Kodwa ngaba le ntlungu ayiyingozi, ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuba uyibuyisele kakuhle, indlela eyonakalisa ngayo isenzo somona omhlophe? Kodwa kwiimeko ezininzi, ukuvakalelwa komona kubhaliwe ebusweni bexhoba loo mvakalelo.
Umona , nokuba umhlophe okanye umnyama - uhlobo lwesetyhefu yengqondo, kwii-micro dose - iyeza elinika inkuthazo yokukhula komntu. Ukuba inamandla kakhulu, iyonakalisa umphefumlo nomzimba. Inqwenela ukwazi ukuba abantu abaphantsi kwesi sibonelo somona esibhalwe ebusweni, baninzi bahlushwa zizifo zesibindi, isilonda se-peptic, "sisongela" uxinzelelo lwegazi kunye nokunciphisa umzimba.
Ngokutsho kweengqondo zengqondo, umona ngumva owonakalisayo ovimbela ukuphuhliswa kobuntu kwaye akavumeli ukufezekiswa kwezinto ezintsha. Ukuyeka ukukhwele, kufuneka uzincede. Ngoko ke, ukuba uzibamba ucinga ukuba unoluvakalelo, cwangcisa isizathu.
Yivume ukuba unomona. Kodwa musa ukuma apho. Beka iinjongo ezilungileyo kwaye uzame ukufezekisa. Ukuba nomona makube sishukumiso sokwenza ngcono.
Into ephambili - yenza!
Musa ukunyamekela abanye impumelelo yabantu. Yeka ukujonga ukuba "umntu unenhlanhla kangakanani." Lahla samoyedstvo kunye nentukuthelo kuwe. Hlaziya iinjongo zokuziphatha komntu. Cinga ngezinto onayo kunye nento ongayenza ngokwenene.
Umona omhlophe ukhuthaza ukuphuhliswa, xa kuqaphela ukuphumelela komnye umntu ukuba kukhuthazwe umsebenzi wokudala nokuzama ukhuphiswano. Ngokuqhelekileyo kubonakala kwizinga elingenalwazi.
Umona ngokwawo awunalo uphawu olubi. Kubangelwa ngumnqweno womntu ukuba abe nento engcono kunabanye. Umona omhlophe uvame ukubizwa ngokuba nomvakalelo xa umntu engathandi ukuphosakela komnye, kodwa ufuna nje ukuba nezinto ezinjalo (imoto, dacha, impumelelo). Kodwa oku akukona inzondelelo kwimo yayo ecocekileyo, kodwa kunomxholo odibeneyo umda kunye nokumxela kwimpumelelo kunye nempumelelo yabanye abantu.
Umona omhlophe ungachazwa njengokwamkelwa komntu omnye "ngokuxutywa" ngomkhwele omncinci ngempumelelo yakhe. Okulungileyo komona kukuba kukunyusa umoya wokukhuphisana, ukhuphiswano lwezempilo.
Ndiyakholwa ukuba loo nto ayikho nhlobo, kuba umona unxulumene neemvakalelo eziphazamisayo kunye neemvakalelo malunga nokuzimela okanye into enomona. Ayikwazi ukujongwa ngendlela efanelekileyo. Into edla ngokuba ngumona omhlophe, ndichaza, kunoko, njengokuba ndiyamkela. Xa umntu eyanconywa ngamakhono, iimpawu okanye iimpumelelo zomnye. Kodwa oku akukwenzi nto ngomona.
Umona ngumrhumo ongenakuzikhethela ngenhlonipho, okungekho nto leyo ehlawula isithunzi, "kubhala umbhali waseFransi uAntoine de Lamotte. Wayekholelwa ukuba umona ubhubhisa umntu ngaphakathi.
Umona omhlophe, obonakaliswe ekuqwalaselweni kwempumelelo yabanye, unokuba ngumgqugquzeli wokunqoba, ukufezekiswa kweempumelelo kunye nokuziphucula. Ukumonelela ngokwakhayo, asiphenduleli kwiimpazamo zethu nokusilela.
Inzondo ayikwazi ukuba yingozi ngenxa yezizathu ezilula. Umona, nayiphi na (kunye nomhlophe akuyona into ehlukile apha) ibhekisela kuhlobo lokuziphatha olulimazayo. Ukuba yinto ebalulekileyo ekukhuthazeni kwimeko yokuphila, ihlala ibangela ukuwa ngokomoya nangona iinjongo kunye nempumelelo ebomini ziyafezekiswa. Ukususela endaweni yokuvuya kunye nokwaneliseka into entsha yomona ibonakala, kunye nehlabathi elingaphakathi lihlala lingenalutho kwaye lingazalwanga.
Phakathi komona omnyama nomhlophe
Ukusebenzisa ukufumana umbala omhlophe, wokwakha, siphendukela kubantu abanobubi abamnyama. Emva koko, umntu uya kuhlala ede, ehle kakhulu, ecebileyo. Umona omnyama uthanda ukubonisa ubundlobongela.
Naluphi na umona owonakalisa umntu owenza oko. Ngaloo mzuzu umntu uqala ukuphila ngabanye abantu, uyaphula inkqubo yakhe. Kodwa ngandlela-thile, inzondelelo enjalo iyakha, iyanceda ukuphuhlisa, ivuselele ukuqhubela phambili.
Ayiyingozi kuze kube yilapho uqala ukuzimela, unciphisa ukuzithemba kwakho: "Ufezekisile oku, kwaye andinayo, kwaye andiyi kuze." Emva koko uphumelele komnye umntu owaziwayo njengokutshatyalaliswa kwakho, kwaye uqala ukuthukuthela umntu ogqithiseleyo.
Umona - uvakalelo oluyingozi, kunye ne-samoyedstvo, ukunganeliseki kunye nabo, ukuthoba isithunzi sabo ngokumalunga nabanye. Ayikwazi ukulungiselela. Umntu onoluvakalelo akahlali ngokuvisisana naye, kunye naye "I". Uyayeka kwindawo enye kwaye akayi kuqhubeka. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba unomhawu, lesi sihlandlo sokucinga ngento ongenayo ebomini, kwaye ucinge ngendlela onokuyenza ngayo le nto.