Idolophu yasekhaya, yayikuphi ukuvakalelwa kwindlu?

Umzi wasekuhlaleni, apho ukulahlekelwa kwintsapho yalahleka khona, ngenxa yokuba uvela ebuntwaneni ucinga ukuba, phantse "umntakwabo oyintloko" wesixeko sakho sasekuhlaleni. Ukuba umntu akayithandanga apha, ndandikulungele ukuphikisana ngokukhawuleza, ndikhusele umzi wam. "Kodwa ke wayengazange ube nexesha lokukubona kakuhle! Hamba ngezitrato ezisekuqaleni-sinalo moya othulileyo! Idilesi kubantu abangabaziyo ngombuzo - nonke niya kucacisa ngokobubele! Unendawo ethanda kakhulu - amagceke othulileyo kunye negadi zasemhlabeni, apho uhamba khona kwiimvakalelo eziphazamisayo. Kwaye kwakunomvakalelo wekhaya apho uziva ungcono kwaye unokuqonda iimvakalelo zakho. Ngokuqhelekileyo, njengoko bethetha, "iindonga zanceda" ... Kwaye wawuthandwa kakhulu kwisixeko sakho sasekhaya kunye nomvakalelo wekhaya kulo.

Kwaye ngoku umzi wasemzini , apho wakhulela khona, uye waba ngumntu ongekho ngokupheleleyo kuwe. Ngokwiminyaka embalwa! Njengokuba umntu osondeleyo utshintshile kakhulu kangangokuthi awuyi kumbona kwakhona, kwaye esikhundleni sokumxhasa nokumkhusela, uhlasela ngolunye uhlobo olungenakuqondakala. Awuyena omnye walabo abagxeka abo baqalayo kuzo zonke iingxaki, becinga ukuba bangabantu bokuqala. Kodwa njani uchaza oko kwenzekayo? Uhambe edolophini lakho, apho ulahlekelwe yintswelo yendlu - awukwazi ukukuqonda. Ngoku kukho inqwaba yeemoto, izihlwele, zixhaphalana, abantu ... Ngaphambi kokuba, waziwa ngabamelwane ngokwabo kunye negama. Abantu bahamba bavakatlana, bavuyisana kunye nemizi. Kwaye ngoku i-"candle" ephezulu inamathele kwindlu yakho - kwaye igceke sele ibe "uhlobo lwe-pandemonium yaseBhabhiloni". Akukho mntu ubingelela nabani na, bathabatha iifenitshala endala ngqo kwiibhedi zeentyatyambo ... Abantu bazizwa belahlekile ekhaya. Kubo, eli likhulu lehostele enkulu, apho yonke into ihamba ngexesha kwaye akukho mntu.

Uhambe edolophini lakho , wangena kwelinye le "ndawo ezifihlakeleyo", apho ungazange ube khona ixesha elide. Yaye wayethusa! Apho kwakukho iindundeni ezindala kunye neebhentshi, ngoku kukho "ibhokisi" ebalulekileyo, kunye nesitalato esincinci, apho kwakukude kakhulu ukuzulazula, ungayigxininisi sele uhamba ngasecaleni lendlela ... kwaye le yithuba lokuqala ucinga ukuba kufuneka uhambe ukusuka emzini wakubo, apho ukulahleka kwendlu kwalahleka. Luhlobo luni lobomi obu, xa imihla yonke iphenduka ingcinezelo? Ukuza nje ukusebenza kungumdlali wangempela. Izihlandlo ezintathu kuza, amaxesha amahlanu uxabana ... Esikhundleni sokuhlala kunye nokucingisisa - i-clock-hour clock. Njengokuba zijikeleze ukhuphiswano apho wonke umntu ekhwela khona-kwaye akaqwalasele abo bajikelezayo. Uyabhubha. Uyaqonda ukuba iingxaki zibaluleke kakhulu, kodwa kuwe, okwenzekayo ngaphaya kufana nokulahlekelwa ngumntu onentsingiselo kuwe.

Abahlobo bakho bathuthela kwidolophana baza bakubiza. Kodwa ukwesaba ithemba lokuguqula ngokuphawulekayo indlela yobomi, umsebenzi, imikhwa, isondo santlalo ... Nano kunjalo, ungumntwana wesixeko esikhulu. Usetyenzise ukuthuthuzela, ufuna ukuya kwimiboniso kunye neekonsathi. Unomama kunye nabahlobo abasondelene nabantwana apha. Uluhlobo olulondolozayo. Kunzima ukuba "uhoxise kwindawo yobundlobongela". Ngamafutshane, uvakalelwa phakathi kweenhlalo ezimbini - kwaye ebomini obudala awunelisekile, kwaye isiqalo esitsha sinoyikekayo ... Indlela yokufumana kwakhona iimvakalelo ezingekho ekhaya?
Konke oku kungikhumbuza ihlaya elidala apho ukunganeliseki kubuza i-agent yehambo: "Unayo enye ihlabathi?" Ukuba ubalekela iingxaki zengingqi ngoku, kwindawo entsha, mhlawumbi uya kufumana abanye. Kubonakala ngathi awunaso ixesha elifanelekileyo lobomi bakho.

Ngako oko uxhalaba , ukucaphuka kunye nomnqweno wokubalekela kwindawo ethile. Ukubuyisa umva wekhaya yinkqubo ende kwaye inzima. Kufuneka uqale ngokusombulula iingxaki eziqokelelweyo. Ukuba uzisa umyalelo ebomini bakho bobuqu, ukuphazamiseka kwesixeko kuya kuphelisa kakhulu ukucaphukisa, kwaye ukulahlekelwa kweendawo zakho ezizithandayo akuyi kuzuza ukubaluleka kwendawo yonke. Ngexesha elide, ukuqonda kuya kuza ukuba umntu akafanele abaleke, kodwa ekude angakhusela indlu yakhe.