UBrian Tracy wabhala: Wena ungumtshini ophilayo. Ubhala ebomini bakho into ehambelana neengcamango zakho eziphambili. Abanye bacinga amaphupha abo kunye neminqweno yokuchitha ixesha, iziganeko ezikhusela ukuphila. Abantu abanjalo bakholelwa ukuba akukho nto ingatshintsha ebomini babo. Bacinga ukucinga ukuba ngokwenene abayi kuphumelela impumelelo, ubutyebi, ulonwabo, ngoko bakhetha ukuba bangabi neminqweno ukuze bangabandezeleka. Kodwa oku kungalunganga. Iphupha kunye neminqweno yinto enomdla wokuthatha isenzo, injongo oyifunayo. Ukuba abantu abazange baphuphe, kwakungeke kubonakale imisebenzi enje yobugcisa njengomculo kaBach, iifilimu zakho ezizithandayo, imisebenzi evelele yokwakha kunye nokupenda. Indoda yayingeke ivuke esibhakabhakeni kwaye ingekho kwindawo, ukuba yayingeke iphupha into enzima ukuyifumana. Ukususela kwesi sigqibo: ungesabi ukuphupha. Kodwa khumbula ukuba akusiyo yonke iminqweno eyamkelekileyo. Ukuba kuphela umnqweno wakho ungabonakalisi abanye okanye wena, ufanelwe ukuzama ukuwufeza, ukongeza, udinga amandla enjongo yokuzisa yonke into.
Kuye kwangqina ukuba yonke into ehlabathini iqukethe amandla. Kwaye, njengoko kuyaziwa, ayihambeli naphi kwaye ayithathiwe nantoni na - iguqulela ngokusuka kwintlobo enye ibe yinye. Umntu kuphela ekuqalekeni ngumzimba oqinileyo. Kodwa ukuba sithetha ngento ephosakeleyo - iimvakalelo zethu, iingcamango neemvakalelo, oko kukuthi, oko kusenza sibe ngabantu-kubonakala ukuba umntu uqukumbela ngamandla. Ngexesha elifanayo, imvakalelo nganye inomlinganiselo wayo, ephakamileyo iimvakalelo ezithandekayo esizifumanayo. Ngaloo ndlela, ukuba siqhubeka kwinto yokuba yonke into ehlabathini inamandla ngenye indlela okanye enye, kuvela ukuba iingcamango zethu, ngoko ke-iiminqweno zethu, zizinto eziphathekayo. Ukuziphumeza kufuneka usebenzise amandla enjongo, indlela oza kuziqonda ngayo amaphupha kunye neminqweno yakho kwaye uphumelele impumelelo, uya kufunda ngoku.
Kukholelwa ukuba ukuchasana kukutsala. Kodwa ngokwenene, zonke iinkqubo zendalo zisekelwe kumthetho wokukhanga. Oku kuthetha ukuba yonke into ehlabathini ithandwa into enjalo.
Unokucinga ukuba, "Mkhulu. Ngoko, ukuba konke kulungile ngoku, kuya kuba kubi kakhulu. Kulungile. " Kodwa ungagxumi kwizigqibo. Sithembisa ukuba sikufundise indlela yokufezekisa yakho iminqweno. Kule nto akudingeki kakhulu - ukufunda ukulawula iingcamango zakho neemvakalelo zakho.
Oku kubaluleke kakhulu, kuba, ngokuhambelana nomthetho wokukhangela, ufikelela kwiimeko zakho zobomi apho amandla enjongo adlala indima enkulu, ngexesha elidlulayo ngalo. Oko kukuthi, ukufumana iimvakalelo ezithile, ukhangela into eyenza uzive. Oku kuthetha ukuba ngokubamba inqaku lomzwelo lobutyebi okanye uthando, sithandwa ngothando kunye nobutyebi kwihlabathi lezinto eziphathekayo. Kwaye ngokuphambene nento - ukufumana iimvakalelo ezimbi, wenza imeko ibe yanda.
Khawucinge ukuba iphela yindalo ekhuluma ngolwimi lweemvakalelo. Akayiqondi amagama, kodwa uyazi kuphela iimvakalelo ozifumanayo. Yaye enye yeminqweno yakho kukufumana ubutyebi. Kodwa ukuba ngelo xesha ucinga nje ukuba unemivuzo ephantsi, i-genie iyayiqonda ngale ndlela: "Ufuna ukuhlupheka." Kwaye ebomini into iya kuba yimbi ngakumbi. Kodwa ukuba ufunda ukuvuyela oko usenayo kwaye ubulele uMoya kwizinto osuke unayo, kuya kukubuyisela okufanayo - kwaye uya kufumana oko ufunayo.
Kubalulekile ukugcina engqondweni ukuba iimvakalelo ezintle azikwazi ukucinywa ngandlela-thile. Kudinga ukutshintshela kulabo abahambelana neendlela eziphezulu zokuzulazula. Yoga, ukudansa, imidlalo iya kukunceda kule nto. Yonke into eyenza uvuyo kwaye yanelisekile. Ngokutshintsha imvama yeemvakalelo zakho, uya kutsala inhlanhla nenjabulo, oko kuthetha ukuba iminqweno yakho iya kuzaliseka.
Funda ukucinga kakuhle. Ukwenza oku, khankanya kwisicatshulwa sayo inkulumo ethi "Andiyi kuphumelela", "Andikwazi". Zama ukuthatha indawo kwiingcamango zakho zamagama ezithwala ingcamango engalunganga, abo banemibala engqondweni.
Kananjalo ungesabi ukwenza oko ucinga ukuba kuya kukukhokelela ekuzalisekeni iphupha lakho, kuba akukho mntu owaziyo indlela echanekileyo yokwenza amaphupha kunye neminqweno yakho. Musa ukwesaba iimpazamo, ukuba ufuna into ethile-indawo yonke iya kukunika ithuba lokufezekisa. Iimpazamo ziza kuba ngamava okongeziweyo ebomini bakho.
Njengoko uyakubona, awudingi ukuzalisekisa iminqweno yakho - kuphela ukuvumela ukuba uphuphe, oko kukuthi, ukusekela injongo onqwenela kuyo, ukuphulaphula iimvakalelo zakho, ucinge ngokuqinisekileyo. Kulula ngokwaneleyo, akunjalo? Ngoku uyazi ukuba yimpumelelo yamandla enjongo, njani ukuqonda amaphupha kunye neminqweno yakho ibe ngumntu onempumelelo. Mhlawumbi uya kucinga ukuba oku akuyi kusebenza. Kodwa jonga nje kwaye uza kubona ukuba kungekudala ubomi bakho buya kutshintsha njani ngcono!