Kutheni abakhange iingqondo zeengqondo bebhenela ukwenza isigqibo malunga naloo mntu okanye loo mntu. Kwaye ukukhethwa kokutya kwabasetyhini akunyanzelwanga.
Iindlela zokutya zabesetyhini
Masiqale ngomzimba. Ubomi bezilwanyana ezidliwayo zenyama yezilwanyana ezidliwayo zintlobo kunye nokuhla. Ngokuqhelekileyo bafezekisa impumelelo, kodwa kukho ukungaphumeleli ekuphunyezweni kwezicwangciso zabo. Ukuze kulawulwe ubomi bokudla inyama, kubalulekile ukuhlaziywa izimvo malunga nokugxeka okubhekiswe kubo ukuze zanele kwaye zichaneke.
Kodwa ijubane kunye nobugulane ngabathandi abathandekayo benqatha. Kwaye nangona ubuninzi bemisebenzi yabo yobungcali bunokubakho kwiingcuka zodwa, kodwa ke, zifikelela eziphakamileyo kwimisebenzi yazo. Ngokuphathelele imibuzo yokudlala ngothando kunye nokukhohlisa, aba bhinqa bayaziqhelanisa kwaye banomsebenzi, ukudlala ngothando kuyintandokazi kunye nendawo eqhelekileyo kubo. Abathandwayo "batyebile" banelungelo elikhulu. Ukungaphumeleli kwala mabhinqa kubandakanya ukuvuleka, ukuqonda, okubangela ukuba babe nengqiqo enxulumene nabo, ngenxa yoko bangabakhuthaza ngokungahambisani nabo.
Abo bakhetha iintlanzi bahlukaniswa ngokuhlala, ukunyamezela, ukuzola. Ezi zimpawu zifowuni zibiza intlonelo kwiintsapho, oogxa, abahlobo. Abasetyhini abakhetha intlanzi kubonisa inkxaso ethembekileyo kubantu kunye nezihlobo, ababonisa ukuthembeka kwabo kwintsapho. Kuphela akukho ukuvuleka okwaneleyo ukufunda umbono kunye nesimo sengqondo ngabo ngabanye abantu. Ngenxa yoko, umthandi wentlanzi walahlekelwa umdla kumntu wabo.
Abathandayo izitya ezitshisayo banomlilo ovuthayo, kuba into eqhelekileyo kukuba benze izenzo egameni lothando. Ngokubhekiselele kumsebenzi wobugcisa bentsebenzo, bayatsalwa ngumngcipheko othile, umsebenzi owandisiweyo, onokunyusa enye inxalenye ye-adrenaline. Iingxaki zibandakanya u-egoism, kuba "unobunzima" kunye nomntu "obukhali", ongenakunyamezela naziphi na izichaso.
Abathandi bemifuno banabantu abanamandla, baphumelele emsebenzini wabo. Ziyaziwa ngokuthanda, ukunyamekela, ukunyamekela, ukunqwenela ulwazi. Ezi zixhobo zomntu wesifazane azibonakali kwaye zivuzwa. Kwimpilo yabo, abathandi bemifuno bahlonela kakhulu. Ngabantu abanjalo nje, ngokuzolile, ngokukhawuleza, basuke bengabantu abangqubuzanayo.
Abathandi bezityalo banomdla kwaye banomdla, banamhlobo amaninzi. La mabhinqa afuneki umsebenzi odibeneyo, athanda umdla kwezo zakhono ezingabonisa amandla abo kunye neetalente zokudala. Abaqhelani nento engenamsebenzi, badla ngokuba ngabantu abangakhathaliyo.
Abafazi abancinci beentliziyo zivuyayo, zivulekile kwaye zinobubele. Bajikeleza wonke umntu onenkathalo, abacaphukisiweyo, kodwa bawanelise. Ngokuqhelekileyo aba bafazi banamava okwemvakalelo, abangenako ukuwanelisa.
Emva koko kunokwenzeka ukufumana izigqibo ukuba uluvo lweengqondo zeengqondo luhambelana nenyaniso.