Yenza indoda incomo. Kodwa simele simdumise yena ngokwakhe, kwaye kungekhona izinto ezisendlini yakhe yangasese. Ukuba uthe: "Nguwuphi umtya ontle!", Lo mntu uya kuba nesizathu sokucinga malunga nento othanda ngayo ngaphezulu - ityesi okanye yena ngokwakhe. Eyona nto ithetha oku: "Le nto iqine kakhulu kuwe, igxininisa imisonto eluhlaza."
Bonisa ukuba ulalele. Ngexesha elide ugobe uze uthi "yeah" - musa ukukhawuleza ukuphendula, phulaphula oko bakutshoyo kuwe. Mhlawumbi uyazi ukuba kwiimeko apho incoko iqhubeka khona, unomdla ngakumbi, ucinga ngakumbi malunga nento oyithethayo. Oku kwendalo. Xa kukho ukuphazamiseka kwintetho, zama ukubuyela kwisihloko onokuxoxa ngaso, kwaye ungagqithisi ukuya kwinto entsha. Ngaloo ndlela uza kubonisa ukuba landela incoko enomdla kuwe, yinike umtsalane omtsha. Ukuqulunqa isihloko esitsha, esilungileyo kwincoko akusoloko imfuneko.
Zama ukunceda. Ukuba uthe phakathi kweso sizathu sokuba imoto yakhe imiswe kwindawo yesithandathu, mbuze xa uya kuhamba emva kwexeshana, mthabathe khona. Buza ukuba unokumnceda ukuhambisa ipakethe kunye nemveliso ukuba izandla zakhe zixakekile. Ukuba wayeqaphela ukuba uya kupenda iindonga endlwini yakhe, cebisa indawo apho ungathenga khona upende ongezantsi (okanye unikele ngeenkonzo zakho njengomdwebi). Bonisa ukuba banokuchitha ixesha labo ukuze bazi umntu olungcono, ukumnceda enze ubomi bube lula.
Buza imibuzo enenjongo. Xa udlala ngothando ungenzi imibuzo kwaye ungabuzi malunga nomntu siqu. Kuya kuza imibuzo engaphendulanga ngathi "Ukhulile phi?", "Ngaba uthanda amafilimu ehlaselayo?". Ngoko uya kukwazisa. Ufuna ukwazi umntu ongcono. Gwema izihloko eziyingozi kunye nemibuzo "enkulu" efana neyo "Ufuna ntoni ebomini?".
Bonisa ukuba umntu akhange akukhange nje namhlanje. Qaphela ukuba uyibonile kwingqungquthela enokutyeba apho usandul ' Khumbula oko wathetha ngeveki ephelileyo kwiklasi. Mxelele ukuba uyathanda kakhulu inwele yakhe entsha. Ndixelele ukuba uthanda kangakanani ukuhleka kwakhe xa uqala ukumva.
Khangela umntu kwiso. Makhe adibana nomntu ukujonga ngaphezu kweminithi, kodwa akudingeki ukuba ugqolozele kuye. Thatha amehlo akho ukuze isifundo sakho sinexesha lokuphawula ukuba le nto yayijoliswe kuye (kwaye kungekhona umntu onokuthi abe kufuphi). Emva koko phinda le ndlela, ngeli xesha ngokumomotheka.
Kudlula. Mhlawumbi, ukuze ungene kwindlu yangasese yabesifazane, kukho iindlela ezingamashumi amabini namibini. Khetha enye evumela ukuba uyidlulise. Hamba phambi kwakhe ukuze akubone. Ukuba kukho abaninzi abantu abakujikelezile, ungayipaka phambi kwakhe ngokwemvelo, njengokungathi ngethuba, ndimomotheka.
Chukumisa lula. Ngethuba le ngxoxo ngokukhawuleza (kunye nokukhawuleza-nantsi into ephambili) thintela isandla sakhe. Kukulungele ukwenza oku emva kokuba umntu uthetha into ecinga kakhulu okanye ekhohlisayo. Isenzo sakho siya kumxelela ukuba uyavumelana naye, ukuba uvakalelwa ngokufanayo. Kodwa musa ukuyisebenzisa kakubi.
Musa ukujika kumntu odlala naye. Ukuba uhleli eceleni kwakho, ungayiphenduli ihlombe lakho. Xa uthetha, phenduka ngoko ubona ubuso bakho. Oku kuya kwenza ukuba azive ukuba unamathele kakhulu kumagama akhe.
Hambisa ngakumbi. Oku akuthethi ukuba ufanele ungcwabe impumlo yakho kwiqhina le-tie yakhe, kodwa akudingeki uhlale kumgama weenyawo ezintathu. Mxhaphaze, thabathe inyathelo eliphambili. Futhi ungabuyiselanga kwakhona.