Iqela lequmrhu: indlela yokuziphatha ngayo?

Ngokumalunga nendlela iholide yequmrhu elichaphazela ngayo idibeneyo, kukho iingxabano ezininzi. Ekuseni umntu uphuthunyiswa, kodwa umntu uphuthunyiswa ngokukhawuleza, umntu ufihla amehlo akhe, umntu uthatha usuku, kwaye umntu uya kummiselo - umphumo unokungafani. Abaninzi bakholelwa ukuba kungcono ukuthetha kunye nokuhlala ekhaya ukuze bangabi nengozi yabo, abanye baqiniseke ukuba ngamaqela asebenzayo akhuthaza ukuqhubela phambili kwi-career kwaye ngoko kubakho kuzo. Enyanisweni, eholidini kunye nabo osebenza nabo akukho nto yatshatyalazayo, kufuneka nje ukwazi ukuba uziphathe ngendlela efanele kwiqela elinjalo.

Yintoni enxibayo?
Lo mbuzo uphethwe yingqondo yabasetyhini abaninzi - ngaluphi uhlobo olufanelekileyo ukuba luvele kwiqela leqela? Akukho zifihli ezizodwa. Ufuna nje ukuthabatha iimpahla ezifana nelo xesha. Ukuba uya kwindawo yokutyela, unokubeka ingubo yokugqoka , ukuba iqela le - jeans yakho endiyithandayo kunye phezulu, kwaye xa uphuma ngaphandle kwedolophu, ngoko kule nto, kubaluleke nje kuphela into ebalulekileyo - iimpahla kufuneka zikhulule.
Akuyimfuneko ukuvela kumaqela ebambisene kwiingubo zangokuhlwa eziphantsi, eziya kulungele ukunikezela ngeNobel Prize, kodwa kungekhona isiselo kunye neglasi yewayini. Iimeko ezingabandakanywayo ziimeko apho i-code yokugqoka ivunyelwe kwangaphambili.
Khetha ezo iimpahla kunye nezicathulo, apho uziva ukhululekile kwaye unesiqiniseko, yenza loo nto yokunquma izinwele kunye nokwenza oko uyenxibileyo. Kodwa yazi umlinganiselo, iingubo ezingenanto zingathintela imifanekiso yakho yezoshishino, ngoko ungaguquli intonga kunye nentambo yesketi. Khumbula, awuyi kuphumla kwisangqa sohlobo, kodwa kunye nabantu abanesikhathi eside ukusebenzisana nabo.

Indlela yokuziphatha?
Ukuqala, cima ukunganeliseki ebusweni, nangona ukuba imbono yeso siqabane ibonakala iyinyumba kuwe. Makube nezinye izicwangciso ngokuhlwa, kodwa kufuneka uvele kwiholide yenkampani, ngaphandle koko ungaphuthelwa ezininzi ezintsha kwaye luncedo kwaye unike ukutya ukuhleba. Xoxa ngokukodwa ngalabo abangenayo, ngoko musa ukufumana ithagethi yokuthetha okungekho nto.
Okwesibini, bukela indlela oziphatha ngayo. Ukuba usebenze kwenkampani ixesha elide kwaye uhlale unomnxibelelwano, ulwalamano oluqinileyo nolwenkxaso olusebenzayo kunye nabo osebenza nabo, musa ukuguqula ngokucokisekileyo amaqhinga. Nangona ngokwenene ungumntu onentlalontle kwaye onwabileyo, ungafaki oogxa bakho ngenxa yokutshintsha kwabo. Hlala indlela ayenzisayo ukukubona, ngoko kusasa akusayi kuba nesizathu sokuphazamiseka.
Ngokuqinisekileyo, uya kuva iindaba ezininzi malunga nokuba zeziphi iintsuku eziqhelekileyo azinakucatshulwa. Musa ukuxhaphaza nokunyusa, ukuphumla, kodwa qaphela ukuba ungangeni kwibali elingathandekiyo.
Okwesithathu, cinga ngezinto oza kuthetha ngazo kunye noogxa bakho. Ukuma ngokuzenzekileyo ngasecaleni akuyi kusebenza, ngaphandle koko baya kucinga kakubi ngawe. Thetha ngomsebenzi uyeke, kungenjalo uya kuthathwa njengento yokuzala. Phakamisa isihloko esingathathi hlangothi esinokuba nesithakazelo kumnxibelelwano wakho - kuba ubuncinane ubuncinci, kodwa uyazi ukuba nomdla ummelwane wakho eofisini. Ukuba awufumani nayiphi iindikimba eziqhelekileyo, nikela abanye indlela kwaye niqhubeke ncokola.
Okwesine, kubalulekile ukugcina ukuthotyelwa. Kucacile ukuba amaqela ahlangeneyo adibanisa, apho kubalwa khona. Ukudala ukungafani kokulingana kukukhanga, kodwa khumbula, oku kuyingcamango. Khumbula ukuba kusasa umphathi wakho akayi kuba ngumhlobo ongcono, kungakhathaliseki ukuba ujonge kangakanani nawe namhlanje. Ngako oko, ungavumeli ukuqonda, kodwa ungabi mthethweni, uhambelane neetoni ezibekwe ngabasemagunyeni. Ukuba umphathi uziphatha ngokungafunekiyo ngokukhululekile, ngokukhawuleza akhuphe ukukhulumisana, fumana isizathu sokuba ahambe, ukwenzela ukuba unomnye umntu. Okufanayo kuya koogxa. Ukuba ngexesha eliqhelekileyo uxhulumana kuphela kwizihloko zoshishino, musa ukugcina ubudlelwane obusondeleyo, ngoko ungathethi. Yonke into oyithethayo iya kuxutyushwa ixesha elide, ngoko jonga ulwimi.
Isibetho esikhulu samalungu amaqumrhu ngotywala. Kungenxa yokusetyenziswa kwakhe okungenakuphikiswa ukuba iintloko zibaleka ekuseni. Kuyaziwa ukuba awona matyala ambalwa xa abo baphumelele baxoshwa ngehlazo. Awufuni ukuba ngumnye walabo abaya kuhlutha ekuseni baze bafihle ngasese - ungaphuzi, kodwa nje uzenza ngathi usela. Nika utywala obukhulu, zama ukululaza iiglasi ezi-2 ukuya kwe-3 zewayini ngokuhlwa. Ukucaca intloko yakho kukuba, ngokufanelekileyo uza kuqonda into eyinyani, kwaye ngoko ke, kusasa uya kuba yintlonelo kubo bonke - awuyi kuba nesizathu sokwesaba ukugxekwa!
Ukongezelela, amaqela afana nomhlaba ovelisayo, apho iireveli zenkonzo zivuthwa khona. Ngokuqhelekileyo ubudlelwane obunjalo abupheli nantoni na enhle, ingakumbi xa kuthandana phakathi komphathi kunye nabangaphantsi. Ngoko ke, gcina intliziyo ibanda, zama ukungahambi nempembelelo yabalingane bakho, ngokuba unokufumana uthando kwenye indawo, kwaye akuyi kuphazamisana nomsebenzi wakho.

Unokuzuza njani?
Iqela elinenkampani linokuba luncedo xa ufunda ukumazi kunye nokuthetha nabantu abalungileyo ongabonanga ngaphambili. Abaphathi kunye nabaphathi, abathengi kunye namaqabane - inceba yazo zonke inokukunceda kuwe kwikamva. Khetha umzuzu ofanelekileyo xa wonke umntu uya kukhululeka aze abekwe ukuthetha, kodwa engakhatywanga ibhodlela elongezelelweyo lotywala, kwaye unyuke!
Ukuba ufuna ukudibana nomntu, vumani nje. Lo mqondiso wokubulisa awukubopheli nantoni na, kodwa uya kunceda ukuphawula.
Musa ukuma kwindawo enye. Uya kuphawula ukuba abantu baqokelelwe kumaqela amancinci, hamba ukusuka kwelinye ukuya kwelinye. Ngoko unokwazi nabantu abaninzi, thetha nabantu obaziyo kwaye umelwe ngabantu abalungileyo.
Ukuba ucinga ukuba akukho nto yokuthetha ngayo nomntu, kodwa akayeki, khawube nomonde, ade kube nomnye onokujoyina. Kwimeko apho, incoko iya kubambisana phakathi komnxibelelwano wakho kunye nomntu ozayo, kwaye unokuthi uhambe, ubhekise kwi shishini.
Ukuba unqwenela ukujwayelana nomntu, kodwa unabo abahlobo, kwaye akukho mntu unokucinga, sebenzisa indlela eqinisekisiweyo. Yiya kwiqela apho umntu oyifunayo khona kwaye ume ngasecaleni, kodwa ukuze ufumane ingcamango yokuba ungowesi nkampani, engekho kude. Ngenye indlela, incoko iya kuqala, kwaye unokukwazi ukuba ngubani owamfunayo ngaphandle kwesithintelo.

Ukuba amaqela oshishino angakunikeli nantoni na, ukuba uqinisekile ukuba awukwazi ukukwazi ukuzilawula, ukuba kukho kakade ubuhlungu obukhulu, unendlela eyodwa kuphela - kulungele ukudlala isigulane ngokukhawuleza. Kodwa uya kulahla ithuba lokubonakala ngakumbi kwaye usondele kwinqanaba elitsha lomsebenzi wakho.