Ngoko, masithi uya kuchitha iholide lakho ehlobo e-Italiya ilanga. Ngokuqinisekileyo uhambo olunjalo alufanele libaleke, kodwa akusiyo wonke umntu owaziyo ukuziphatha kunye namadoda aseNtaliyane nendlela yokuziwa. Ngoko ke, ukuba ufuna iholide ekhunjulwe ngokwenene, kuquka ukuzithoba ngothando olushushu lwaseTaliyane, kwaye mhlawumbi ukuqhubeka kwendibano enomcimbi womtshato, eli nqaku liphela kuwe.
Ungubani, indoda yaseNtaliyane
AmaTaliyane abhekwa njengabathanda kakhulu nabanomdla abanokuthi badibanise intombazana kwintetho yangempela ethi "uthando." Phakathi kwezinye izinto, amaTaliyane aqwalaselwa njengama-aesthetes amnandi, aphethwe ngobomi obuhle. Bayixabisa kakhulu induduzo. Kodwa ngaphandle kwayo yonke into, umtshato kunye namadoda anjalo uvelisa ingqiqo yokhuseleko kunye nentuthuzelo, kuba abameli baseNtaliyane banesondo esomeleleyo banamathele kakhulu kwintsapho kwaye bancoma abantwana. Ewe, ukuba ube kufuphi nabafana baseNtaliyane, uya kubona ngokukhawuleza ukuba bathanda ukudlala esidlangalaleni. Oku, kwindawo yokuqala, ngenxa yokuba zonke iItali kwisiseko sayo ngumculi ozalwayo othanda ukubhukuda. Yaye ukuba amaTaliyane angabantu abangapheli ixesha, ngokuqinisekileyo uya kufuneka ufumane emva kokuba udibene nomntu waseNtaliyane. Mhlawumbi oku kubangelwe kukuba ininzi yexesha eliseNtaliyane libonakala libonakala. Kodwa oku konke akunakulinganiswa noluthando lobomi kunye neengcamango ezihlaziyekileyo kulolu hlanga. Kwaye ngokubaluleke kakhulu, amaTaliyane ayithathwa njengabantu abanenkolelo-makholwa abakholelwa kuyo yonke imiqondiso kunye nemiqondiso evela phezulu.
Ukuqhelana namadoda ase-Italy
Ukukwazi kunye neNtaliyane akudingi umgudu omkhulu, kuba akukho mmeleli wesini esilungileyo, nokuba ngumthonyama waseNtaliyane okanye uhlanga olungileyo, akayi kuhlala engqalelo ngaphandle kwindoda yindoda yaseItali. Oku kubangelwa kukuba kweli lizwe kuyinto yokwazisa abesifazana, abaye bazinikezela ngayo uthando olupheleleyo. Ngoko qiniseka ukuba awuyi kuphumelela kwaye uphawule iso, njengoko uya kukwazi.
Oko kufuneka ukwazi ngaphambi kokuba udibane nabantu baseNtaliyane
Kufuneka ukhumbule ukuba amaTaliyane azinzileyo. Ngamanye amazwi, bayakhawuleza bashawule kwaye baphume ngokukhawuleza. Ukuba ufuna ukugcina indoda enjalo, kufuneka uhlakulele amaqhinga akho omdlalo: namhlanje unomdla kwaye ushushu, kusasa ucolile kwaye uyimfihlakalo.
Nangona uzuko lwabathandwayo bemvelo, amaTaliyane ahlala ekhawuleza. Ngoko ke, kufuneka ulungele ukuba kufuneka uvimbele umgangatho wesimo saseNtaliyane. Emva kokuba uqeqeshe ulwalamano olutsha oluthile, ubuya kubonakala ngokuqinisekileyo kwindalo yefestile.
Ngendlela, ukuzibandakanya ne-Italiyane, kukude nayo yonke, kuba usenokwenza "ukuza enkundleni yakhe", okt. njengentsapho yakhe. Kwaye nendima enkulu kule nto idlala ngumama, naye u-Madonna kunye nomfazi ohloniphekileyo kwihlabathi ngenxa yonyana wakhe. Ngoko ke, zilungiselele ukuba ungeke ukwazi ukuthatha indawo yokuqala entliziyweni yakho, ekubeni sele inikwe umama.
Yintoni ongayilindela kumntu omaziyo kunye nesiTaliyane
Olu lwazi luya kukunika ulwandle lweemvakalelo kunye nokubonakala, kuba iya kuba yinto enomdla, idityaniswe kwimibono yembali yase-Italy yothando. Ngoko ulwandle lwentando kunye nolwandle lolwandle luya kunikwa lona. Into ephambili ayiyi kulahlekelwa yintloko yakho!
Indlela yokuziphatha ngexesha lokuthandana
Kufuneka ukhumbule ukuba amadoda aseNtaliyane athambekele ekusebenzeni ngokuhambelana nomzekelo othize: ukunyuswa kokuqala, emva koko, ukuba bahluleka ukuthatha inzala kwintombazana, ukutshatyalaliswa kweqhwaba, kwaye ngenxa yoko, uhlobo oluthile lokukhohlisa okanye u-mega deed, kufuneka ngokuphumelele intliziyo yowesifazane. Kodwa kufanele 'ugcine indlebe yakho ibukhali', kuba nanini na ixesha ixesha lokuzingela elinye ixhoba lingavula. Ngenxa yokunqoba umfazi waseTaliyane athambekele ekuqambeni amanga (eqinisweni, oku akusebenzi kumntu wonke) kwaye ubuchule obuhle. Ngoko akufanelekile ukuba ugijime ngqo echibini. Ekuqaleni, cwangcisa onke amanqaku angentla "kunye", uqikelele ubungqina beemvakalelo zakhe. Ngendlela, ukukhutshwa kwakho kuya kwandisa umdla.