Imvakalelo ye-Blackmail
Ukuba umntu uyakumnyama ngeemvakalelo zakho, ngoko akufanele unqabile kwizinto ezinjalo. Xa umfana uthi uya kukuyeka ukuthanda okanye uthi ungamthandi, ngenxa yokuba awuyikuzalisekisa i-whims, kukho isigqibo esisodwa - awuyidingi. Ubuhlobo obunjalo abuzange bube khona kwaye abuyi kuba buqhelekileyo. Ngoko ke, akudingekile ukuba ulungelelanise kwaye uvelise into engekho ngokwenene. Abantu abanobubi nabakhohlakeleyo kuphela abahamba phambili. Ngaphandle koko, abantu bahlala banika abo bathandekayo inkululeko yokusebenza. Ukuba uqaphela ukuba umfana uhlala ezama ukukuphatha nge-blackmail, ngoko uyamdinga ngenxa yezizathu zezihluthuzelo, kwaye kungekhona ngenxa yokuba uyakuthanda. Mhlawumbi loo mfana ufike ngomfanekiso kwaye uzama ukulinganisa nawe. Kule meko, uyayithanda intombazana yakhe ephuphayo, kodwa awukhathalele ngokwenene iimvakalelo zakho neemvakalelo zakho. Into efanelekileyo kakhulu nje ukuba ingabikho kwi-blackmail. Mhlawumbi umntu uya kuqonda ukuba wenza okungalunganga. Kodwa kuninzi, kuya kufuneka uyingxenye yayo. Uze undikholelwe, oku kuya kuba yindlela echanekileyo. Kungcono ukuhlupheka namhlanje kunokuba uhlupheke kunye ne-blackmailer ebomini.
Linganisa ilahleko ezikhoyo
Ukuba ngumbuzo we-realmail, xa usongelwa kwaye uthembise ukuba uyonakalise ubomi bakho, ukuba ngaba awufezekisi iimfuno, khawuleza uvavanye ilahleko ezikhoyo. Khumbula ukuba abaxhasi bangeke baqiniseke. Umzekelo, ukuba uthe wamnika imali kanye, ngoko uthembisa ukushiya wedwa - ungakholelwa. Bonke abantu abaphazamisi ukufumana imali elula, kodwa bayimiswa yimigaqo yokuziphatha. Abantu bathanda iqabane lakho abanalo ukuziphatha konke. Baya kuza kuwe ngokuphindaphindiweyo, kwaye ngasinye sicelo siya kukhula. Ngoko cingisisa malunga nokuba ungayinikela kwi-blackmail.
Okwangoku, unokucinga ukuba awukwazi ukwenza okunye. Kodwa oku akunjalo. Abafana basithembisa ngokucacileyo ukuba baxelele iinkcukacha ezintle zobomi bakho. Kule meko, intombazana nganye iqala ukuxhalaba malunga nokuba ngabahlobo nabazali bayakucinga ntoni ngaye. Ungalokothi ukhohlwe: abo basithandayo baya kuqhubeka bebathanda, nangona xa sikhubekile. Ngoko ke, ukuba uqinisekile ukuba intsapho kunye nabahlobo bakho bayakuthanda, ke akufanele ucinge ngento ebenokuthi i-blackmailer ithinteke ngayo ubudlelwane babo. Ewe, unokuba uhlekisiwe kwaye njalo, kodwa akukho mntu uya kukukhanyela. Uze undikholelwe, ukuba kulungile kwizinto zonke ukuvuma kubazali kuqala, kuya kuba ngcono.
Kungakho nokuba awuqinisekanga ngothando lwentsapho kunye nabantu. Kulo mzekelo, ungayithobeli ingqalelo kuwo onke amazwi ala bantu. Abahlobo abanjalo abayimfuneko kuwe, kwaye ukuba uthetha ngabazali bakho, kungcono ngemali oyinika umlawuli, ususe indlu yakho kwaye ubaleke kubo kunobomi bakho komnye umntu, kuxhomekeke kuyo. Qonda, ukuba abazali abanakukuvuma ngeempazamo zakho, ngoko ke abantu abanjalo abafanelanga ukuya kwimibingelelo efanayo yeerdishes. Khumbula oku kulandelayo: kungcono ukuba yedwa, kodwa ukuba ube ngowakho, ukukhohlisa ekukhohlisweni kokuba nosapho kunye nabahlobo, ngelixa unomntu ozoyikwesaba umntu ebomini bakho bonke.
Bazalwana abathandekayo
Ukuba uthe wawela ezandleni zabanye abaxhamli, kodwa unabo bazalwana abazithandayo, zonke iingxaki zixazululwe ngokukhawuleza. Musa nje ukucela abafana ukuba bancede. Nangona baxela wena, vseravno ngoodade, nawuphi na umzalwana "uphula" umoni. Ngaphezu koko, abazalwana abazali, ngoko kulula ukuba baxelele okwenzekayo. Ndikholelwe, kule meko, amandla angamadoda angundoqo anokusombulula ingxaki. Lowo ongaphandle, ngokwenene, unobhongo kwaye unobuthathaka. Banokukuthusa, kodwa ukuba batyelelwa yinkampani yabaselula abaqonda ngokucacileyo ukuba loo nto ingayi kubakho nantoni na into efanelekileyo, phantse njalo amadoda ayesaba kwaye ayikhohlwe ngawe. Amantombazana amaninzi, abhekane ne-blackmail, benza enye impazamo enkulu - ayathula. Oku kubi. Yilo hlobo lokuziphatha olubalekayo kumnyama. Uqinisekile ukuba uya kunkwantya, awuyi kuthetha nantoni na, kwaye ngokufanelekileyo, akuyi kubakho mntu unokukhusela. Ngoko ke, kuya kuba yinto emangalisayo kumntu oza kubazalwana bakho abaza kubakho nabo. Kwaye emva kwexesha elifutshane, kodwa ingxoxo eqhubekayo, inokwenzeka ukuba, i-blackmailer iya kutshintsha ngokukhawuleza ingqondo yakhe malunga nokubhubhisa ubomi bakho kwaye iya kukunyamekela imicimbi yakho, kwaye uyibale ngokulungileyo.
Unganqikazi ukufuna uncedo kwi-arhente yokunyanzelisa umthetho
Khumbula ukuba akusiyo yonke i-blackmailer engasuswa yedwa. Ngoko ke, ukuba uyazi ukuba umntu akanelisekanga kwizenzo zakhe, kungekhona wena kuphela, kodwa kunye nabathandekayo bakho, unokulimala-qhagamshelana namapolisa. Kwaye ngaphambi kokuba utshele intsapho yakho. Njengoko uyazi, amapolisa, ngokuqinisekileyo, asikhusela, kodwa akunjalo njalo, ngoko ndiyakuthanda. Ngoko ke, ukuba uyaqonda ukuba imeko iphuma ekulawuleni, yeka ukuzama ukulungisa into ethile. Qonda ukuba esikhundleni sokuphuma, uya kuqinisa ibhola ngakumbi. Ngoko musa ukuchitha ixesha lakho kwaye ungenzi izizathu zakho. Akuyena wonke umntu onokuchazela into ethile, kodwa wonke umntu unokunyanzelwa ngamandla. Kwaye ukuba wenza njalo ngendlela efanayo, ngoko unelungelo lokuphendula ngendlela efanayo. Ngoko, kungakhathaliseki ukuba ulihlazo luni, hlawulela intando yakho ibe yintonga uze uye kumapolisa. Ndikholelwe, xa umntu enenkathazo nge-psyche, unako ukuhamba nantoni na. Kukho iimeko xa abaxhasi be-blackmail bafikelele ekubulaweni kwamaxhoba abo okanye bawazise ukuze abantu bazibeke izandla. Akukho ntloni ebuhlungu ngaphezu kokulahlekelwa yimpilo yomntu, intando yakhe kunye nobomi bomntu. Ukuhlazeka, unokugijimela kwenye idolophu okanye nakwezinye ilizwe. Abantu abajikelezileyo basasazi ukulibala yonke into ngexesha elifanelekileyo. Kodwa ukuba impilo yakho iyabuhlungu ngenxa yehlazo okanye ulahlekelwa ngumphefumlo wakho, akukho nto inokumiselwa.