Yintoni eya kuba yothando emva kokuhlukana?

Ngoko, ngokuphindaphindiweyo sicinga malunga nobomi bethu, ngaphezu kwezinto ezenzekile kwaye ngaphezu kweminye into eyenzekayo.

Yaye nabani na ongathethiyo, yileli gama eliqondakaliyo elibhekiswe ngolo hlobo luthando olungenakuqondakala! Emva kwakho konke, vumelani ukuba onke amaxesha ebomini becinga malunga nokuba yintoni? Ngaba ucinga malunga nento eya kuba yothando emva komcimbi? Kwaye, njengoko kwaziwa, bangaphi abantu, baninzi ngombono. Ngomntu, uthando luthando oluqhelekileyo olunokuhlala iminyaka emibini, kunye nobomi bakho bonke! Ngomnye, uthando luyintando: yonke imihla kukho izinto ezinokubakho ubuxhakabungqina obubudlelwaneni, ubusuku bonke ukucamngca kweenkwenkwezi esibhakabhakeni kunye nokunye okunjalo. Eminye, uthando luyinto echasene nesizungu ... oku kukufanelekile ukuphila, yilokho esiphila kuyo, yilelo thuba lokufumana umdala ovuyayo, ukukhonza omnye umgudu wekhofi eshushu kunye nokuhlala phantsi kunye sihlalo esiqhayisayo, sigqitywe ngengubo ... kwaye yintoni enokwenzeka ntoni nothando emva kokuhlukana?

Kwaye naphezu kwazo zonke ezi ngxabano, sisacinga ngokuphindaphindiweyo malunga neli lizwi elithandekayo uthando! Kwaye kuya kuba yintoni uthando emva kokuhlukana?

Kungekudala, umhlobo wam osondeleyo wandibuza umbuzo onomdla, kwaye yintoni eya kuba yothando emva kokuhlukana? Ndacinga ... andizange ndiyiphendule kanye kanye ... kwaye ndiqinisekile ukuba akukho mntu uya kuyifumana, kuba kunokwenzeka kakhulu ...

Ngokuqhelekileyo, xa silahlekelwa ngumthandayo, siyaqonda ukuba asizange sibe nexesha lokuthetha okuninzi ... elahlekelwe kakhulu, akazange anike uthando! Ngokuqinisekileyo, ukuba lo mntu ushiye nje kwindawo ethile, ngoko siyakwazi ukuyibuyisela okanye senze nje ukuze abuyele ... kwaye ucinge ukuba umthandayo akanakuze abuyele ... uza kuziva njani kwaye kwenzeka ntoni uthando emva kokuhlukana? Ndiyakwazi ukuphendula lo mbuzo ... kuqala uqala ukuzonda, uze ucinge ngento yokuba awuyi kumthanda umntu onjengaye ... kwaye awuzange umxelele ngako ... ezi zixesha ezinzima kakhulu ebomini, malunga kukho iingoma ezininzi ezibhaliweyo, iincwadi, imibongo! Ngoko kuya kufuneka uqikelele ngale nto, kwaye ukuba umhlobo wakho uye wahlukana nawe, kwaye ucinga ngaye imini nobusuku, ngelixa usebenza kwaye uphumle, uthetha nabahlobo bakho ngemizuzu emihlanu igama lakhe ... mhlawumbi le nto ifanayo kunye kanye nomntu oyifunayo! Ngokuqhelekileyo, sesaba ukwamkela oku, kwaye nangakumbi ukuyivuma kuye kwaye uvumele konke kuhambe ngokwayo ... kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo siyiphuthelwa!

Makhe sizame ubuncinane ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo kwaye sifumane oko kuza kuba ngothando emva kokuhlukana! Namhlanje, kwafuneka abize, kuqala ukuba ubuze njani? Bese ngokukhawuleza ukumema kwindawo ethile, kwaye ubuncinane kanye, ubuncinane kanye kanye ukuthetha nentliziyo yakhe entliziyweni ... yitsho yonke into ecacileyo kakhulu, ungazithobeli ngegama elilodwa elixhalabileyo, kwaye uthethe ngokucacileyo malunga neemvakalelo zakho, malunga neengcamango zakho ... kuthekani malunga iya kulandelayo? Kwaye ndiya kuphinda ndiphendule, kwaye uya kuba nobusuku obuhle kakhulu, ubusuku obunakulibaleka, ubusuku obuya kuthanda ukukhumbula kwakhona! Kwaye ke? Kwaye ke kuza kusasa, kufuphi nawe ngumthandayo, okanye umhlobo olungileyo, isigqibo siya kuvela ngokwemvelo ... nokuba ufuna ukuchitha lo mphefumlo wonke kunye nalo mntu, okanye uya kuqonda ukuba konke okucingayo malunga nalo lonke ixesha kwakukude ulandelelwe nguwe, kwaye unomhlobo osondeleyo, kodwa akukho ngaphezu koko! Emva kokuhlukana, uthando luyakwenza utshintsho olukhulu. Kwaye ungakhangeli kweso sizathu, awuyi kudideka, kodwa yonke into yokuba uya kuqiniseka ukuba wenze konke okusemandleni akho lonwabo! Kwaye ngokuzayo uya kuba nethamsanqa. Yaye ukuhlukana kwakho kuya kugqitywa nelokuba kusasa uya kuvuka kunye nomthandayo kwaye ungalokothi uphumelele, kwaye akukho nto ifuna ukuyivumela ukuba ahambe kude nawe, kwaye ngulo mntu uza kuba nomsondlo, kunye nehafi eshushu sihlalo sokugungqa isitulo phantsi kweengubo ezithambileyo kwaye uya kuqonda ukuba akukho nto eyenzeka ngothando emva kokuhlukana!

Ngoko, ngubani ongenakubeka ingozi, akayiphuzi i-champagne!