Kodwa njengaye wonke umntu: usapho, ikhaya, umsebenzi, abantwana, indoda ....
Kodwa kutheni ingcamango efanayo iya kukugubha ixesha lokugqibela lokuba into ephosakeleyo nentsapho yakho. Uqala ukucinga ngako, uqala ukukhangela umyeni wakho, mhlawumbi akayena "loo" ... kwaye ukhathazeke kakhulu ngawe, iyacaca nje ngemini. Indoda oye wahlala nayo iminyaka emininzi, okhulisayo nabantwana, kunye nabo, njengokuba besithi, badla i-pud yetyuwa kwaye malunga nantoni na, uyazi konke, ngokuzenzekelayo utshintshe. Okanye mhlawumbi kungekhona ngokukhawuleza, ixesha elide kakhulu awuzange umkhange ngenyameko kwaye ungayiqondi isizathu sokuba umyeni wam uthelekise nabanye besetyhini.
Eli lixesha lokuqala lokuhlala kunye, ufuna ukukholisa umyeni wakho, uxwayise yonke iminqweno, ubambe, yonke into yalo. Kwaye-ke-ke-ndazifundela, ndayifumana. Kwakukho abantwana abafuna ukunakwa kwaye wena nonke uthando lwakho nomsa, yonke ingqalelo yaphonswa kubo. Ewe, kuthekani ngomyeni, ngoko umyeni wakhe, oko kusele.
Kwaye ngoku, ngokukhawuleza wabona ukuba umyeni wakho uhlala, njengokungathi, ubomi bakhe obuhlukile. Unobomi bakho, eqhelekileyo kwaye oqhelekileyo kumfazi-ekhaya, intsapho, umsebenzi, abantwana. Futhi unayo eyakhe, nayo indlu, umsebenzi, abantwana, intsapho .... Yiyo kanye apho kule ntsapho yindawo yakho, awukwazi ukuyiqonda.
Uye wanyamekela umyeni wakho, ukuba uqaphele ukuba kuphi na oko akwenzayo, oko akutshoyo. Kwaye ndazibona ndaza ndafumanisa ukuba unomdla kakhulu kwaye unomdla. Ngokuqhelekileyo kwingxoxo yakhe indoda iyaqhathanisa nomhlobo wakho omdala kwaye, ngaphezu koko, ukuthelekiswa akukho kwicala lakho. Ngubani na onokumthelekisa naye, kodwa kungekhona kunye nentombi, leyo, ekungatshintshweni kwendoda yakhe kwaye ungayithandi. Wayengamthandi, uyazi ngokuqinisekileyo. Akazange akuthande xa efika kukutyelela, kwaye akafuni ukutyelela indlu yakhe. Kwaye ngokukhawuleza indumiso enjalo kwisikhokelo sakhe, ngoko uyazi indlela yokwenza ngcono, ke oku. Kwaye ukuba intombi ingatshatanga kwaye ingaba nabantwana abathathu, zonke ezo zidumo zingabalwa ngenxa yeempawu zokunakwa kwindoda yakho, kwaye ziba zizathu zokuba nomona.
Kwaye kwenyuka ngakumbi, indoda yakhe yaqalisa ukudumisa ummelwane ukusuka emnyango ongummelwane. Yena, kuvela, wamhlangabeza ngethuba, xa ehamba nendodana yakhe epakini. Wacela uncedo, kwaye umyeni wakhe wamnceda. Yena nentombi yakhe bamema yena kunye nendodana yakhe endlwini yakhe. Baba ngabahlobo. Ngaba ukuziqhelanisa kwakukho isizathu sokonwaba kwakho? Ewe, kufuneka uvume, kukho into ekukhathazayo.
Indoda ikuxelela malunga nomfazi omhle ummelwane, yintoni inomdla onomdla naye, ngelixa ebonisa ukuba nawe sele uyilibale xa uthetha ngexesha lokugqibela, ngaphandle kwabantwana kunye nemali esetshenzisiweyo. Kubonakala kuwe ukuba enye yezona zizathu ezibalulekileyo ukuba kutheni umyeni wam uthelekisa kumfazi othile.
Umlingane wayehlala edibana nommelwane, ehamba epakini nendodana yakhe. Emva kwezi ntlanganiso, wabuyela ekhaya wayenomdla waza waqala ukuxelela ngale ntokazi. Ngendlela emangalisayo ngayo, kunye nendlela angenza ngayo oko kwaye.
Nangona konke oku, ukuziphatha kwakhe kwintsapho kwahlala okufanayo. Njalo kwixesha elivela emsebenzini, ngeveki kunye nabantwana kunye nawe, ekhaya yonke into oyifunayo kwibhanti. Iimpawu eziqhathayo kuwe, hayi, hayi.
Kwaye kwaqala ukubonakala kuwe ukuba umyeni wanyamekela. Ukuhlala nawe wedwa uthanda kakhulu. Kodwa ingqalelo kunye nomsa wakhe, emva kokuthelekiswa nommelwane wakho, yaba yiponsi yeoli kwiomlilo.
Uye wanyamezela yonke le micimbi kunye ne-dithyrambs yommelwane ixesha elide, kodwa ngelinye ilanga wayengenakukuma kwaye wayichazela yonke into kumyeni wakhe. Yonke into ocinga ngayo ngolu hlobo. Ufanele unyaniseke ubuncinane phambi kwakho, awuzange uthethe, kwaye walungisa isityholo waza wanikela kumyeni wakho, "... kuba kukumangalisa kangaka, ngoko uphume kuye. Kutheni uhlala kunye nam? "Ngaba akunjalo?
Nguye kanye loo nto. Kwaye andifuni ukuma ngapha. Kwimeko eyenzekayo kwintsapho yakho, nguwe wedwa kunye nomnye umntu onokusola.
Ewe, kwinto eyenzekayo, kukho iphoso lomyeni wakhe. Akufanele ukuba abekho, ngoko ukutsala ingqalelo kwinto enokuyenza ngayo umfazi ngale ndlela. Kodwa ndicinga ukuba uphelile nje ngokuhlala, edlala indima ephakamileyo ebomini bakho. Waphinde wafuna ukunakwa kwakho nothando. Kwaye akayikucinga into engcono ukuphinda uqaphele, indlela yokukwenza ube nomona.
Kwaye waphumelela, akunjalo? Nangona mhlawumbi ucinga ukuba le nto ayibukhwele, kodwa nje uvakalelwa ngumsindo. Kumele ube mnandi kakhulu - umama onomusa nothando, umfazi wendlu enhle, umkhandi nompheki, uthelekiswa nommelwane. Mhlawumbi, kukho into enokuyithelekisa nayo? Kwaye ungazami ukucinga ngombuzo, kodwa mhlawumbi umyeni wakho ulungile. Mhlawumbi, uyenzile, kwaye inyaniso ilungile, kodwa kungekhona nje ngokuba indoda yakho yayiyithanda.
Ewe, wayefuna ukuthetha nawe. Ukuhlala kwaye ukhumbule indlela abahlala ngayo kwiminyaka yokuqala yomtshato wakho. Ukutsho ukuba ubuhle kangakanani emva koko. Inyaniso yokuba uyaxolisa gqitha ukuba ulwalamano lwakho ngoku lukhulu kakhulu kuloo bushushu, kungabonakali uthando. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba ufuna ngokwenene ukubuyisela yonke into kunye nokufudumala nothando. Kodwa akazange akwenze, kodwa wenza oko wakwenzayo.
Ewe, kwaye wena, wena! Kutheni ungazange umxelele ukuba akunakubuhlungu ukuba uphulaphule xa udumisa umntu, ngelixa unciphisa isidima sakho. Kutheni ungathuli? Uphose ebusweni bendoda yakhe, ngoko wahlambuluka kwenye, ulungile, wakwazi, kodwa wayengenakuthetha nabantu.
Okanye mhlawumbi kwakungekho umona? Mhlawumbi nje umthandi?
Khumbula, kuba xa wamtshata, ngenxa yokuba uyamthanda. Wayemthanda kwaye wayefuna ukuhlala emthandweni bonke ubomi bakhe. Khangela emva, jonga ebomini, uhlala ndawonye, khumbula ukuba wawuhlala njani kunye, de uvumele ubomi, ubambe ubuhlobo bakho obuhle kunye nothando lwakho. Yaye ukuba indlela eya kuwe isapho lwakho, uthando lwakho. Ukuba ufuna ngokwenene umyeni wakho, mhlawumbi kufuneka ucinge ngeembono zakho ebomini. Ukubuyisela ingqalelo yakho kwindoda yakho, uyijikeleze kunye ne caress efanayo kunye nokunyamekela. Yaye ukholelwa lwam amava, umyeni wakho akayi kuqala ukutshata kwiipaki kunye nabasetyhini abangatshatanga, abayi kudunyiswa esibhakabhakeni. Yaye ukuba uthelekiswa nomntu, kuphela ekuthandeni kwakho.