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Kodwa ngaphambi kokuba ulahlekelwe yintliziyo, kungcono ukujonga ngapha nangapha, jonga ngapha - ngaba kuyinto embi ngempela? Okanye mhlawumbi siyanxusa abanye kwaye sifuna kakhulu thina? Kungakhathaliseki ukuba yintoni, enye into iyinyaniso - akukho mntu onjalo ongafuni ukuba yinto evuya kakhulu. Ngoko ukuba njani kwaye uhlale uvuyayo?
Sonke siyazi ukuthetha kukaKozma Prutkov: "Ukuba ufuna ukuvuyiswa, makube njalo!" Kwaye ngokwenene, le ngcamango iyimpahla. Eyona nto ingundoqo! Kwaye la akuwona amagama angenanto, kuba kungekhona nje ingqondo, kodwa kunye neengcali zefiziki ziza kwimbono efanayo ukuba eli ngxelo liyinyaniso. Udinga nje ukukholelwa kuwe, amandla akho, kholelwa ukuba uye waba kwaye uhlala uvuyayo. Khawucinge ukuba unombane, umbane wezinto zonke ezilungileyo, eziqhakazileyo, ezingcono. Zonke iingcinga ezimbi kunye neengxaki ezincinci kufuneka zixoshwe kuwe (ngaphandle koko umphumo wamagnet uya kuphahlaka kakhulu). Kucacile ukuba ubomi luyinkimbinkimbi, kwaye yonke into ayinakulungele ukuhlala. Kodwa nakwiimeko zokungaphumeleli, zama ukubheka phantsi kwabo kwaye uvumeleke ukuhamba konke ukuphazamiseka nokungahambi kakuhle. Uya kubona ukuba yonke into ayimbi kangangoko ibonakala. Ukuba unamandla okuqhubela phambili (kuba awuzange uwachithe amava angenalutho). Ulonwabe - ngokwenene uziva kwaye ufikelele kubantu abonwabileyo (kungakhathaliseki ukuba i-paradoxical ityandi). Ngoko ke, okokuqala, zihlengahlengise kunye neengcamango zakho zokonwaba. Wonke umntu unelonwabo: indlu, imoto, umvuzo ophezulu. Into ephambili, kwiinkcukacha ezincinci, kukucingela ulonwabo lwakho kuyo yonke into - imoto, kakuhle, yintoni umbala, uphawu, ubungakanani bombane, njl. yonke into, ukuze uvuyo lwakho luyazi ukuba apha konke kulungele kuye. Ngaphezulu, ingaba njani enye kwaye ibe yinto eyonwabileyo?
Ukongezelela kwiingcamango zokufumana ulonwabo, umzekelo omhle unceda, okanye nje "imodeli ebonakalayo yolonwabo" - into ebonakalayo, ichukumisiweyo. Ngokomzekelo, uphupha ukulahlekelwa ubunzima. Thatha isenzo! Qala ubuncinci kunye nenyaniso efumana umfanekiso (kumaphephancwadi, amaphephancwadi) ofuna ukuyinqumla kwaye uyayinqumla, uze ufake isithombe ebusweni bakho. Enyanisweni, kule meko, kuya kuba mnandi ukuxhoma into kwifriji emoyeni "akukho mthombo wolonwabo", ngoko ke, ngaphezu kweemeko zakho, usenokufumana inkxaso ekubonisweni kwakho kunye nezinye izikhombisi-ndlela ezithambileyo.
Ewe, mhlawumbi akuyiyo yonke into eya kusebenza okokuqala, ewe, kunokungathandabuzeki kunye nezihlandlo zokungakholwa. Kodwa kufuneka uqine. Emva kwakho konke, oku akuyona yokuqala kunye neengxaki zokugqibela ebomini bakho - yonke into ixazululwa! Kufuneka uqiniseke ngokupheleleyo ukuba yonke into iya kusebenza kuwe kwaye akukho nto iya kukuphazamisa. Simele sikholwe! Khumbula ukuba, kwelinye lala mafilimu (ifilimu yadutshulwa ngokusekelwe kwiimvelaphi zangempela), umfana omncinci, ekungeneni kwengozi, wayephelelwe ebhedeni. Intombazana yakhe ethandekayo icebise kuye ngokuthi "isilungiso saseJapan esilondolozayo", esiza kuyiphuza kanye ngosuku, iya kubuya kwaye iya kuhamba. Wahamba! Kwaye kwakukho amanzi aqhelekileyo kunye noshukela kunye ... nokholo, ukholo olukhulu.
Ukuba mnandi kakhulu kunzima kakhulu. Into eyona nto kukukholelwa kuwe, ukuzithandayo. Oku kuya kukwanela ulonwabo. Ewe, akufanele sikhohlwe ukuba ulonwabo alonaxabiso kuphela. Ukwenza okulungileyo kwaye uyayifumana ngokubuyisela kuyona lonwabo olukhulu, ngakumbi kwihlabathi lethu elikhohlakeleyo. "Ukuba ufuna ukuvuyiswa, yiba njalo!"