Bangaphi abantu, abantu abaninzi kunye neentlobo. Nangona kunjalo, izethulo, eziza kuxoxwa ngazo kwinqaku, akunakwenzeka ukuba zihluke ukuhlalisana kwabantu, ukudibanisa lula nabantu abaninzi kunye nokuthanda imimangaliso enemimangaliso, apho kufuneka kubekho abantu abaninzi. Ngoko ke bangobani, i-introverts? Ziziphi amandla kunye nobuthathaka? Uya kufunda ngale nto kwinqaku.
Ngoko, akusikho umbhalo, kodwa nje uluhlu lwemibuzo:
- Awuyithandi xa kuninzi abantu abakujikelezayo, ukhetha ukuba unesizungu okanye inkampani encinane kakhulu?
- Ngaba awunomdla wemikhosi enamandla, imikhosi evuyo, amaqela emfesane okanye iziganeko, apho isihlwele sithintela ukuba siphephe?
- Uhlala usetyenziswa kumntu ixesha elide, kwaye ufundeka, ungafuni ukuyiyeka?
- Ngaba uyintombazana / intloni / intloni, uloyiko ukuba ungene kumfokazi ukuze ufumane ixesha?
- Awuthandi iindwendwe ezingalindelekanga, nokuba ngaba umntu osondeleyo okanye ongaphantsi?
- Ngaba uthanda ukuchitha ixesha wedwa ubukela iibhayisikobho, ufunda iincwadi, umzobo okanye enye into yokuzonwabisa "kwelinye"?
- Awuyithandi xa omnye umntu ejoyina inkampani eqhelekileyo yabahlobo?
- Ngaba uphefumula ngokuziphatha emva kwengxoxo emide nabantu?
- Ngaba ufuna ukutshintsha into ethile, kodwa ungenzi nto enokukunceda kule nto?
Ukuba unayo yonke i "ewe", ndiyakuvuyisana nawe, ngokuqinisekileyo, uyangenisa. Ukuba ufumene ukuba ufunde kumntu wakho intombi yakho okanye umhlobo, mhlawumbi, uyangenisa.
Introvert and extrovert
I-introvert ne-extrovert zihluke njengokuba isibhakabhaka nomhlaba. Umntu ongaphandle komhlaba ngumsebenzi osebenzayo, ohambahambayo, ohlala njalo, ongenakukwazi ukuhlala unomsebenzi omnandi. Ngokuqhelekileyo, ama-introverts ayithandi izinto ezithandekayo, abantu abambalwa abathanda ngabo, kodwa ngokuqhelekileyo kuba ngamazwi angenawo abo benza umsebenzi oqhelekileyo. Ngokukodwa ukuba ngexesha elifanayo lonke unxibelelwano nabantu luyancitshiswa.
Ama-Introverts agcina iimvakalelo zabo ngokwabo, abazityheli indawo yazo. Ukuba u-introvert unomona, uyayithula. Ukuba buhlungu kwaye buhlungu, uya kukhwaza, mhlawumbi xa kungekho mntu ubonayo, kodwa umonakalo akanakwenzeka ukuba athethe into ethile kumntu. I-extrovert idibanisa imvakalelo ekunene nakwesobunxele, yenza isandi, esicacisayo, ngamanye amaxesha.
U-Introvert uyakuthanda unesizungu, uyazi ukuba uyayixabisa kwaye uyayivuyela, ngokungafani ne-extrovert, ukuba ngubani umntu ongabonakali njengesihogo isonto ngaphandle kwabantu. Ngokuqhelekileyo abantu balolu hlobo baba ngabaculi, abalobi okanye bakhethe omnye umsebenzi wokudala (kuphela nje umculi, lo ngowomnye weminqweno engenakukwazi ukuyenza ngenxa yokungafuni ininzi yababukeli). Oku akuncedisi kuphela ukutyhila ngaphakathi "I", kodwa ukwazisa abaphathi kunye noogxa basebenzisana nawo, okufuneka baxoxe ngemihla ngemihla.
I-Introvert ivame ukuvulwa. Oku akuthethi ukuba awufuni ukusela ngokungafanelekanga kwaye akafuni ukunxila kunye nokuhamba, uhambe kwaye ujabule njengabantu bonke abaqhelekileyo, kodwa kwi-90% yamatyala angenawo "umphefumlo wenkampani." Ukongezelela, xa kuphela abantu abambalwa, abahlobo abakhulu, abaza kubonisa umsebenzi omkhulu ; bahleka, bavuyo baze bahlekise, kwaye ngaphandle kwendawo bavelise ubungqina buntu abangenakuhlawuleka. Enyanisweni, kubalulekile ubuncinane omnye umhlobo, omtsha, ngokutsha ngokutsha ukujoyina iintombi zakhe, njengengqungquthela ye-introvert kunye nokubuyela kwi-shell yakhe, kwakhona kuye ngokwakhe zamyrkas.
Ama-Introverts ahlala efuna ukuphumla emva kwentetho ende nabantu. Banokuphulaphula, banokushiya baze banike iingcebiso ezimbalwa, kodwa ukuba bachitha ubusuku bonke bephulaphule abanye, kwaye bezama ukuthetha, baya kuba njenge-lemon ephosiweyo ekuseni. Emva koko kufuneka bahoxise ngokwabo, baphumule kuzo zonke, babuyele kwisiqhelo esiqhelekileyo.
Zonke ezi ngasentla asithethi ukuba zonke izethulo ziyizidalwa ezingapheliyo, zisoyika ukuphuma endlwini. Hayi, akunjalo (nangona kunjalo), zivaliwe zivaliwe ngaphandle kwe-extrovert, kwaye zikhetha ukuza kwiqela elicingayo elidalwe entloko yintloko ngaphandle kokwenene.
Ngokwemvelo, akukho nantonikazi ebonisa ngokucacileyo kwaye ecacileyo isiqingatha esinye, oku kuyenzeka kakhulu, kunqabile kakhulu, i-extraversion kunye ne-introversion idibeneyo, inxalenye enye ilawulwayo.Kodwa nantoni na intombazana okanye i-extrovert ethanda ukuhlala yedwa, okanye i-introvert , ngamanye amaxesha asebenzayo.
Umxhasi
- Ukuthozama, iintloni, ukungaxhamli kwangaphandle kunye nokungacaciseki. Ngenxa yale mpawu, izethulo ezingenakuqala ukuziqhelanisa, kwaye nokuba ngaba zenzele zona, ziyakwazi ukukhwankqisa, ngokungazi, "ukungasebenzi" kwazo.
- Ukudandatheka, ukuphazanyiswa kunye nemiqulu yokuziphatha okubi. Ekubeni abaninzi abantu baqala ukugcina konke ngaphakathi kwabo, onke amava kunye neengxaki zabo, oku kubi kubo. Wonke umntu uyazi ukuba ukuthetha kuyiluncedo kakhulu, ngenxa yoko, izazi zeengqondo zenziwe, ngokubanzi. Kwaye ukuba i-extrovert ikwazi ukuphosa zonke iingxaki kumahlombe omnxulumane omtsha, uze uqhubeke unandipha ubomi, iWintrovert ayiyi kuphuma.
- Ukwesaba, i-paranoia, ukungafuni ukunyanzelisa. Oku akuyona into ebhinqileyo yokuba abafazi abaninzi abaselula benza isono, ukubala ngamanyathelo asebenzayo kuphela ukusuka kwicala lendoda, oku ngukoyiko kunye neparanoia. Ama-introverts bacinga ukuba. Ngokuqhelekileyo kubonakala kubo kuphela, kodwa kunzima ukubaqinisekisa.
- Ukuhlukana okubuhlungu. Bahlobo, bahlobo, bathande, ekupheleni, sonke siyaqonda ukuba akukho nto ihlala ngonaphakade. Ukugqithisa, emva kokunyamezeleka, kulula ukufumana indawo, kodwa izethulo ziyinkinga. Ziyayifumana ixesha elide kwaye zifumaneke ngakumbi kumntu.
Iinkonzo
- Ama-Introverts, njengoko sele ekhankanywe ngaphambili, ixesha elide lisetyenziselwa abanye abantu. Kodwa ukuba baqhelekile, ukuba ungena kubahlobo umntu oqalayo, unethamsanqa, kuba bangabangane abathembekileyo. Ewe, awukwazi ukuhamba rhoqo kwiivenkile okanye kwiiklabhu, kuba izethulo aziyithandi le nto, kodwa ukuba ufuna ukuxhaswa kokuziphatha, uya kunikwa okupheleleyo.
- Ama-Introverts azimele kwaye anengqiqo. Ngenxa yokuba bachitha ixesha elide bodwa, baya kuthi bathe bazive bezemfundo, ukuzikhupha. Kwaye banakho oku, ngenxa yokuba abadinga abantu bokwenene ngenxa yalokhu, balungele ukucacisa ukuba, ewe, njani, introvertsami baya kwenza konke ukuba bafuna. Abayidingi uncedo lomnye umntu, bafuna ukuxazulula iingxaki zabo (nangona basondeleyo, abazali, umzekelo, banokuzilahla iingxaki zabo).
- Ama-Introverts amaninzi, njengoko kwakhona, okukhankanywe kwangaphambili, ubuqu bokubumba. Oku kubaluleke kakhulu kunye kunye. Ngamanye amaxesha oku kwenzeka ngenxa yeetalente ezinkulu, kodwa ngenxa yongcamango lwe-aesthetic, u lonwabo kunye nomnqweno wokwenza ihlabathi lakho libe ngcono kwaye lihle ngakumbi. Nangona i-extroverts ihamba, i-introverts, ihleli yodwa ekhaya, thatha ipensela uze ufunde ukudweba. Kwaphinda kwakhona, ukuba ingazange isebenze, de kube imidwebo ifumane iziboniso ezifanelekileyo.
- Ama-Introverts abaphulaphuli kunye nabaphulaphuli. Bazimisele ukuphulaphula iingxaki ezingengokuthi "zabo" kuphela, kodwa nabangaphandle. Enye into kukuba abaqhathananga ukunika iingcebiso ezilungileyo, kodwa phulaphulaphula-soloko ukholisa. Abayi kukuphazamisa ukuba uncede ngokukhawuleza ukufaka izimvo zakho okanye ibali elidibeneyo, baya kuphulaphula zonke iintetho zakho. Yingakho i-extroverts ne-introverts zihambelana kunye, ngenxa yokuba izethulo ezimbini ziya kuziva zikhululekile: bobabini bathule, bobabini bazama ukucinga ngento ethile yokuthetha ngokuvakalayo kwaye bangaboni bulumko, bobabini bavule ngokwabo, ngokuphindaphinda ngokwengqondo "Ndingumgwebo" okanye into enjalo . Ngokuqhelekileyo, umntu olungele ukuthetha ngaphandle kokuphazanyiswa, kwaye angenise ngokufanelekileyo. Enye into kukuba intonga ayifuni ukuhamba, akukho nanye insimbi.
Isiphumo
Njengoko uyakubona, kukho ubuchule kunye nokuqhayisa kwi-introversion. Kuncike kakhulu kummandla womntu, kubahlobo bakhe, izalamane kunye nabahlobo kunye nenkxaso yabo, kodwa njengokungathi i-introvert ayizange izame ukuxhamla, ingaba yimaski, ngoko kulula ukuxolelanisa nokuphuhlisa izibonelelo zakho.