Kuthekani ukuba ndithandana nomfana othanda omnye

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Eyinyani, into enhle, yonke into iphelele? Xa uthando ludibeneyo. Kuthekani ukuba ndithandana nomfana othanda omnye? Indlela yokusebenza, indlela yokuphila, indlela yokusindisa kwaye ungadli?

Bangaphi amantombazana abazibuza yona lo mbuzo, kodwa akubona bonke abafumene impendulo eya kubanelisa.

Iipragmatists kunye nama-cynics bahlala besithi kwimeko enjalo: yebo, libale. Uyakulibala apha, ukuba elinye nelinye lihlala limi phambi kwamehlo akho, kwaye iingcamango zijika entloko yakho: njani ubhetele kunokuba ukhethekileyo, kutheni na isihogo asiyena? Kwaye into ebi kakhulu, yinto yonke into, uyazi nokuba akayithandi. Ewe, yakho ekhethekileyo, engavamile, eyona nto ibhetele, kuye-nje indawo engenanto.

Intukuthelo, intukuthelo, ukucaphuka, mhlawumbi inzondo. Iimvakalelo ezipheleleyo ziquka intloko. Kwaye awuyiqondi into ocinga ngayo kunye nendlela yokusebenza. Ewe, unokuyithiya, kuba nguye, ewe, nguye owachitha yonke into waza wayiqhekeza. Nangona le nxalenye yesithathu yothando lwenxantathu yakho kwaye uyazi ayenayo ngothando lwakho, okanye malunga naloo nto. Konke okufanayo, kuzo zonke iziphoso zakhe. Ungathumela i-megatons yenzondo, isiqalekiso, unqwenela ukuba yinto ebi kakhulu. Ngoko kuba lula. Kwithuba elithile.

Yaye ukuba awuyi kumthiya. Kwaye, ukuba umzekelo, ingumhlobo wakho? Ukuba uyamthanda kwaye akanakuphila ngaphandle kwakhe? Kwaye ukuba wena, wena ngokwakho uyamthanda, umxabise. Yintoni ke? Njani ukwenza? Mxelele ngokubeka ubungqina bakho kwisilingo okanye mhlawumbi uhlale ucebile, kwaye xa inyaniso ivula, kwaye uvula nje, ulahlekelwe yintombi yakhe aze ahlale enentlungu emibini emphefumlweni wakhe.

Kwaye ngoku sele ubetha intloko yakho eludongeni, ukhalela, ulimaza ihlabathi lonke kwaye awuboni isisombululo kumbuzo: kuthekani ukuba ndiyamthanda nomfana othanda omnye?

Yintoni endiyenzayo? Okokuqala, sukela eludongeni. Ukuba uyabetha ubuchopho bakho, awuyi kufumana isisombululo, kuba akukho nto yokucinga ngayo. Ngaba u Yenziwe kakuhle. Ngoku usela into evuselelayo uze uzame ukuzola. Kwaye kungcono ukulala. Kulula ukwenza izigqibo ezifanelekileyo kwintloko entsha.

Ngoko, utsha kwaye uphumule, ngokubanzi kunokwenzeka. Omkhulu. Ngoku unokuqala ukuqonda imeko.

Indlela yokusebenza xa ethanda omnye, kwaye uyamthanda naye. Oko kukuthi, baqinileyo. Kulapho unendlela ezimbini kuphela: vumela uhambe okanye ulwele umfana. Ukukhulula, kunjalo, kunzima, kubuhlungu kwaye kungenakubekezeleka, ekuqaleni. Kodwa kule meko, esi sisigqibo esifanelekileyo kuphela. Nokuba ucinga ukuba ungalunganga kwaye ufuna ukulwa. Ewe, zihlalutye: uyamthanda. UTHANDA. Uya kuphelisa njani lo thando? Emva koko awukwazi ukudlala ngokunyanisekileyo. Ngoko, unenjongo, undixolele, uthethe, uya kutshabalalisa ubudlelwane. Ngamanye amazwi, uya kumlimaza. Kodwa xa beyithanda, bafuna ukunwaba. Hayi nawe. Nje uvuyo. Ngoko, mhlawumbi oku akuyithandi nhlobo. Ngaphandle koko, masithi usenza ukuba ayeke ukuthanda omnye aze abe nawe. Awukwazi ukuhlala ngokuthula, kuba uya kukwazi ukuba ukuba unokumthabatha kuye, omnye ufana, ungenalo uthando, uya kukwazi ukumthabatha kuwe. Ngaba unokubiza ubomi obonwabileyo xa uziva uloyiko? Phendula le mibuzo uze uphinde ucinge ngokukhetha "ukukhululwa".

Iimeko ezimbini: uyamthanda, akayi. Nantsi yonke into ibheka i-rosier eninzi kwaye ithembisa ngakumbi. Ekuqalekeni. Kakade, unokubonisa ukuba ungumhlobo wenene, ukuba uyamqonda, ulungele ukukunceda nokuxhasa ukuba kungcono ukuba ungafumani mntu. Emva kwexesha, uya kumlibala kwaye aqonde ukuba uphelele. Ngelishwa, ngokukodwa oku kwenzeka kuphela kumabhayisikobho. Ubomi bwenene, ipesenteji yesiphumo esinjalo ayinanto. Ewe, unako ukubeka umngcipheko, kodwa khumbula ukuba kunokwenzeka ukuba uya kuhlupheka, kuba asiyi kufeza umphumo okulindelayo.

Ngenxa yokuba, ngokuphindaphindiweyo, uthando aludluli ngokukhawuleza. Kwaye ukuba umntu unesifo esingenakunyakazela, lowo umzuzwana uyamnika uthando lwakhe luba yinto engena endaweni, indlela yokulibala, ukuba ibangele umona. Nangona umthandane wakho uzama ngokunyanisekileyo ukwakha ubudlelwane, kude kude nokuba uya kuphumelela. Inyaniso kukuba ngoxa uncedwa nguwe uya kuphelisa ngamandla kwiimvakalelo kwenye. Nobundlobongela kubangela ukucaphuka kunye nenzondo. Kwaye konke oku kakubi, kungekudala okanye kamva, kuya kuphoswa kwindlela yakho. Emva koko uza kuphazamiseka ngamakhulu amaxesha. Emva kwakho konke, sele usinike umphefumlo wakho, waza waba yingqayi engabongiyo. Okubi nakakhulu, ekugqibeleni uyazilibala iimvakalelo zakhe zangaphambili aze awele ngothando. Kodwa akunjalo. Intombazana exhaqileyo ngokupheleleyo, ongeyayazi malunga nayo yonke into eyenziwa yintlungu. Enyanisweni, kwanokuba ukusola ukuba akunjalo. Ngenxa yokuba, kwiimeko ezininzi, phakathi kolunye uthando lwesibini kufuneka kubekho utshintsho, ibhuloho, okwenza ukuba uhambe ukusuka kwelinye icala uze ubeke unyawo kwenye. Unako ukuma kwibhulorho ixesha elide. Kodwa kwakungekho mntu uhlala khona. Ukuthuka, ukucaphukisa, kodwa okwenyaniso.

Kwaye makhe sikhumbule imeko ebuhlungu kakhulu neyibiyo: Mna, wam umhlobo kunye naye. Eneneni ingxaki. Indoda encinci oye wayilungele ukuthetha kuyo yonke into, yenza ube nomsindo. Ufuna ukumyeka ukumthiya. Kwaye awukwazi. Emva kwakho konke, sele usuthandana! Ufuna ukuxelela yonke into, kodwa awunayo amandla aneleyo. Kule meko, mhlawumbi, ingxaki enkulu ingaba nolwalamano nomhlobo. Cinga malunga nokuba ukulungele ukulwa naye, empeleni, uphathise ubomi bakhe. Ukuba kunjalo, ngoko ke, kwaye kungekhona nje umhlobo. Ukuba akunjalo. Emva koko kufuneka umxelele yonke into. Ndiqinisekile ukuba sele sele eziva ukuba into ayiphumelekanga, uyakrokrela, kodwa akayi kukwazi ukuthetha ngokuvakalayo. Yaye uyakhathazeka. Ngoko ke, kukulungele ukuthetha ngokucoceka nokugqiba ukuba wenze ntoni.

Umhlobo wokwenene uya kuqonda, kuba awukwazi ukuyalela intliziyo yakho. Yaye ukuba uthe wagxekisa, ke lo mntu akafanelekanga isikhundla esiphambili "somhlobo". Ungathemba igama, emva kwengxoxo enjalo kuya kuba lula. Makuvumelekanga, kodwa kusekho lula. Kwaye nangona unqumle ukufuduka ixesha elithile, uya kuziqonda isizathu, kwaye ungayi kulahleka kwiinkwenkwezi kwaye ukhathazeke. Emva kwakho konke, kunjalo, kungakhathaliseki ukuba sinomdla kangakanani, ngokungathi singaboni, kodwa ngokuqhelekileyo kwenzeka ukuba abafana beze bahambe, kodwa ubuhlobo buhlala ngonaphakade.