Njengomntwana wakhe wesikhathi esizayo, unokukhawuleza ukulila ifilimu edizayo okanye ufumane into emangalisayo kwisiganeko esiqhelekileyo ebomini bakhe, ukuthukuthela encinci okanye ungayiqapheli inzondo enkulu. Akusoloko kulula ukukholisa umfazi okhulelwe ngesipho. Ukuba awuhambelanga ukhetho lwakhe kunye nokunyamekela okhethekileyo, ngokusekelwe kwingqwalasela kummkeli ngokwakhe.
Isipho esibalulekileyo.
Nangona ngexesha lokukhulelwa, abaninzi abafazi banokutshintsha kakhulu into yabo yokuthanda, banokuthi bathathwe ngemisebenzi abangazange bayithabathe kubo bonke okanye bayalibala ngokupheleleyo ngokuzilibazisa - bayakwazi ukuxabisa izinto ezincedo. Ngokweziphumo zophando lwakutshanje, iingcali ziye zazimisela ukuba iimammies ezizayo ziyingqayizivele kangangokuba kuzo zonke iimvakalelo zabo, ukuziphatha kakubi kunye nokungaqondakali, zihlala zifuna ukujonga izinto ezininzi. Abafazi abanjalo baqonda ngokucacileyo ukuba badinga uncedo baze bamkele olu luncedo ngokubulela.
Ngenxa yoko, isipho sentombazana ekhulelwe, ekwazi ukwenza lula ubomi bakhe ngoku okanye emva kokuzalwa komntwana ngokuqinisekileyo iya kumkholisa. Ingaba i-blender, i juicer, iliso lomntwana kwintsana ezayo okanye enye yezixhobo zonyango zanamhlanje, umama olandelayo uya kuba mnandi kakhulu. Kukho iindlela ezininzi zokukhetha isipho esifanelekileyo-ukusuka kwizinto zokudlala kunye nezinto ezahlukahlukeneyo ukuhlobisa umntwana ozayo, ukuba zibonelele izixhobo zasemakhaya ekhaya, kwiincwadi ezifundisayo, kwiimpawu zokuzicoca, zenzelwe ukomeleza impilo yomama omncinci kwaye yenza lula indlela yakhe yokubuyela kwimigangatho yabancinci abancinci kunye nabancinci.
Kodwa asimele sikhohlwe ukuba isipho esihle kunoma yimuphi umntu into ekhethiweyo ngeengcinga malunga nayo. Ngokukodwa lo myalelo wegolide ufanelekileyo xa ukhetha ukumangaliswa kumfazi okhulelwe. Ukuze umkholise ngesipho esibalulekileyo, kuya kuba kuhle kakhulu ukucinga. Kusemngciphekweni okwaneleyo ukunika into kumama ozayo, engazi nto nhlobo. Emva kwakho konke, nangona ukutshatyalaliswa ngokukhawuleza kwezinto ezinqwenelekayo kwiindawo ezithandwayo zokuba neenkolelo, abaninzi banako ukwesaba ukukhanda iinwele, badonsa iinwele zabo, bathathe imifanekiso okanye bathenge izinto zexesha elizayo ngaphambi kokuba bazalwe. Kwenzeke ukuba abafazi banomdla kwaye nangona ukuba isibonakaliso esaziwayo asisebenzi, impilo yengane iya kuhlala isengozini kweli phepha - ngenxa yokuxinwa kokuqala komama.
Unako ukunika izinto kumntwana ozayo, kuphela ngokuqinisekileyo kwaye uqinisekile ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba umfazi okhulelweyo akakholelwa kwisibonakaliso malunga neengozi ezinokuthi zinjalo izenzo. Kuyafana nantoni na into edibanisa umntwana kunye nonina-isistim sokuphulaphula intliziyo, iindlela zokuhlamba umntwana okanye ioli kwesikhumba somntwana nonina.
Isipho somphefumlo.
Ewe, izinto ezincedo ziya kubonwa ngethuba lomama, elibizwa ngokuthi "Hlabalaza." Kodwa izipho ezithandekayo zintombazana ekhulelwe yi-gizmos engahambelani nokukhulelwa, eyenzelwe ukunika yona kuphela, ukuzisa ubomi bakhe isikhumbuzo sokuphela kwesithuba salo xesha, xa umntwana ehlala kumama kwaye ehlukanisa ubomi bodwa zibe zimbini: unina omkhulu kunye nomncinci - omtsha ilungu loluntu.
Kodwa nakhona kuyimfuneko ukuba wenze ngokucophelela ngokucokisekileyo. Emva koko, umfazi okhulelwe unomdla kakhulu. Ngokukodwa kwezo zinto apho kuvela khona ukubonakala kwayo. Ngoko ke, ukumnika izinto zokwenza i-professional-form okanye indlela yokulwa ne-cellulite-inqabile. Kanye kunye nento ehambelana nezinto ezithandwayo zangaphambili. Kungenzeka ukuba ngexesha lokukhulelwa akukona ukuba washiya into yokuzilibazisa, kodwa wakhutshwa ngengqondo yesikhashana yokunyaniseka okukhulu.
Ngaphambi kokuba uthenge isipho somntu esivela kwintombazana ekhulelwe, kufuneka ufunde ngokucophelela iziganeko zayo zangoku. Kwaye, xa ufunda nabo, unokumkholisa kuyo yonke into. Ukuba unxanxu lobugcisa luvuswa kuye, umele umkhuthaze ngokubonisa i-brush kunye ne-easel kumculi, isibonelelo sokutyhila umdwebi oqalayo, okanye ithikithi yenkcazelo yomsebenzi wombhali ukuba ngaba umama ozayo uya kuthathwa ngumlingani.
Isipho somphefumlo sihle, kwaye ixabiso layo alisoze labalwa ngeendlela ezityalomali. Ukuba intombazana ekhulelwe iyakuthandana kakhulu ngamaqanda ahlambulukileyo kunye namaqabunga kunye neetatayi, nokuba isidlo esithandayo siphekwe sakusasa siza kuba sisipho esilungileyo kuye. Yaye ukuba uhamba naye ngamagama afudumele okanye iindwendwe ezincinane ezongezelelweyo, ngoko ke lo wesifazane okhulelweyo akayi kukulibala.
Into ephambili yokukhumbula xa ukhetha izipho ezifunwayo kumama ozayo yinyaniso elula: ukuba isipho siba nemfudumalo yeemvakalelo, ukumomotheka kunye nombono wokubhiyozela, ngoko ke ngowona nto ibhetele, eyona nto ibumnandi kwaye ikhunjulwa kakhulu. Ingakumbi ummkeli womzwelo, njengomama ozayo.
Isipho sokuyalela.
Akungathandabuzeki ukuba into enokumangaliswa yinto enhle. Kodwa ngowesifazane okhulelweyo kubalulekile ukuqwalasela enye ingongoma ebalulekileyo: akekho owaziyo iminqweno engcono kunayo. Kwaye akunakwenzeka ukwaneliseka ngokupheleleyo, ngaphandle koko, ngaphandle kokuzalisa isicelo sakhe. Ngoko ke, ukuba umfazi ngokwakhe uvakalise isipho esithandayo, ngoko akudingekile ukuba yongeze, iguqule okanye iphuculwe. Simele sihambe kwangoko kwisitore kwaye sithenge kanye into ayifunayo. Kwaye ukunika isipho kumntwana okhulelwe kungcono, ngaphandle kokulindela isizathu esisemthethweni. Kwaye emva kokuthengwa. Ingqiqo yexesha kwabasetyhini abakhulelweyo yinto eyahlukileyo. Ngamanye amaxesha ihora lihamba njengemzuzu, nangona engenzi nto into ebalulekileyo okanye inomdla. Ngaphantsi kaninzi - ngokuphambene noko: imizuzu eyi-10 yokugqibela, kungekhona ngaphantsi kweeyure ezimbalwa.
Lo mbandela udibene nenyaniso yokuba, okokuqala, intombazana ekhulelwe ihlala ixubusha into ebalulekileyo kakhulu - isekela ubomi kwaye ivuselele ukuphuhliswa kwengane yakhe, kwaye okwesibini, isebenza ezimbini kwaye idinwe ezimbini. Ngenxa yezi zizathu, kwaye utshintsho olunjalo kwiimeko zakhe. Kwaye ngenxa yabo, kuyimfuneko ukumnika into ayifunayo ngokukhawuleza emva kwesicelo. Ukuba nexesha lokumkholisa, kude kube nomnqweno uthathe indawo entsha.