Ndifuna ukuhamba!
Umntwana ukhula imihla ngemihla, utshintsho, uhamba, ukhangele kwaye uthinte amathoyizi, uphendukela kwi-sopinki kwisisu sakhe, kodwa ukufezekisa injongo yakhe ufuna uncedo. Ukuba umntwana unomdla kwinto ethile, umzekelo, umntu ozayo okanye evela kwelinye igumbi uvavakala isandi esithakazelisayo kuye, ngoko uya kufuna umntu omdala ongayithumela kuyo nayiphi na indawo ayifunayo. Kodwa xa umntwana eqala ukukhwela, ngaphambi kokuvula ihlabathi elitsha kunye namathuba amatsha. Ngokuqhelekileyo, abazali abanomonde bafuna ukubona indlela umntwana ehamba ngayo, kodwa ungagqibi. Kubalulekile ukulinda okufutshane kwaye uhlale kweli nqanaba. Ukubamba iqela liyinxalenye ebalulekileyo ekuphuhlisweni komntwana.
Oogqirha besidanga bathi xa umntwana ekhuba, ikhula ngokomzimba, izihlunu zomelele ngakumbi, ingakumbi imisipha yeengalo, ibhinqa legxala kunye nekholenda ye-vertebral. Ngaphezu koko, ukulungelelaniswa kwezinto ezihamba phambili kuba ngcono, iigundane ziqala ukusebenza, ezingazange zisebenze nonke zide zikhawuleze okanye zingayithobeli ingqalelo.
Eli nqanaba lobomi bomntwana kubalulekile kungekuphela kwembono yeyeza. Xa ukuqhuma kuhamba, kufuneka ucinge, wenza izigqibo ngokwakhe, apho ekhwela khona. Emva kwexesha, uyaqonda ukuba unako ukuhamba, angathatha izinto ngokwakhe, kungekhona nje kuphela ezo zihlangeneyo, kodwa nazo ezikude. Umntwana yena ngokwakhe ukhetha indlela afuneka ngayo ukukhwela. Ngaphandle koko, ufunda ukukhwela kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo. Ukuze abantwana abancinci bafunde ukugcina ibhalansi, oku akuyona into elula.
Le ndlela yokunyakaza ibaluleke kakhulu kwii-oxchromes ezincinci kunye ne-macromotoric. Kusemgangathweni wokukhawulela ukuba ulungelelaniso lwezinto ezihambayo kunye ne-macromotorics lukhula, kodwa i-micromotorics ithuthuka xa umntwana ethatha izinto ezisezantsi, ubeka izibambiso kwiindawo eziqhekezayo, aze athabathe umnqamlezo wesihlalo.
Xa umntwana eqala ukuyiqonda ngokupheleleyo inkqubo, uyaqonda ukuba amacdetshi anganyuka aze aqhube, kwaye unokukwazi ukuhamba ngesantya esithile. Xa eqala ukuhamba, uya kulufuna konke olu lwazi kunye nezakhono.
Unokukunceda umntwana ongafuni ukukhahlela.
- Ukukhulula isikhala somntwana - makhe ahlale ngokuzolile phantsi, ungahlali kwindawo yokudlala okanye ebhedini.
- Hlala phantsi kunye nomntwana - xa eqonda ukuba kufuphi naye ngumntu osondeleyo, kuya kuba lula kuye ukuqonda uhlobo olutsha lokuhamba.
- Dlala nayo ngebhola ukuze ikwazi ukuyiqhawula yona, kwaye uzame ukuyifumana.
- Ngomgama omfutshane ukususela kumntu abeka izinto ezamdla, umzekelo, iimoto, amathoyizi, umyili.
- Ukuphakamisa ngenyameko umntwana ngesisu, udala inkxaso yemilenze yakhe, ngoko uyaqonda ukuba kufuneka ahambe njani.
Ukukhahlela, umntwana uvula ihlabathi elitsha
- Xa umntwana ehamba, uhlola umgangatho womgangatho, ukhumbula indlela izinto ezilungiselelwe ngayo kwigumbi, ufunda ukuhamba kwindawo, uzama ukufumana into enye ngaphantsi komnye, uhlola umzimba wakhe-uthintela indawo ehlukeneyo yomzimba wakhe.
- Ukuqonda okubonakalayo kuphuculwe. Into ebonwa ngumntwana emgangathweni iyahluke kakhulu kwizinto azibonayo kumatshini omama.
- Bobabini i-hemispheres baqala ukusebenzisana. Kungenxa yokuba xa kukhwela umququ, kuhamba ngokukhawuleza kunye nokuhamba kwesokunene nokunene, okanye ngasekunene nasekunene.
- Abaninzi abakholelwa ukuba ukukhwela, umntwana uyakhonkxa isiseko sokuphuhliswa kwentetho, kodwa ukuze aqonde ezinye izakhiwo zegrama zesigama kufuneka zikwazi ukuhamba kakuhle kwindawo.
- Ukukhahlela kuyilungiselela umntwana oko kuza kuhlukaniswa nonina. Ngomnyaka wokuqala wobomi, izazi zengqondo zidla ngokuba zibiza umnina kunye ne "us" nkqubo, kuba zidibana kakhulu kwaye zixhomekeke. Emva komnyaka wokuqala wobomi, umntwana uyahlukana kancinci kumama, kodwa uqala ngento yokuba uhamba kwindlela eya kumama. Ukukhahlela kukugqwesileyo kule ncedisi.
Ekuqaleni umntwana ukwesaba ngesakhono sakhe esitsha, ngokuqhelekileyo eli nqanaba lobomi libizwa ngokuba "ngumbhalo", kuba uhlala ebuza "ipenki." Xa umntwana usuka kumama, kubalulekile ukuba azi ukuba umama akahambanga naphi na, kwaye uhlala kwindawo yakhe ukuze abuyele kuye nayiphi na isibini. Ngokuqhelekileyo kwenzeka into efanayo xa eqala ukuhamba.
Xa umntwana eqala ukuhamba ngokukhululekile, i-zanim kufuneka ibonwe ngokugqithiseleyo. Ngenxa yobuchule bakhe obutsha, ufunda ihlabathi ngokuthe ngqondweni, engacingi ukuba kukho indawo inokuba yingozi. Kule minyaka unomdla kuzo zonke izinto, ngoko unokuba nomdla kwisitya lesithambiso esilulele etafileni, isiteji esikhokelela kumgangatho wesibini, i-glassware, iingcango ezivula kwaye zivale kalula, njalo njalo. Ungashiyi umntwana wedwa.
Ukusebenza okusebenzayo
Ukuzivocavoca # 1. Sisekela izikhokelo ezichanekileyo.
Ukunyuka ukukhwela, kufuneka abe nenkxaso ezinzileyo yezandla ezizodwa kunye nokukwazi ukuthembela kumaphuzu amathathu kuphela. Nge-6months, xa umntwana elele esiswini sakhe, kufuneka akwazi ukuthatha amathoyizi angaphambi kwakhe, kwaye akwazi ukuphakama kwizandla ezichaziweyo. Ukuba inyana yakho ingazi njani, ke uncede.
Yincinci kwisisu, kwaye uxhoma phambi kwedoyi yakhe eyintandokazi kangangokuthi wayencinane ngaphezu kwentloko yakho. Ukuze ufikelele kwinto, kuya kufuneka atyathe i-handle kunye nokuphakamisa inxalenye ephezulu ye-trunk, kwaye isandla sesibini siya kumxhasa. Ukuba umdlalo awunomdla, thabatha omnye okanye uqale ukuwukhupha, ulixhome nge-apom.
Ukuzivocavoca inombolo 2. Someleza i-vestibular apparatus, fundisa umntwana ukuba asebenze xa esesiswini.
Yenza ingubo ebhokheni uze ufake umntwana phantsi kwebele xa ilele kwisisu. Izandla zesaliti mazixhomeke kwi-roller, kwaye imilenze nesisu zisezantsi okanye kwi-sofa. Ngoko umntwana angathatha izinto ezahlukeneyo ngezandla zombini kwaye ngexesha elifanayo vula intloko kuyo yonke indawo.
Ukuzivocavoca inombolo 3. Masifunde encinci kwizinto ezine.
Beka umcamelo phantsi kwesisu sakho ukuze imilenze yakho nezandla zixhomeke kumacala omabini, kwaye isisu sakho nesifuba sisekhosini. Emva koko i-kid ifika nje ifumaneke kuzo zonke ezine.
Ukuzivocavoca inombolo 5. Ukufundisa ukulungisa kwakhona imilenze, ukuma kuzo zonke ezine.
Hambisa umgangatho ophezulu kumgangatho. Ngoku mbeka umntwana ekamelweni lakho ukuze aguqe phantsi, nesifuba sakhe nesandla sakhe sihlale kwigumbi. I-Ava iya kwelinye icala kwaye uzothuthulela ngokukhawuleza i-mattress. Ingane iya kufuneka iguqe ngamadolo, kuba inkxaso yakhe iya kuhamba phambili.
Ukuzivocavoca inombolo 6. Ukufundisa ukulungisa kwakhona umphathi.
Lo msebenzi ulungele ukubeka phezu kwetafile. Phakamisa ingalo yomntwana omnye phantsi kwebele, kwaye okwesibini uphakamise imilenze ukwenzela ukuba iintendelezo ze-smograskrymymi zihlale etafileni. Uze uhambe ngokukhawuleza ukuze ulandelwe. Eyona mphumela engcono, faka ithoyizi etafuleni phambi kwayo.
Ukuzivocavoca inombolo 7. Sifundisa amaqhekeza ukuba atyeke kuzo zonke ezine.
Kulungele ukwenza lo msebenzi uqhathaniswe nomntu. Beka umntwana phantsi emacaleni amane, indoda enye ishukumisa izandla kunye nomnye umlenze. Kule meko, enye ihamba isingatha sesokunxele somntwana, enye izama ukutshiza umlenze wesobunxele, inye yenziwa ngokufanayo.
Indlela yayo
Oomama noomama abaninzi banqabisa ukuba umntwana wabo akayikukhwela, kodwa qalisa ngokukhawuleza. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba umntwana uqala ukuhamba ngexesha elide, uya kufumana yakhe ebudaleni. Ungayisebenzisi kakubi umntwana, ukuba uya kukhwela ixesha elide, kubaluleke kakhulu kuye.
Sonke sidlulile endleleni yethu xa sikwazi indawo, kwindawo ethile kwiinyanga ezintlanu ukuya kunyaka, ngubani ongaphezulu, ongaphantsi. Bonke abantwana bahluke, yingakho bafanele bahambe baze bajikeleze, kwaye wonke umntu uqala ukukhwela ngexesha elihlukile kwaye aqale ukwenza okuhlukile. Omnye uzama ukuqala ukunyuka ngasemva, umntu ohamba phambili, umntu oqala ukulawula kuphela ngendlela ye-plastunist, umntu uhamba uwele, kwaye umntu wokuqala uqala ukuhambisa isandla sokunene nelinyawo lokunene, aze abeke ingalo kunye neenyawo ezisekhohlo. Zonke ezi zikhetho ziqhelekileyo. Ungalindelanga ukuba umntwana wakho uya kuziphatha, njengendodana yentombi yakho, uya kuhamba ngendlela yakhe yophuhliso.