Ziziphi iimpahla zokukhetha, ukuya kumhla wokuthandana

Wonke umntu uye wawazi ixesha elide ukuba ayinxibo ebalalisa umntu, kodwa izenzo zakhe. Enyanisweni, unako ukuqokelela ixesha elide kwaye uhlale ukhangele kwiintaba zeengubo kwiikhabhinethi kwaye ngoko awukwazi ukufumana ukuba uhambe ngosuku lomtshato. Ngumhla njani ithuba lokuba uzibonise kwaye ubonise kuyo yonke inkazimulo yayo.

Nangona kunjalo, xa uhamba nomhla wokuthandana, ungakhohlwa ukuba ukuthozama kunxibe umntu, ngoko phambi kokuba uhambe ngosuku kufuneka ucinge ngokucokisekileyo ukuba ugqoke njani ngomhla kunye nokuba uziphathe njani, ukuze ungamangalisa umfana wakho ozayo mhlawumbi nomyeni wesikhathi esizayo. Ngoko konke okufanayo, yiyiphi impahla ekukhethiweyo, ukuya kumhla wokuthandana kwenkundla ukuba unamathenda wesitayela somsebenzi, kwaye uyazi apho unamenywa khona (oku kukuthi ukuba uya kwindawo yokutyela, i-opera, ithala okanye enye indawo yothando, njl.), Ngoko kufuneka ukhethe iingubo ngokwemiqathango yokugqoka yimboti, oko kukuthi umnyama omnyama okanye ungengubo omnyama. Kuye phantse bonke abesifazana, kubonakala ngathi buhle kwaye buhle, ufanele uthathe isigqibo malunga nobude beengubo kunye nesitayela. Ihlala ihlala kwimoya, iyenza intombi ibhinqa, ngokuqinisekileyo unokwenza umbala. Zama ukukhetha omnye umbala onjengobohlaza obumnyama obumnyama kunye nomnye ongekho umbala oqaqambileyo. Unokukhetha kwakhona iseshishini seshishini ngesitayela esinefashini kunye neebhulukhwe okanye i-skirt yobude obuphakathi, kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo ayikho imiqondiso ecacileyo.

Kodwa, njengommiselo, konke kuxhomekeke kwiminyaka yabantu abaya kule ntla nganiso. Abantu abadala bakhetha ukuya kwiivenkile okanye kwiindawo zokuzonwabisa kunye nokugqoka okungakumbi kunye nangokuthobeka. Ulutsha ngokuqhelekileyo luya kwi-cinema okanye kwi-discos, uya kuvuma kwi-suit kwi-disco awuyi kujonga kakhulu, kwaye ukudanisa akunakulungeleka. Ngoko ke, ukuba uya kwenye indawo (oko kukuthi, ezo ndawo zichazwe ngasentla) apho isakhiwo esiqinileyo sambatho singamkelekanga, kwakhona kwakhona umbuzo uvela: yiziphi iimpahla zokukhetha, uhamba ngomhla wokuthandana? Iyakwazi kwakhona i jeans yeklasi kunye nesibatho esincinane apho ubonakala umangalisa, kuba ijee ezikhethiweyo zigxininisa zonke iintsimbi zakho: kunye nemilenze emilenze kunye neesile. Kubo unokongeza i-blouse (le nto ingaba yindoda ephezulu ye-sexy okanye i-shirt classic, iqhosha eliphezulu apho "ngokuqinisekileyo" ulibale "kwi-zip") kwaye ungeze isithende esiphezulu ukuze ugcizelele ukuvumelanisa kwakho. Ukuba awunalo umfanekiso ogqwesileyo ugqoke iimpahla ozijonga kakuhle kwaye ucinge ukuba impumelelo iya kuba kwicala lakho. Ingongoma ebaluleke kakhulu kwindlela yakho yokusebenza: ungaxhomeki kuzo zonke iindawo zakho zokugcina zegolide, ubonakala uhlambalaza into efanelana nesimo sakho nomfanekiso wakho namhlanje. Musa ukuzisa isikhwama esikhulu kunye nawe ukuyeka ukukhetha kwakho into encinane, kuba namhlanje unomntu ongathandana naye, umfazi onokukhuseleka kwaye ongenakukhuseleka. Kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu, ungayikhohlwa, xa usenza umhla wokuthandana, gqoba i-underwear ehle kakhulu enokuthi (xa kunjalo) kuba nguThixo kuphela owaziyo okuza kwenzeka kumhla wokuthandana. Kuloo nto uya kuziva unentembelo kwaye akukho nto yokwesaba.

Kwaye okokugqibela ukuzaliswa kwezi zingentla: icebo: ungagqoki, njengokungathi uzinikele kuwo wonke umntu ohlala kwigumbi elifanayo kunye nawe, vumela zonke iingcambu ezifihliweyo zomzimba wakho zifihliwe emehlweni abantu abangaziwayo, kodwa zifikeleleke kumbono osondeleyo. Musa ukugqoka izinto ezixabisa kakhulu kwii-boutiques ezibiza kakhulu. Umfana wakho unokucinga ukuba awukwazi ukuyithengisa kwaye kuya kumsondeza ngonaphakade, kuba kuye kuya kuba mnandi ukumangaliswa. Fumana isitayela sakho esiyingqayizivele kwiingubo, ukuze ungabonakali njengazo zonke izinto, kodwa ukuba uphume kwi-mass mass kunye nebala kunye nezembatho kwiingubo. Yaye ungakulibali malunga nokuzenzela makube lula kwaye yendalo, yayihlala isithanda abantu.