"Asinayo imali yale nto." Uzama ukunyaniseka - emva kwakho konke, akufanele ufunde umntwana ukuba abe nemizwa kunye nokuvumela. Kumele aqonde izinto ezisisiseko zokufunda nokubhala ngezimali kunye nosapho lwabiwo-mali ngaphambili. Kulo kunye nokubamba: i-crumb ayikwazi ukuqonda ingcamango engaqondakaliyo, kwaye umntwana okhulileyo unokukwazi ukujonga ngokwaloo manqaku. Ngokwenyaniso yabantwana, umzekelo, ithoyiyibhile ibaluleke ngaphezu kweerubha yasebusika yemoto. Zama ukunika umntwana ngqo - "siceba ukuthenga, umdlalo wakho usuvele uluhlu - uya kufikelela kumgca".
"Nguwuphi umntu ontle." Ingxaki ayikho kwibinzana ngokwayo, kodwa ngokuphindaphindiweyo kokuphindaphinda kwayo. Ukuba uthe njalo, udala isidingo sokuba uvunywe rhoqo kwintsana. Ukuxhomekeka ekudumiseni kuyisishukumisi esibi: kunokususa ukungaqiniseki kunye nokulahlekelwa ngokukhawuleza kwenzalo emva kobunzima bokuqala. Ukuba awukwazi ukumelana, hlengisa indumiso - kufuneka ibe yinto ecacileyo ngakumbi: "Ndiyithande ukuba ubeka ngokukhawuleza kangakanani iifayili ebhokisini."
"Musa ukuphendula abantu abangabaziyo." Eli binzana alichazekanga - umntwana akakwazi ukuhlalutya iinkcukacha zolu meko ukwenzela ukuba aqinisekise ubuninzi beengozi. Umngane onobungane kunzima ukubona "okubi," kunye nokuvinjelwa ngokupheleleyo ukuqhagamshelana naye nabani ngaphandle kwesiqulana esondeleyo kuya kubangela i-neurosis, ubunzima kunye nokuxhalabisa. Xoxa nomntwanakho malunga neemeko eziqhelekileyo - oko kufuneka uyenze ukuba umntu ongekho ngaphandle uphawule unyango, ucele ukuba akubonise indlela, ubonisa ukuhamba okanye uye kwikona elisondeleyo.
"Musa ukoyika." Enyanisweni, ngaba kukho ibinzana elingenanto elingenanto? Akakwazi ukunqabisa umntu omdala, engakhange athethe nge-crumb. Ukuba umntwana utyhafile okanye uyesaba, wabelane ngeemvakalelo kunye naye, uvelise uvelwano kwaye wabelane ngamava amnandi. "Ndiyakuqonda, kwakufana nam, kodwa ngoku uya kuthatha iyeza / uthetha ugqirha / xelela le ndinyana kwaye konke kuya kulungile."