Inkwenkwe iyaqhubeka iguqa kuyo yonke into eyithandayo. Ngaphezu koko, akusekho nje umlomo ongenawo umlomo, kodwa kunokuba umgangatho uphawule amazinyo amaninzi. Umntwana unomdla ngakumbi kumakhalekhukhwini wam, umgama ovela kude kwiTV okanye kwikhibhodi yekhompyutha. Ukususela kuba abantwana abaneminyaka engama-7 ubudala abanokungaqondiyo, qiniseka ukuba bafihla zonke iipropthi ngeeplagi, ususe zonke izinto eziyingozi ukusuka kwintsimi yokujonga umntwana kwaye uhlanganise iingcambu ezibukhali kunye neengcambu ezibukhali kwifenitshala.
Izakhono ezintsha
Ekubeni iintsana sele zinamazinyo okuqala, ziqala ukuba nomdla kwi-tableware. Oku kubanceda ukuba banciphise inkqubo yokwenza izinto, kwaye oku kuni ithuba elihle kakhulu lokufundisa umntwana ukuba adle nge-spoon.
Kule minyaka, iintsana ziyazi kwaye ziyaqonda malunga nento yonke eyenzekayo.
- Ukuqonda ngokugqibeleleyo intsingiselo yamagama kunye nokubhenela kuye
- Unamathele kakhulu kumama kwaye uqala ukudabuka okanye ukukhala, ukuba uhamba ixesha elide
- Ngaba uyakwazi ukwahlula ubukhulu bezinto kwaye unokubeka encinane into enkulu. Unokuxhasa le mdlalo ngokwenza ibhokisi elincinci kunye nazo zonke iintlobo zentengiso enomdla. Kholwa, intsapho yakho iya kuba nemihlali kakhulu, ihluthe ubuncwane bayo, ibeke ngaphandle kwaye ibuyise ebhokisini eliqaqambileyo.
- Abantwana bathanda ukudlala nomama okanye ubaba wabo kumdlalo odlala indima elula, njenge "Ladushki" okanye "amabhere amhlophe."
- Umntwana oneminyaka engama-7 ubudala uyaphuza ngokukhawuleza kwendebe aze aphenduke emhlane ukuya emzimbeni.
- Unokudlala imidlalo emininzi ngexesha elifanayo kwaye ugxininise ingqalelo kwisifundo esithile. Ngoko ke, akunakwenzeka ukuba uyithabathele ifowuni yakhe kwaye uyitshintshe into efanayo. Indodana okanye intombi iyakubona ngokukhawuleza ukufakwa endaweni.
Iingcebiso zonyango, ukondla nophuhliso
- Ekubeni umntwana usuhlala uhlala wedwa, unokuqala ukuwazisa kwi-pot. Ungalindelanga ukuba okokuqala umntwana uya kuqonda oko kuyifunayo kuye. Ngoko ke ungagxininisi, kwaye ngokukhawuleza ukwandisa ixesha lokuqeqesha, mfundise ukuba abonise oko kufuneka ukuba aye kwindlu yangasese.
- Ukutya kuyahluka kakhulu. Nangona ezinye iintsana ziqhubeka zondla ubisi lwebele okanye imxube, abaninzi abantwana banokufumana ukutya okuhlukahlukeneyo. Ngokuqhelekileyo, ngeli xesha, isigaba sokuqala sesondlo esongezelelweyo sele sidlulile, kwaye ukutya okuninzi kuthathelwa indawo ye-gruel, imifuno okanye isiqhamo se-puree nenyama. Kunconywa ukunyusa umntwana kungekudala, kodwa kwisicelo sakhe.
- Qinisekisa ukugcina ulawulo lomhla. Kubalulekile ukuba umntwana ujwayele ukulala, ahambe kwaye ahlambe ngexesha. Oku kuya kukunceda kuphela ukukhulisa umntwana ophilileyo, kodwa nokukhulula ixesha leminye imisebenzi yasekhaya.
- Qala ukwenza ukuzilolonga okusebenzayo: umzekelo, ibhasikidi, okanye ukuncedisa ukunqumla, ukuxubusha isithende kancane kwaye ugcine isisenqe sokuma kwaye ume imizuzu embalwa.
- Amathoyizi akhetha okunjalo ancedisa ukuphuhlisa izakhono kunye nolwazi lokunxibelelana. Qinisekisa ukuba uqhubeke nokuthetha nomntwana, uxelele ngakumbi nangaphezulu malunga nehlabathi elikujikelezile. Kwakhona, umntwana oneminyaka engama-7 ubudala uyaqonda ukuba "unako" kwaye "hayi".