Ukulungiselela abafazi abakhulelweyo ukuba babelethe

Ukubeletha kuyinkqubo yemvelo yendalo. Kwaye, okokuqala, akufanele uloyike. Ukulungiselela abafazi abakhulelwe ekuzalweni komfazi ngamnye kuvela ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo. Omnye kulo lonke ukhulelwe uya kwiikhosi ezahlukeneyo, amachibi okubhukuda. Ngokuqinisekileyo akubi. Kodwa ngokukhawuleza, ekuzalweni, yonke into iyalilibala, ilahlekile, iyothuswa, ize iqale ukugxeka wonke umntu kunye nabanike abacebisa ukuba baye kwiikhosi kunye nalabo abasenzayo. Kodwa nolu uluvo lwam, kunye namava. Andizange ndikho naziphi na iikhosi zokulungiselela abhinqa abakhulelweyo ukuba babelethe. Into eyodwa yintetho kwintetho yabesifazane. Kodwa, nangona kwakunomdla, kodwa kuba ukuhlala kwiindawo eziqhelekileyo kwakungekho mnandi gqitha ukuba andikwazi ukukhumbula yonke into kwaye ndingene kuyo yonke into. Yiloo nto endiyikhumbule kakuhle kule ntetho, ngoko ke le ndlela yokuphefumula. Yiyiphi, ngokuqinisekileyo, kwaye isetyenziswe ngexesha lokubeletha. Ngokuqinisekileyo, mna, njengabanye abafazi abaninzi abakhulelweyo, baxhamla ngolwazi oluninzi malunga nokulungiselela ukuzala. Kwaye ngoku ukuya kwindawo.

Andikhiphi ukuzala, njengamantombazana amaninzi akhulelwe. Ndazi ukuba oku akuzange kuhambe, kuya kwenzeka. Andizange ndiphulaphule amabali asebusuku ngokubeletha. Uninzi lwabahlobo bam, kunye nomama kunye nodade omdala, abazange bathethe nantoni na embi ngokuzalwa kwabo. Kwaye ndaqonda ukuba ufuna nje umoya. Imvakalelo yento eya kulungile. Ukuze ndikwazi "ukwenza."

Xa kuqale ukulwa, ndaya kuthumba, ndazibeka. Umyeni wam wangenisa esibhedlele. Kwintsapho, ndikhumbula indlela yokuphefumula. Nangona, uyazi, ngamnye umfazi uya kuqonda indlela yokuphefumula, kulula kangakanani. Kodwa akufanelekile ukumemeza, okuqinisekileyo. Ukulila kukukhawuleza inkqubo yokubeleka kwaye kwenza ukuba umama nomntwana babi kakhulu. Andizange ndimemezele, ndaphefumula, nduluka! Kwaye ndahlala ndicinga ukuba kuya kuba nzima nakakhulu. Mhlawumbi oku kwandinceda. Xa ulindele ubuhlungu obukhulu, intlungu ovakalelwa ngayo okwangoku ayibonakali. Yaye xa umntwana elele esifubeni sakho, yonke intlungu iyalityalwa.

Yaye ke, kwangaphambili, kufuneka ulungiselele yonke into oyifunayo ukuba uhambe nawe esibhedlele. Ukususela ekuzalweni kwesininzi akuqalanga ngexesha elijoliswe kuyo, elingafanele liphazamise uxolo lwakho lwengqondo. Ngaphambi koko, funyanwa kwiwadi yokubeletha ukuba ukhethe uluhlu lwezinto eziyimfuneko kumfazi ekubelekeni. Ukuqokelela iingxowa kwaye uzibeke kwindawo ethile kufuphi.

Ngoko, mantombazana, ungesabi ukuhanjiswa !!! Kukulindeleke ukuba ulinde kancane kwaye nantsi ke, intlanganiso ekulindele ixesha elide nomntwana wakho! Ngaba akunjalo oko ufunayo?

U-Elena Romanova , ngakumbi kwisiza