Ikhefu lokubeletha lixesha elinzima lokwenza umfazi. Ngoko ke, oomama banomdla wokufumana umsebenzi, ngokwabo ekunciphiseni uxinzelelo kwaye "bathathe umoya." Eli nqaku liza kubonisa iindlela ezininzi zokuzonwabisa ".
Umfazi kwikhefu lokubeleka
Vuyiswa! Ukuba ufunda le nqaku, ngoko unako u-99% ube ngumzali onolisayo. Lo uvuyo olukhulu, olungenakuqhathaniswa nanye into. Wayekulindele le ntsana, bekulungele ukuzalwa kwakhe, ukuthenga yonke i-ryashonki ethandiweyo, amabhontshi kunye nama-booties, efunda amakhulu emaphephancwadi ekhuselekileyo ekukhuliseni umntwana, kwaye ngoku, ekugqibeleni, eli xesha elinde ixesha elide lafika kwaye waba ngumama nobaba! Eli nqaku lijoliswe ngakumbi kubasetyhini, kuba sele bekhefu lokubeleka (ngekhetho ezingaqhelekanga). Ngoko ke, kwixesha elizayo, kuya kuba malunga nokwenza umama ngexesha lokushiya lokubeleka.
Unyaka wokuqala wobomi bentsana yakho iya kuba yinkqubo enzima kunayo yonke, uya kuthatha inxaxheba ngokupheleleyo ekunyamekeleni umntwana wakho kwaye kungcono ukuchitha ixesha lakho lokukhulula kwiphupha, ukuhlamba okuphumayo okanye ukudibanisa nomyeni wakho.
Kodwa emva kokudlula umgca wonyaka, umntwana wakho uya kuba ngumntu ozimeleyo: hamba ngaphandle kwenkxaso yabantu abadala, udle ngepuni, uphuze kwendebe kunye nexesha elide udlala kunye neentshukumo zakho ezizithandayo. Umdala, umntwana uya kufumana izakhono ezintsha ezongezelelweyo. Ngoko, ukukhulula umama ukuba enze imisebenzi ethile. Ngoko kwiminyaka emibini kwishedyuli yansuku zonke kukho iiyure ezininzi zamahhala. Ukusetyenziswa kweli xesha kuya kuxutyushwa.
Yintoni enokwenza umama kweli xesha lokukhulula? Omnye ukhetha iphupha eliphilileyo, umntu uthanda ukukhangela umagazini okanye iphephandaba, ngokuqinisekileyo, umntu uza kuhlala kwi-intanethi okanye abukele iTV. Zonke ezi zikhethi zinendawo yokuhlala. Kodwa amanye amamama aya phambili kwaye achithe ixesha njengeluncedo kunokwenzeka.
Iingcamango ezimbalwa zokuchitha ixesha elikhululekile kumama
- Iswele. Oku kuthunga, ukudibanisa, ukulinganisa udongwe, ukuveliswa kwe-ikebana, kunye nokuchongwa kweenkuni, ngokuqhelekileyo, onokucinga. Kukho imisebenzi eninzi, inomdla, inqabileyo, yenza ukuba usebenze amafestile kunye nezandla, akudingeki ukuba utyalo-mali olukhulu, nakuba ungeke ukwazi ukufumana inzuzo. Ukuba awunalo ikhono lobuchule kulo msebenzi, ke le yinto yakho yokuzilibazisa, oko kuthetha ukuba awukwazi ukulinda inzuzo yezinto eziphathekayo. Umzekelo, ukuba awunayo imfundo ekhethekileyo yokugcoba, ke awukwazi ukugubungela izinto eziphezulu ze-oda, kunoko iimveliso zakho ziya kuba ngumntwana wakho, wena okanye ikhaya.
- Ukupheka . Abanye bahlela ukupheka kwinqanaba le-needlework, ngokwemigaqo "eyenziwe ngezandla zomntu". Kodwa oku akuyona nto yinyani. Sithetha ngokupheka njengokuba kufuneka umntu anelise iimfuno zakhe zokutya, kodwa kunokobugcisa. Unokufunda indlela yokupheka izitya zokutya ezahlukeneyo zehlabathi, ukusuka empuma ukuya eMexico, ukusuka kwisiNtaliyane ukuya kwisi-Ukrainian. Kwakhona, into ephambili yinto engamangalisa! Ukuzilibazisa okunjalo ngokuqinisekileyo kuya kuyanconywa ngabahlobo kunye nabahlobo, kwaye ngokubalulekileyo umyeni wakho. Indlela eya entliziyweni yomntu, njengoko ithethayo, ilele esiswini. Ubulumko bentliziyo kwaye asinakuphikisana nayo. Nangona kunjalo, le ngxubusho ibaluleke kakhulu! Lo ngumfanekiso wakho! Emva kokuzalwa komntwana, kunzima kakhulu kubafazi ukuba baphinde bafumane ifom yangaphambili. Ngoko ke, ukuba ukhuluphele kwaye ufuna ukuwususa, khawubale le misebenzi. Ngokukodwa i candelo elilandelayo.
- Midlalo . Ewe, ewe, kunjalo! Ukuba kukho ithuba lokuya kwindawo yokuzivocavoca, isikhungo sempilo okanye idama lokubhukuda - kakuhle, ukuba akunjalo - akukho nto ingxaki. Kukho umlinganiselo omkhulu wokuzivocavoca onokuwenza ekhaya, ngaphandle kwanoma ziphi iimfano. Enye enye indlela efanelekileyo yokuzisa umfanekiso, ukuhlaziya imisipha, ukuphucula isimo sengqondo, ukususa uxinzelelo lwe-stress. Kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele, kwimidlalo, kukho inqaku elilodwa - kufuneka uluthande inkqubo kwaye uziqinisekise ukuba isiphumo siya kuba, kwaye siya kudlulela konke okulindelweyo. Ngaphandle koko, ukuthanda kwakho akuyi kuhlala ixesha elide kwaye kwiiveki ezimbalwa le midlalo iya kutshintshwa ngokuhlala esihlalweni esingaphambi kweTV.
- Sebenza ekhaya kunye nexeshana . Ewe, ukuzonwabisa okanye umdlalo oncomekayo awubizwa kuthiwa, kodwa kuzisa imali engazange ifumaneke. Ngokuxhomekeke kohlobo lomsebenzi wakho, imfundo ekhoyo kunye namava omsebenzi, unokuzikhethela umsebenzi wexesha lesithuba. Oku kungagcina i-accounting ekhaya, usebenze njengomqhubi kwifowuni, ukubhalwa kwetawuni, amanqaku okubhala, njl. Kodwa into eyona nto kukuba lo msebenzi awukucasuli, kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo kuya kuvuyisa. Umama ngamnye unemithwalo emininzi yemithwalo yemfanelo, ukukhathazeka ngokomzimba nangokomzwelo, ngoko akufanele uthathe nayiphi na into engathandekiyo nayiphi na imeko.
- Uqeqesho oluphambili, ukufunda ulwimi, ukuzaliswa kolwazi . Ukuba uthanda ukufunda kwaye uhlala ucinga ukuba akukho nolwazi olwaneleyo kwenye indawo, hamba! Ewe, njengokuba ndathetha kumhlathi odlulileyo, oku kufuneka kukukholise. Abanye abantu bafumana kwi-Intanethi zonke iintlobo zezifundo ze-online-line, ziyakwazi ukuhambelana nemisebenzi yakho yobugcisa, ubomi bakho okanye akukho nto ixhunyiwe. Omnye uphupha kwiincwadi zeencwadi aze athabathe khona yonke inkcazelo ebalulekileyo. Konke kufikelela kuwe. Ngokumalunga nokufunda ulwimi, iincwadi zomsindo, iinkqubo zeekhompyutheni ezikhethekileyo, iincwadi zezifundo kunye neengcamango ngolwimi olubhekiselwe kuyo luya kuba lukhulu.
Ukuba usuqedile ukufunda, awukazanga ukhetha oko ufuna ukukwenza ngexesha lakho elifanelekileyo, ndikucebisa ukuba uzame yonke imisebenzi endiyicetyisayo. Awukwazi ukusho: "andinomdla kuyo," "andiyazi ukuba," "kunzima kakhulu," ngaphandle kokuzama ukukwenza.
Mhlawumbi kuwe, oomama abathandekayo, iitalente ezifihlakeleyo, ongazange uzikhange. Ikhefu lokubeletha lixesha elifanelekileyo lokuzifumanisa.