Imiba ephambili yosuku olufanelekileyo

Umhla o gqi Unokuqiniseka njani ukuba intlanganiso iya kukhunjulwa ixesha elide, ishiya nje imizwa emihle? Iinjongo zifikeleleke njani?

Kukho iingcamango ezininzi malunga nesi sihloko. Abaninzi bakholelwa ukuba le nto ingummiselo ongabonakaliyo ukuze ufezekise. Abanye banciphisa umlinganiselo wentlanganiso efanelekileyo kwiisethi eziqhelekileyo zezitampu ezamkelekileyo, ezifana neentyantyambo, i-cinema kunye ne-champagne. Kukho imvelaphi ehudula i-satellite phezu kwephahla kwendlu okanye ematongeni, ngamanye amaxesha angabuzi ukuba ulungele ukufumana izinto ezinjalo.

Kweminye, izinto eziphambili zosuku olufanelekileyo yindawo okanye indawo yokuzonwabisa, umntu othile emoyeni, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha ukubonakala kwawo.

Ngokuqinisekileyo, konke kuxhomekeke kwiminyaka yobudala, ngokwesini kunye nemikhwa, kodwa kukho imigaqo ethile eyintloko apho unokuvavanya indlela ukuba intlanganiso ibe ngayo.

Kukho imigaqo emininzi kunye neengcebiso eziyiluncedo kummeli nawuphi na wesini. Baya kunceda ukulungiselela ngokwaneleyo naluphi na ukuhlwa kobubele.

Okokuqala, le yindawo. Ukuba unomqeshwa, cinga ngesiphumo ongathanda ukufumana kuye kunye nokuba unqwenela kangakanani ukuba uhambelane nezicwangciso zexesha elizayo. Xa kwiingcamango zothando, iintambo ezibhontayo kumdlalo webhola ziya kukuthintela ukuba ungabonakali iimvakalelo zakho. Musa ukumema umntu omde ukusuka kwiprayinti ukuya kwigalari. Khetha ezo ndawo apho bobabini uya kuba nomdla. Kwakungenjalo ukumema umntu ongabhemi kwigumbi elinomoya ophuculayo.

Ngaphambili, xelela iqabane lakho malunga neprogram yokuhlwa. Umfanekiso omhle weklabhu ulungele imidaniso yokutshabalalisa, kodwa akunakulungele ukuhamba ngokukhawuleza ujikeleze isixeko. Ukuba uceba iholide esebenzayo, qaphela ukuba yonke into ikhululekile kuwo wonke umntu, lumkisa kwangaphambili.

Njengendawo yosuku lokuqala, i-complex ye-cinema engqongqo iya kuba yinkcaso. Iifowuni ezijikelezayo ziza kunceda ukufumana isihloko kwingxoxo, xa ingxoxo ingabanjwanga. Umdlalo odibeneyo kumashishini wokuthengisa uthetha ndawonye.

Umoya udlala indima enkulu ngomhla. Ukuba kukho ukungqinelana emoyeni, iintlanganiso ezilandelayo zingenakwenzeka. Ngoko ke, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba uzive uqinisekile. Ngenxa yoko, kuyafaneleka ukunyamekela, okokuqala, ngokubonakala kwakho. Akuyimfuneko ukulungiselela ukuwamkelwa no-mkakazikazi. Ukubonakala kakuhle, iinwele ezicocekileyo kunye nococeko, kungekhona iimpahla zokuzikhusela - into oyifunayo. Musa ukulibala ngezicathulo. Zama ukungagqoki izicathulo ezintsha okanye ezingahambi kakuhle. Imilenze ehlanjulweyo ingaphazamisa isimo sengqondo kungekhona kuphela kuwe, kodwa kwabanye. I-gait ephahlayo ayifaki ukupenda nabani na. Kwakhona, izinto ezinobungozi kumhla zingaba ziqhumiso ezibukhali kakhulu, umculo omnandi kwindawo oye wagqiba ngayo ukuya kuyo, imenyu engenakudlula kwaye, ngokudabukisayo, ifowuni yakho yeselula. Unxibelelwano oluqhubekayo, ukuphazamisa ingxoxo, bayakwazi ukwenza ingelosi inkomo evuthayo. Faka ifowuni kwimodi yokuthula kwaye uyalibale ngalo lonke ixesha leentlanganiso. Ngaphandle koko, uya kuba nombono malunga nawe njengomntu ogula kakhulu.

Madoda, musa ukulibala malunga neentyatyambo. Awudingi ukuthenga iziqhumane ezinkulu eziphazamisa umngcwabo wakho, kodwa akufanele uzinciphe kwi-rose enye. Ukwakhiwa kweentyantyambo ezincinci kunye nesicatshulwa kuya kukholisa umhlobo wakho kwaye ubonise ukuthanda kwakho kunye nokuqonda kwento yonke ekuzukeleni kwayo.

Ladies, ekupheleni kwexesha elide ngaphandle kwefashini. Mangaliswa ngumntu onobubele, kufika ixesha. Uya kuphazamiseka kuloo ndawo.

Imvakalelo emihle, ukuzithemba nokunyaniseka komnye nomnye yizona zinto eziphambili zomhla olungileyo. Zama ukulibala ngoku kwaye emva koko, intlanganiso nganye ayiyi kukulibala kwaye imilingo.