Ukutshatyalaliswa kunye nentlungu.
Ngokuqhelekileyo intombazana ayikwazi ukuyeka, iguqula abantu rhoqo, kuba sele ixhaphazwe ngokwesondo okanye mhlawumbi ixhatshazwa. Kwabani na, iintlekele ezinjalo azidluli ngaphandle kokulandelelana kwaye zishiye umshicilelo ekuqhubeni ubudlelwane kunye nabafana. Xa ukutshitshiswa kudlula, umbuzo uvela: "Kutheni le nto yenzeke kum?". Ngokuqhelekileyo nabani na ovuma ukuba iphoso lixhomekeke ngokupheleleyo kulwaphulo-mthetho.
Uluntu, ngelishwa, lithandekile ukubona ngokuphindaphindiweyo kwimeko kwixhoba kunokuba ixhoba, kodwa umntu oshukumisayo owamgxeka inkohliso. Emva kokuphulaphula "inkcazo" kwesi sihloko, le ntombazana iyayithatha yonke into yokuba yintoni eyenzeka yedwa kwaye iqala ukucinga ukuba ubudlelwane obuqhelekileyo abufanelekanga. Ukuziphatha kwakhe okuqhubekayo kukutshintsha kwaye uzame ukuzikhohlwa. Ukutshintsha rhoqo amaqabane, intombazana ayikwazi ukuphendula ngokuxhatshazwa ngenxa yokwesaba ukuphinda kugwenxa.
Qaphela. Kubalulekile ukulwa, nangona kubonakala ngathi akukho namandla okwenza njalo, awukwazi ukuyeka, nangona bahlekisiwe kuwe! Okokuqala, kulungele ukuxhoma ekamelweni, kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu - ekuzileni, iphosta ephethe umbhalo othi: "Ubomi abupheli!". Okwesibini, thintela ityala lakho. Okwesithathu, akukho mfuneko ukuba uhlale uyiyo, ukuhleka kwentombazana kunzima kakhulu ukusinda. Kakade, musa ukuxelela wonke umntu ngengozi.
Kodwa kummandla ngamnye wethu kufuneka kubekho umntu osondeleyo, onokuthenjwa kuye onokuthembela kuye. Ukongezelela, kufuneka simele sithole ithuba lokuthetha kunye nengqondo yeengqondo, kuba ukuhlekwa ngamantombazana akudluli ngaphandle kokulandelwa.
Isibhengezo esona sikhulu esifuna ukukhokelwa kukuba kukho abantu abalungileyo kunabantu ababi. Kakade, musa ukuzithemba ngokunyaniseka entanyeni yanoma yimuphi umfana endleleni. Kodwa ngelo xesha, musa ukukhawuleza okwenene ukukulungele ukunika iimvakalelo zakho, kungekhona ukuba bonke baya kuhlambalaza. Enyanisweni, ayikho into yokuxelela loo nto ngentlekele yakhe kwangoko. Unokwabelana ngemfihlo yakho nendoda eselula, kuphela emva kokuva ukuba lo mntu kufuneka athembeke kuye.