U-kiss akuyena nje umqondiso wokubulela novelwano. Ingqumbo elalayo ekwazi ukuvuka nanoma yimuphi umzuzu kwaye igxininiswe ngumkhukula wothando kunye nemvakalelo engalawulekiyo. Ngokuqinisekileyo, ngexesha lethu akunakwenzeka ukuba umntu uya kukugweba ngenxa "yokukhululeka" kokuziphatha. Yenze isigqibo sokuba uya kumanga ngosuku lokuqala - nguwe kuphela.
Kukho amaqela amaninzi abantu abaneengcamango ezahlukileyo malunga nokuqabana ngosuku lokuqala. iqela lokuqala - abalandeli bokuzonwabisa, apho isenzo esifanayo - into efana nomthombo we-adrenaline, ukuqhuba, ukukhawuleza kwintswelo. Njengomthetho, ezi zinto zingenangqondo kwaye zinobulili, abantu abanomdla. Ukumanga ngosuku lokuqala luyingxenye yokufuna kwabo injabulo. Oku kubangela amandla kwaye kubangela ukukhululwa kwe-endorphins-ihommoni yolonwabo. Baxatyiswa yimvakalelo, isiyezi, inzwa "yamagqabhule esiswini". Ngelo xesha, awanakho ukuxhamla, efuna isondo kuphela kwaye akukho nto. Kunoko! Bayawuthandana abayaziyo ukuyixabisa kunye nokuzonwabisa kwabo ngokupheleleyo.
Enye iqela labantu ngabantu bafuna ixesha lokuba baqonde umntu ngokusondeleyo. Bafuna umqondo wokuthembela kumlingane omi phambi kwabo, kwaye oku akuzalwanga ngomhla wokuqala. Xa beyithembele ngokugcwele kuye - unokuvuma ukuba kungenzeka ukuthandana (mhlawumbi kumana okanye ngesondo). Olu luhlobo lothando, untloni ngendalo, kodwa uluntu, isisa, okholwa ngokunyanisekileyo nothando olumsulwa kunye lokwenene kwaye lufuna ukuba lufumane. Bathemba kakhulu kwaye abayikuthemba umntu xa bengenakunyaniseka ukuba lo mntu uya kuchitha ixesha elininzi kunye naye, kungekhona nje ngobusuku obubodwa. Abaze babonise iqhinga ngobudlelwane obusondeleyo ngomhla wokuqala, kwaye baxakeke kakhulu xa behamba nabo. Oku kusoloko kuyabethusa kwaye ayivumeli ukuba ubudlelwane buqhubeke.
Ewe, uhlobo lwesithathu lwabantu lubizwa ngokuthi "abazingeli". Zisoloko zingenakunyaniseki, ziyazi indlela yokukhetha ikhiye kuye nabani na, ukuba kubangele umhla wokuqala i-trophy efanelwe ukulwa. Abazingeli bahlukeneyo ngokwesini, kodwa bafana nenye into - ekukwazi ukuphula iintliziyo. Bakhetha ngothando "balwa ngaphandle kwemithetho," apho bahlala bewine abaphumeleleyo. Ngokuqhelekileyo, ngokumanga ngosuku lokuqala alukhawulelwanga - olu hlobo luyikhono laba bazingeli.
Ingaba ukuqala kokubamba kungumhla okanye kungenjalo, inxalenye yemoya ixhomeke kakhulu kwiintlobo zontathu ongowakho, kunye neyiphi iqabane lakho iqabane lakho. Okwangoku, uninzi lwabahlobo luzalwa ngokuthintana kwi-Intanethi. Ukuba uhambelana nomntu kwiiveki ezimbalwa, utshintshana iifoto, uthetha kwifowuni, mhlawumbi uvakalelwa kukuba uyamazi lo mntu iminyaka emininzi. Yaye xa uyibona okokuqala ngqa "uhlala" - oku, eqinisweni, akuyi kuba ngowokuqala usuku lwakho lokuqala. Emva kwakho konke, sele uyayazi lo mntu uphezulu kunabo baninzi abaye bahlangana ngethuba kwindlela engaphantsi okanye kwiqela. Kwaye kulo mzekelo, kubangelwa kwaye kuyimfuneko, njengobonakaliso owakuthandana ngokwenene ekugqibeleni.
Ukumanga ngosuku lokuqala kunokuthetha izinto ezahlukeneyo, kwaye kunokubangelwa zizifiso ezahlukeneyo. Kwabanye, oku kukucima ukulamba ngesondo kunye nokuthanda komntu omtsha, kwaye kwabanye kuba yi-adventure yangempela kunye novavanyo. Kukho nalabo abathandanayo ngokuqhelekileyo, ukuba "i-chemistry" yeemvakalelo, akukho nto ekhethekileyo. Inyaniso idla ngokude kangangokuba "u-formalist" ongenalo uthando.
Yintoni ekufuneka ibingane ngosuku lokuqala?
Abanye abantu bacinga ukuba ngumthetho wokumanga ngosuku lokuqala, kodwa phantsi kweemeko ezithile. Baxhamla ukubaluleka okukhulu kwiintlobo zokubanga kwaye bajonga ukuba kufanelekile ukuba bahlule kwaye basebenzise ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo kwiimeko ezahlukeneyo.
- Ukubamba esihlathini kukubonakalisa ubungane. Akunakukwenza ukuba udideke okanye, ubuncinci, umomotheka. Ukubamba ehlathini kunokuthetha ukuba ngumhlobo onobuhlobo, kodwa abanye abantu abathandana nabo bayakuthatha ukuthatha "Ndiyakuthanda". Nangona ngamanye amaxesha kunokuba kunjalo.
- Ukumanga entanyeni, njengommiselo, usoloko unomzimba obusondeleyo. Ayikwazi kwamkelwa nayiphi na enye indlela "Ndifuna ukuqhubeka nobudlelwane." Unokuba neentloni, uqaphele, unomdla okanye ngokukhawuleza, kodwa le nto isoloko isalathisi sesifiso sesini.
- Ukumanga emlonyeni - ukukhawuleza emlonyeni kuthetha ukuba ekugqibeleni uguqulela ikhanda lakho kwiqabane lakho kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo ufuna ukukubona ngokuphindaphindiweyo. Oku kunikeza ithemba lokuqhubeka kobudlelwane.
- Uthando olunomdla ngolwimi luyinto eshushu, ende, enomdla, ngokuqhelekileyo isandulela ngesondo. Awukwazi ukumelana naye. Kwaye kwithuba lokuqala, ulwalamano lwakho luya kumgangatho omtsha. Emva kokumangalela iqabane lakho ngale ndlela, uya kumxelela ukuba uyavuma. Oku kufana nabantu abanomdla kwaye abanomdla, lo kumanga kubangele iimvakalelo kunye ne-adrenaline. Le yinyango yangempela eninzi, kuxhomekeke kuyo ngaphandle kokunyangwa nantoni na kwaye.
Elifanelekileyo ixesha neendawo zokubanga ngosuku lokuqala
Kubantu abamahloni nabathandana abavame ukucinga, indawo efanelekileyo yokumanga isilwandle ngobusuku obucacileyo kwindawo evulekileyo, okanye ngasemva kwe-Eiffel Tower, okanye ngaphantsi kwemvula yasehlobo phakathi kwesitalato. Kubantu abafanayo apho umbuzo othi "nokuba u kumanga umhla wokuqala" uhlala unempendulo efanelekileyo, apho iintlanganiso kunye nokubanga yindlela enye yokufumana ulonwabo ebomini - nayiphi na indawo ilungele ukubamba ukude, ukuba zombini amacala ayifunayo. Ukususela kwindawo apho uqala ukuwanga, kuncike kakhulu, kodwa kuninzi kuxhomekeke kwinto ozifaka yona kuyo.
Ukumanga ngosuku lokuqala kulungeleleneyo, njengemvakalelo ekhonkco kunye nokungafani nakwezinye izinto zokubanga. Umnqweno wokumanga ngosuku lokuqala kulukhuni ukunqoba, ngoko akudingeki ukuba ulwe nalo mnqweno. Ukunyaniseka nawe-vumela ukuziva kwakho! Kwaye ukubuyisana ngokukrakra kuya kuba kukunqoba kwakho.