Iingcebiso zendalo yonke indlela yokwenza iholide enomdla kwaye ayikhunjulwe nayiphi na umntu osekhulile, ahla, ayikho. Emva koko, omdala umntu, unamandla ngakumbi. Ngako oko, ukubhiyozelwa kwentsapho kufuneka kulungiswe, kugxininise kwimeko yomsunguli wokubhiyozela. Okona kubalulekileyo kuza kuba izipho ezibizayo kunye netafile ecebileyo - "ukuze yonke into ifana nabantu." Yaye enye ngenxa yezipho ezibizayo iya kuthukuthela nje: "Oo, kutheni beyichitha, kodwa andiyidingi nantoni na?" Omnye ugogo uya kusela utywala aze ahlabe phantsi kwe karaoke, kwaye omnye umfazi osekhulile uya kuvuya xa yakhe indlu i-hairdresser iya kuza kwaye imenze i-hairstyle enhle kwiholide elifanelekileyo kubantu abadala.
Xa uceba ukubhiyozela intsapho , qwalasela abantu abadala. Kunzima ngathi ukuba samkele ukuba abazali baqala ukudala - bayakhohlwa, bathathele ngokukhawuleza, musa ukuthanda izinto ezintsha kunye neentloni, bakhube phezu kwezihlunu okanye ngokukhawuleza baqale ukuba bangenangqondo, njengabantwana. Musa ukucaphukiswa yilo. Ukubambisa iholide ngaphambi kokungazange kubakhuphe uxolo kwengqondo, kungcono ukuxwayisa kusengaphambili malunga nomcimbi wokucwangciswa.
Ngokuqinisekileyo abazukulu bazazi kangako malunga nokuba oogogo nomkhulu bahlala phi ngaphambi kokuthatha umhlalaphantsi. Ngoko ke, ilungiselelo leholide kufuneka liqale ngokuqokelela ulwazi. Konke okunokwenzeka, funda malunga nexesha elidlulileyo lamalungu akho asebekhulile: apho ugogo wazalwa waza wakhula, oko abazali bakhe bakwenza. Wathini na apho wadibana nomyeni wakhe wesikhathi esizayo. Wasebenza njengomkhulu, apho wayekhonza khona. Funda ukuba iziganeko ezichaphazela lonke ilizwe zichaphazele njani iimeko zabathandekayo bakho. Jonga iifoto ezidala kunye, ncedise ukuzinqumla ngomnyaka nangesihloko, ukuba akukwenziwanga. Yiba nengqiqo kunye nobuthathaka. Wonke umntu ebomini uye waba neziganeko ezibuhlungu okanye ezingathandekiyo ukuba azikhumbule. Kodwa wonke umntu unokuziqhenycela: umzekelo, waphumelela esikolweni ngendondo, wayenomkhukula ekuthunjweni, wathatha inxaxheba kwi-KVN yokuqala. Izatifikethi, i-gratitudes, idiploma, ama-award kunye neemali zihlala zihlala kwikhefu, zingalindelekanga. Buza izihlobo zakho ukuba ziphi iingoma eziziphulaphule, yintoni amafilimu ayeya kwixesha elininzi kangangokuthi bafaka itafile ngexesha lobutsha babo. Ngaloo ndlela uya kukwazi ukuba ungamkholisa umntu omthandayo!
Iingcebiso zokupheka kunye nodokotela
Xa uhlela iholide, qiniseka ukuba uqwalasela isimo sempilo yomntu osekhulile. Ukubonelela ukulungiselela ukugubha kwengqondo. Xoxa nogogo nomkhulu imeko oceba ngayo, imenyu kunye nobude bomcimbi. Abantu bakho abadala kufuneka bakwazi ukuzilungiselela ngokuziphatha, babuthele amandla. Akunakwenzeka ukuvumela olo vuyo olonwabileyo, lubangelwa ingqalelo jikelele, luphelelwe yinkinga enkulu. Nanku, nokuba umangaliso unokuba ngumonakalo, kwaye iinyembezi zokubulela kunye nothando ziba yintlungu okanye, ngakumbi, ukuxinezeleka. Abantu abadala bakhathala ngokukhawuleza, kodwa bahlala beentloni ukubonisa. Musa ukuzibeka kwiimeko ezihlazo: gcwalisa iholide ngaphambi kokuba umbhiyozo uphume ngamandla. Ukuba kukho ngaphezu kwe-70, kuyimfuneko ukubonisana nogqirha oza kubangela indlela yokwenza imithwalo yomzimba kunye nengqondo.
Kubalulekile ukwenza imenyu efanelekileyo
Umntu okhulile, oye wamisela ukutya okunzulu, kuya kuhlambalaza ukuhlala kwitheyibhile yokutya, ungakwazi ukuthambisa ininzi yeesitya. Kwaye ukuba ulwaphulo luvumelekile, kungcono ukuba usemncinci, ubhekiselele kwimpilo yakho, ukuba ube neqela leti. Ingaba umgwebi weso siganeko unesifo sikashukela? Gubungela itafile usebenzisa iimveliso zokutya kuphela. Namhlanje, abantu abanesifo sikashukela bavelisa amaqebelengwane amnandi, ii-cookies kunye neesekese abantu abazithandayo.
Iholide ngokwemibhalo
Kwaye ngoku sibonelela ngeemeko ezininzi zeeholide ezifanelekileyo kubantu abadala, ezinokubakho njengendawo yokuqala yokucinga kwakho.
Iifoto zengxelo zentsapho
Iholide ixhomeke kwixesha elibalulekileyo ebomini bomsunguli wokubhiyozela kwaye kuquka ukusetyenziswa kwezithombe. Umbhiyozo kufuneka uqhutywe kwintsapho encinci, kodwa ngokubakho ngokuthatha inxaxheba kuzo zonke izizukulwana zentsapho kunye namalungu ayo amatsha-umalokazana, onyanazala. Phakathi kwinqanaba lokubaluleka kubaluleke kakhulu kwi-biographe yomkhulu okanye umkhulu-ntombi, oboniswe ngeefoto kunye namaxwebhu. Kuya kukhangeleka enkulu inkcazo yekhompyutheni, kuboniswe kwisikrini seTV. Kule nto, iifoto kunye namaxwebhu aya kufuna ukukhishwa kwangaphambili kunye nokucutshungulwa ukuphucula umgangatho womfanekiso. IiNkonzo ezinje zibonelelwa ngee-studios ezininzi zeefoto. Omnye kufuneka aqiniseke ukuba umntu osekhulile, ekhangele kule miifanekiso yamandulo, uya kuba nemizwa emihle kuphela. Kodwa akufanele baxakeke! Vumela ibali likhokelwa ngumnye wabadala, unyana okanye intombi yomsunguli wokubhiyozela.
Imboniselo akufanele ithathe imizuzu engaphezulu kwe-10-20. Abantu asebekhulile bavame 'ukunyaniseka' kwiimvakalelo, apho bona ngokwabo banokukhathala baze baxakeke.
Mhlawumbi umntu osekhulile uya kuvuya ukukhumbula iingoma zobutsha bakhe. Kwaye, qiniseka ukuba abanalo iikhumbuzo ezinzima! Amalungu entsapho eselula, abahlobo kunye nekhompyutheni, ukukhuphela ngokukhawuleza ii-tunes endala kwinetha. Umculo kwiminyaka edlulileyo iya kuba yinto yokuzonwabisa yokudla isidlo sokutya okanye ukujonga iifoto ezindala. Abantu abadala bayakuvuyela ukuva amazwi kaLydia Ruslanova, uLeonid Utyosov, uClaudia Shulzhenko kunye nalabo baqhubi abaselula abazange bakuve!
Iphephethi
Kulo lonke ubomi, abaninzi abantu baye batshintsha indawo yabo yokuhlala ngaphezu kweyodwa. Ngamanye amaxesha amaphupha okubona imimandla apho ulutsha luye lwaphinda lukwazi ukufikelela kubantu abadala ... Ukutyelela iindawo ezincinci-indawo apho umntu akhula okanye afunde khona unokuba ngumcimbi ongenakulibaleka. Kakade ke, xa kunikezelwa ukuba udluliselo luya kuvumela impilo. Ukuhamba kufuneka kulungiselelwe ngokucokisekileyo. Ukuze usayine kunye nezihlobo kunye nabahlobo bamandulo, omnye wabo, mhlawumbi, uya kukwazi ukufumana "Abafundi beklasi". Ukubhuka ihotele. Ngaphambi kokunyamekela amathikithi ekhatywayo, i-premiere apho ugogo wamzama ukungaziphosi kwiminyaka yakhe emncinci. Futhi ungakulibali ukuthatha ikhamera nawe: olu hambo kufuneka lufakwe! Uvuyo oluninzi luya kuhanjiswa "kubahambi njengobutsha" nokuhlaziywa koonxibelelwano nabahlobo bamandulo.
Ukuhlangana nabahlobo
Uhambo olude ukuya kubantu bakho abadala? Bona, njengabahlobo babo basendulo-abahlobo, abahambeli nanye ngaphezu kwesitolo sokutya esiseduze? Musa ukusebenzisa imali kwisidlo esisisityebi esingamkholisa umntu osebekhulile - "apha kumaqebelengwane ethu (i-sausage, champagne, njl njl.) Zenziwe ngcono, musa ukuthelekisa nolu hlobo!" Unganikeli inqubo yanamhlanje - abaninzi abantu abadala baze bathulile ekhoneni, bembethe i-lacy napkin. Kungcono ukuhlawula iteksi endlwini yakho kwaye ubuyele kwiintombi ze-ntombi okanye oogxa oomkhulu. Bancede ukuba babone-mhlawumbi oku kuyintlanganiso yokugqibela yabantu abaye baba ngabahlobo iminyaka emininzi. Kwaye mhlawumbi umntu uvela kwesinye isixeko? Uloliwe oluhlawulelwayo, ukwamkelwa ngokufudumele kwisikhululo sesitimela, igumbi elungiselelwe ngokunyanisekileyo liya kunceda umntu okhulile ukuba abuthane ngomoya aze ahlobise ubukho bakhe buyihlo. Kwinkampani yabahlobo bamandulo kunye nekhekhe, kwaye i-champagne iphinda ibe yintle, kwaye ugogo unamehlo-omncinci.
Izizukulwana ezintathu
Imibhiyozo yentsapho yamaqhawe asekhulile, ekulungiselelweni kwayo yonke intsapho inxaxheba? Nceda! Le mibhobho yamaphephancwadi evela kubantwana, abazukulwana kunye nabazukulu. Le ngxabano yentlokoma: ngubani oza kufumana umkhulula kwisithombe esikolweni ngokukhawuleza. Olu khu phiswano: ngubani oya kulungela ngokufanelekileyo ukutya okuthandayo kwamaqhawe. Thetha iifolishi ngokuhlonipha abantu abadala. Nika izipho ezinobomi - ezenziwe ngcono ngezandla. Yenza isithombe seentsapho kwitheyibhi yokuzonwabisa, okuya kuba kuhle ukufaka isakhelo uze ubonise ummelwane. Oogogo kunye noomkhulu bafuna amavithamini amaninzi: B - umbulelo, B - ingqwalasela kunye nenkambo yeL - lo uthando lwethu. Leli holide, ukudibanisa abantu bezizukulwana ezahlukeneyo, kuyimfuneko kubini abantu abadala kunye nathi.