele bekulindeleke iiminqweno.
Kodwa kukho abantu bohlobo oluhluke ngokupheleleyo. Abayithandanga ngokupheleleyo ngesondo. Kubo, kwintsapho yabo yobomi, isondo singento engabalulekanga kwaye ikhetho. Kodwa nabo bavuyiswa ngendlela yabo.
Ngaloo ndlela, ukuba kukho intlanganiso yabantu ababini abanesimo sengqondo esahlukileyo ngesini, ngoko ke iziphumo ezihambelanayo. Kwiimeko ezinjalo, lowo obaluleke kakhulu ngesondo, uqala ukufuna i-adventure kwicala. Ezi zibini aziyi kuhlala ixesha elide kunye. Ngoko ke, uzama ukuqonda ukuhambelana kwakho ngokufanelekileyo ngomhla wokuqala, unokufumana ezininzi izinto ezidakisayo emva koko. Simele silinde, ixesha liyinto enhle. Ukuba emva kokuqala, mhlawumbi nangona kungenakuphumelela kwintlanganiso, usafuna ukuqhubela phambili kulwalamano. Cinga, kuthini ukuba uyayithanda?
Ngokuqhelekileyo, bonke abafazi bayabuzwa umbuzo omnye-nokuba ngaba kanye, ngomhla wokuqala, bavumelana ngesondo. Mhlawumbi kubalulekile ukulinda, ixesha elide. Kwaye, ke, wonke umntu unquma lo mbuzo ngokwabo.
Kwaye abantu bacinga ntoni ngale ngxaki? Kwindoda yesintu kukho ezimbini, kunye nemibono echasene ngokupheleleyo. Isiqingatha sokuqala sikholelwa ukuba ukuba isondo senzeke ngokukhawuleza, ubuhlobo obungaphantsi buya kuhlala. Inxalenye yesibini yamadoda ithi xa kunengqondo yangempela akukho mfuneko yokulibaziseka ngesondo.
Umgca ococekileyo kulwalamano kulula kakhulu ukunyathela, kodwa kwenzeka ntoni emva koko, akakho owaziyo. Izazi zenzululwazi zithi abaninzi abafazi abalala ngesondo ngomhla wokuqala bazisola. Abo balala ngesondo lokuqala bayabantu abathembekileyo.
Ngoku makhe sithethe malunga nokuba sifanele silalane ngesondo, ukuze singadangali.
Emva kwakho konke, akusoloko kusondelelana okuba sisiganeko esibalulekileyo ebomini bakho. Kungenzeka kwaye ukuchasene-ukutshitshiswa nokuhluleka. Okokuqala, ungenzi nto ozozisola ngayo. Kwaye khumbula ukuba awukwazi ukwenza ngaphandle kwekhondom. Khetha umzuzu ochanekileyo kunye ngobumnene, kodwa ngokuqhubekayo, xelela iqabane malunga nalo. Xa kunqatshelwe, cinga ngalo. Ingozi, eqinisweni, yinto ebalulekileyo. Kodwa ngaba ufuna le nto.
Kwaye ngoku ngokuthandana, kuba kufuneka ulungiselele kwaye wenze yonke into enhle kunye nomsondlo ... kwakhona siyakhumbula le movie. Kutheni iifilimu ezinobomi zikhangayo kangaka? Ewe, yinto yonke into enhle, njengowesithombeni, kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo ayifani nokufana nobomi. Kodwa konke kusezandleni zethu. Unako kwaye kufuneka udibanise isondo kunye nokwenza indawo efanelekileyo. Ubundlobongela phantsi kwengubo yintando ebuthathaka. Awubonani, kwaye ngokwenene awanamadoda nje anamehlo. Ewe, unokwazi, ubanda ekhaya kwaye akunakwenzeka ukuba uthandane. Yaye ukuba ubeka isitoreji, okanye ungcono nakwindawo yokucima umlilo ngomlilo. Zombili zothando kunye nomoya.
Uninzi lwaba nesondo ngokuzeleyo, kunye nabasetyhini bayashenxisa imboleko. Zama ukugxeka uguqule ube yinto yokuqala, uze ungabikho uhamba-ze uze ulale. Kodwa okubaluleke kakhulu, shiya ubunxibe emzimbeni wakho, oku kubangalisa amadoda.
Yaye ungakulibali ukuba kwindlu yokuhlala yanamhlanje, umbhede awuyena kuphela indawo yokulala ngesondo. Enyanisweni, ukuba ibhedi i-sex-drom kunye neembhedlele zihambelana nomzuzwana, ke le yindawo ekumele ibe kuyo. Yenza ubuchule, kwaye isondo asiyi kukulibaleka.
Esinye sezihlandlo ezibalulekileyo kwisini. Musa ukulibala malunga neendumiso, ziyamthandana. Thetha ngeemvakalelo zakho. Asiyithandi kuphela amehlo ethu, kodwa iindlebe zethu, ingakumbi abasetyhini. Izwi liyinxalenye ebalulekileyo yesini.
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba ulukhetha luni lokukhanya. Ubundlobongela ngokuhlwa, ngokukhanya okukhanyayo, okanye nokuba bhetele ngamakhandlela okanye ukukhanya kwenyanga, konke oku, okwenene, kumnandi kunye nodade. Fantasize. Ukukhanyisa kuzakutshintsha ukubonakala komzimba wakho, ukukhanya kwelanga kuya kukunika ithuba lokukhulula kwaye uzive unentembelo, kwaye ususe iingxaki malunga nomzimba wakho.
Ukuqulunqa - isigqibo ngomhla osondeleyo kunye neqabane elitsha, uze ucinge ngako. Yenza isigqibo ngokucacileyo. Ingaba, kuba ngoku uyazi ukuba isondo sokuqala singenziwa sibe mnandi kwaye sithandane kwaye sikhumbule ngalo nomphefumlo wakho.