I-romance romance: ingakumbi engasongela yona?

Isibetho esikhulu senkulungwane yethu ukungabikho kwexesha. Umntu wanamhlanje unenjongo ebomini, kwaye ngenxa yoko ulungele ukusebenza njengeNigro kwimimandla: ukususela ekuseni kuze kube sebusuku, ngamanye amaxesha nobusuku. Kwaye ke kuvela ukuba sichitha ubomi bethu obuyingqayizivele kunye nobomi obuhlukile kwindawo yomsebenzi. Kodwa kungekudala emva koko isidingo sothando siza kuthi - kwaye kufuneka kufezeke, njengoko besithi, ngaphandle kokushiya ideskithi yemali: ibid, emsebenzini.

Enyanisweni, yintoni enye enokuyenza ukuba "ukuya kwindawo ethile" kungeyona nto ikhethileyo, kwaye ukuzikhukhumeza ngokukhawuleza kuyeke ukuziqhenya kwaye kuguquke? Apha, uyabona, kunye noLesha (okanye uSerezha) kwiSebe elilandelayo liya kubonakala njengomntu owamkelekileyo!

Mhlawumbi, ukhetho lukhethwa, inzala yomdla, kwavela ekuphumeni kwexesha lesidlo, inkofi eninzi iphuma emva kwengxoxo - ngelizwi, amaqhawe ethu athola ngokuthe ngcembe ukubonana ngaphandle kokuthi, umphathi kunye ne-akhawunti, kodwa njengendoda nomfazi. Kuya kubonakala ngathi - abahlali, amaqabane, iingcebiso kunye nothando. Kodwa hayi: endleleni eya kulonwabo la maqhawe e-romance inkonzo ikulinda iingxaki ezininzi kangcono ukuba zifake inhlanhla.

Ukuba wena sele ufumene iindibano zesevisi ezininzi ngaphandle kwelahleko ezikhethekileyo, wena ngokwakho awunabo ungumzalwana: ngoku ungakwazi ukufumana umsebenzi kwiinkonzo ezizodwa ngokukhuselekileyo. Okanye kwiseksi. Ulwahlulo lwezakhono nolwazi olufunyenweyo ngexesha lomnxeba kunye noqabane, luya kuba luncedo kuwe, zombini naphandle. Kodwa ukuba ucinga nje ukuba ukhuthaze uhambo olufanayo lwe-Lesha (okanye uSergei), funda eli nqaku ngenyameko. Mhlawumbi, ukuqonda ingcamango yento ojongene naloveli, uya kukhetha ukufumana ixesha lokufumana umviwa ofanelekileyo kwenye indawo. Kwaye oku, ngokubanzi, isisombululo esiphezulu.

Makhe sithi awunamahloni nangenxa yokuba awuyi kuba nexesha lokulahla omnye nomnye. Oku kuhle kuphela ngethuba lokuqala: xa ukuqala kweemvakalelo kudlulayo kwaye uyeka ukumangaza ngeengqindi ngexesha okanye emva kokuphela kosuku, ukuxhamla kwexesha elijikelezileyo liqala ukucaphukisa. Kodwa uqinisekile ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba akuyi kukukhathalela - vumela. Konke okufanayo ngaphandle kwakho kukho abanye abantu - oogxa bakho oqhelekileyo. Apha balapha kwaye baya kwenza yonke imizamo yokwenza ubomi bakho bube kunye kunye nobutyebi ngendlela enokwenzeka ngayo. Kuzele kuphela akuyi kuba yinto onokuyithanda ...

Siza kuphawula kwangoko-shishini apha ngaphandle kokuziphatha. Kwakuphela kwixesha elidlulileyo laseSoviet lokuba imicimbi yobomi bomntu wabasebenzi ixoxwa kwiintlanganiso eziqhelekileyo. Abafazi abangalunganga kunye nabasebenzi be-bachelors nabo bahanjiswa: Umsebenzi waseSoviet, njengokuba uyazi, u-asexual, ubizwa ngokuba "ngumhlobo" kwaye akafuni ukuba nolonwabo, kodwa ukwakhiwa ngokukhawuleza kwexesha elizayo. Kwaye ukuba wenza i "cell cell" nomntu, umsebenzi wakhe oyingcwele kukuba wenze umtshato wegolide kunye nalo "mntu". Kwaye idayimani - ukuba impilo iya ku vumela.

Ngethuba lethu kwi-planerki ne-volatki imiba enjalo ayikwazi ukuma-kwaye umbulele uThixo. Kodwa ubeke ingxoxo kumagumbi okudlela, amagumbi okubhema kunye neekhabhinethi. Ngamafutshane, nasi ibhonasi yakho yokuqala: ubudlelwane bakho buya kusenziwa esidlangalaleni, kungakhathaliseki ukuba uninzi kangakanani unobungqina beefihlakeleyo. Omnye umntu uya kuvela okanye afune into ethile (yeyona nto, ngokukodwa ngengozi!) Kwaye uya kuxelela imfihlelo kuphela kubantu abajwayelene nabo. Kwiintsuku ezimbalwa i-romance yakho yebhizinisi ayiyi kuxoxwa kuphela ngabalingane, kodwa kunye nabamelwane kwisakhiwo (ukuba kukho).

Kule meko, enye yemithetho kaMurphy isebenza ngokufanelekileyo: ngokungakumbi ngokukodwa "uyabhalwa", ukutshitshiswa kuya kuba yintsilelo. Njengoko bethetha, ukuba bafihla into ethile, kukho into ephosakeleyo apha! Kwaye ininzi lezinqwenela zakho phakathi koogxa abayi kulukhathalela kwi-akhawunti yabo: bakholelwa ngokunyanisekileyo ukuba uya kubelana nabo ngovuyo okokuqala, ukuba kungekhona kwiimeko zangaphandle zamandla amakhulu. Ngoko ke, ngokukhawuleza malunga nale miba kuya kuba neengoma zonke. Ngokomzekelo, iintsapho zakho ziya kubonakala ngoluhlobo lweMontague kunye neCapeulets. Iinjongo zihlala zilapho: mhlawumbi wakho utata uprofesa, kunye nomkhulu wakhe ebusheni bakhe wayengumqhubi wetrakta ngaseRyazan. Kakade ke, zonke izalamane zivuyiswa ngokungahambi kakuhle kwaye ziceba izinto ezinjalo ezenziwa nguDkt. Evil utyhafile ngokugqithiseleyo.

Ukuba awukho na izalamane, qiniseka, ziya kuza nenye into. Yaye abo bafuna ukuthanda! Yintoni abaya kuthiwa, ngaba bajonga ngayo ngaye okanye wena, banokucinga. Kukho na, imeko encinane ayiyi kubonakala ngathi.

Ngoku sihamba ngokuthe ngqo kwinto elandelayo yenkqubo. Nangona uqhuba kakuhle, unendlela ethile yokuzivikela; kodwa akukho nto ingavumelaniyo, abasebenzi abavela kwingxoxo enomdla baya kubandakanyeka. Futhi ungazikhohlisi ngamathemba angenanto oza kulawula ukugcina ubuso; Nokuba kunjalo, umntu uya kubuza ngokuphandle: "Yenzani le nto kuwe, uLesha akasayi kuba ngumqhubi ongenakudingayo?" Usenayo impendulo efanelekileyo, kodwa oogxa baya kuqonda imeko ngokukhawuleza kombane: abafuna ukuhamba kakuhle baya kuqalisa ukwakha izicwangciso ezihlakaniphile yokudibanisa kwakhona, abenzi bokungalungi, njengokuba kufanelekile, banobungozi, nabemi bengathathi hlangothi - ukuxoxa, ukuxoxa, ukuxoxa ...

Masithi, kunye nabo osebenza naye, uyaqonda: ngenxa yenkcazo enesicaciso, bahambahamba eludongeni kwaye bathule, ubuncinane phambi kwakho. Kodwa nangona kunjalo, uya kuvuya. Ngenxa yokuba umphathi unomona.

Akunjalo ngokwenene ucinga ngayo: ngaphandle kokusebenza kanzima, uneminye iminqweno. Kwaye ngoku ukusuka kwinqanaba labaphathi bakho bebhanki baya kuchaza zombini iimpazamo zakho, kwaye, nangakumbi, ukuphumelela. Ayinayo ixesha lokugqiba ingxelo? Ewe, awukhathalele ngomsebenzi, unento enye engqondweni yakho! Usuleleke kunye nomkhuhlane aze athathe ikhefu lokugula ngeveki? Ndifuna nje ukuchitha ixesha kunye. Ngaba usebenza ngonembeza kude kube sekupheleni? Akunjalo, ukuxabana ...

Ngelinye igama, ngaphambi kokuba unqume ukukhuthaza u-Lesha (okanye uSerezha) ukutshatyalaliswa, lungele ucinge ukuba loo mntu ungomntu onokusebenzisana ngesandla kunye nazo zonke iindidi zehenesi yeofisi?

Kodwa ekupheleni, ngenxa yothando abantu baya yonke into. Ngoko ke, ukuba ngokwenene udalwe omnye nomnye - zonke ezi zinto ezincinci izinto, awuyi kuyeka. Wena ngembeko uya kunqoba zonke iimeko ezinzima kwaye ngoko unako ukuxelelwa ngokufanelekileyo: iingcebiso kunye nothando!