Ukuthandana kwezesondo kunye neengxaki zithathwa njengenye yezona ndlela eziqhelekileyo zokunxibelelana ngokungathethiyo phakathi kwendoda nomfazi. Ukuba uyayazi "ulwimi lomzimba wakho", unokukhangela kalula naluphi na ummeli wesini esahlukileyo ngaphandle kwamagama angadingekile.
Ukuthandana ngokwesondo somfazi
Ngokubhekiselele kwisenzo sokuziphatha ngokwesini kunye neendleko zabafazi, iingcamango zenziwa. Kodwa, njengommiselo, oku kunokwakhe okukhethileyo. Kukho izinto ezininzi zesini. Nathi sifuna ukukuxelela malunga nezona ezisetyenziswayo.
Ngoko ke, ukuba ibhinqa lifuna ukutsala ingqalelo yindoda kwaye iyamthabatha, kwi-arsenal yakhe kukho iindlela ezininzi ezahlukeneyo kunye neendlela ezibandakanya le mizobo yesondo elandelayo.
Ukunyuka kwezesondo ukutsala ingqalelo:
- ukunyakaza okulula kunye nokugqithiseleyo kwesandla, ukuze ulungise iinwele okanye iimpahla zakhe;
- ukunyakaza kwentloko ebukhali, ukwenzela ukuba ubuyisele kwakhona iinwele zakho (ubude beenwele kunye nesimboli akunandaba);
- Ukuphosa kwentloko kunye nokuthambekela kwayo emva koko;
- ngelixa umfazi ehleli, uhamba ngokukhawuleza aze awele imilenze yakhe;
- ukuxhaphaza ngoncedo lwesondo, ithole okanye intamo;
Ukuthandana ngokwezesondo ezithi indoda idonsa umfazi ngendlela yesondo:
- imilenze ehluke kancane, engaxhomekeke ekubeni le ntokazi ibemi okanye ihleli;
- iinqwelwana eziwela;
- utshintsho olugqithiseleyo kwisimo seenyawo - ukugxotha ngokukhawuleza komlenze unyawo, kwaye ngokukhawuleza ubuyisele kwisimo sabo sokuqala;
- ibhinqa lisasaza amabele akhe;
- jongana nohlobo oluthile, udibaniso lwentsebenzo kunye nokumomotheka;
- umlomo ovulekileyo, imilomo eminyene;
- thulile kunye nezantsi kwezwi;
- ngokwesondo ukubetha isandla sezinto ezahlukeneyo ezinomfanekiso wesigxina;
- Ukusetyenziswa kokubonakalisa phambi kwesikhala somlomo;
- ngelixa incoko kunye nendoda, le nkosikazi ixhomeke ngokuthe ngqo kwinqanaba layo;
- umboniso wesandla somfazi kunye nekhanda elicocekileyo nelinenqabileyo yezandla. Oku kuphakamisa ukuba njengeqabane lesini, indoda ingamkhanga.
Imizobo ebonisa ukuba le ntokazi ikhululekile nale ndoda:
- kwindawo yokuhlala, umfazi uguqule umlenze omnye phantsi kwakhe;
- ukuthungula izicathulo kwiingcebiso zezinzwane. Ngendlela, inzwane yesikhangu okanye igoti legolo kulo mzuzwana lijoliswe kuphela kumntu;
Ukuthandana ngokwesondo:
- Le ntombi iyancwina, ke iyancipha ikhwephe, ibukela kude;
- umfazi uthinta isandla somnye umntu okanye uzama ukuhlala kufuphi naye ngokusemandleni.
Iindleko zesondo
I-gait enobuhle ne-sexy inokukunceda ngenyameko ibhinqa ukufihla iziphoso zakhe kwaye ibonise isidima salo mfanekiso.
Inzuzo enjalo yowesifazane ngokuthe ngqo ixhomekeke kwi-posture kunye nezicathulo. Ngendlela, kuhamba ngendlela efanelekileyo efanelekileyo yokuba ibhinqa lifunde ukuhamba ngesondo.
Ngethuba lokuhamba, akufanele ugcine kuphela umva wakho, kodwa intloko yakho nayo.
Enye imfihlelo yokuhamba kakuhle kunye nezocansi isilungeleliso esifanelekileyo senyawo, iisokisi ezenzeke ngendlela echaziweyo. Iintloko kufuneka zihambe ngomgca owodwa.
Kukwajongwa kwakhona ngesondo:
- ukuhamba ngokukhawuleza;
- phambili imilenze, kwaye ke umzimba;
- Amanyathelo ambalwa athathekayo nakwabantu. Ngendlela, ubungakanani beziteyathelo ezifanelekileyo kufuneka bilingane nobukhulu benyawo engaphuhlanga.
Ukuba intombazana igqoke izithende, kufuneka iqale isithende. Ukuthetha ngezithende, kuyafaneleka ukuphawula ukuba akubona bonke abafazi abazi indlela yokuhamba kuzo. Kulula kakhulu kula majazana ayenemilenze yawo. Kodwa xa ibhinqa lihamba ngeesithende ngeemilenze ezinamaqabunga, libukeka lihlazo kwaye lingabi ludumo. Kule meko, kungcono ukuyeka izicathulo ezinezithende eziphezulu. Kwaye enye into, ukuhamba ngendlela engafanelekanga kunye nokugubha ngokuqhelekileyo kubonisa ukuba le ntokazi ibingakhuselekanga.
Kwaye, ekugqibeleni, ndifuna ukuthetha ukuba wonke umntu uyasabela ngokukhawuleza kwindoda enhle yowesifazane kunye nesenzo somzimba wesondo. Kodwa ngamnye umfazi ngumntu ngamnye, intsebenzo yakhe kunye nezenzo zakhe zodwa kwaye unokuthi "izixhobo ezikhethekileyo", okumele ube nakho ukuzisebenzisa ngokufanelekileyo kwiinjongo zokuzimela! Khumbula ukuba ukuziphatha ngokwesondo kunye nokuziphatha akuyona into oyifunayo ukuyifundela, le minqweno!