Ukumamatheka kukaMnu. Lucky kuyaphupha ukubona ezininzi, kodwa ukuze uzuze, kufuneka usebenze nzima, kwaye awuzange uqondwe, usebenze nzima. Mhlawumbi kunelungelo lokulindela intwana kunye nomlindi womlingo okanye ulinde umlindi ukuba eze kuwe kwi-helicopter eluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka. Inhlanhla yimeko ye-subconscious, ixesha eliphakamileyo ukuqonda ukuba ngamnye wethu uhlala e-fairies kunye nabalusi, benza imimangaliso yangempela. Kwaye ukuze uqonde indlela yokukhangela inhlanhla ngamanqaku athile, umntu kufuneka akholelwe ukuba ikhona. Kwaye ukuba uyayiphika loo mazwi ngamazwi akho, unokutsala njani ukukhangela into ongakholelwa kuyo.
Zingaphi iindidi eziqhekezayo: "Zizo zonke iindaba ezifihlakeleyo. Oku akunakwenzeka. Imimangaliso ayenzeki. " Kwakuyi shishini, akunjalo? Kwaye usenethemba lokuthile? Kwaye inhlanhla iya kwindawo apho ithemba khona, apho kulindeleke khona. Apho uyabulela kwaye uyonwabile, apho eyanconywa khona, ethanda kwaye ekholelwa kuye. Inhlanhla yindawo efanelekileyo, ngoko kufuneka uqiniseke ukuba ufikelele kuwe kwaye wahlala ngonaphakade endlwini yakho. Ukongezelela, inhlanhla ayifuni ingenanto.
Amandla okucinga okulungileyo
Kucinga ukuba kanye nantoni na yonke inhlanhla kunye nempumelelo akuyona ingozi, kodwa umzekelo ovela kwizenzo ezifanelekileyo kunye neengcamango. Iingcamango zethu zingumfanekiso ongenamkhawulo wamandla kunye namandla amakhulu. Njalo isibini badala ikusasa lethu kunye nenyaniso yethu. Ubomi bethu imeko yinto ebonakalayo yeengcamango zethu, esizidla ngokunyamekela, kodwa zizinto eziphathekayo. Sichitha ixesha elininzi sikhathazeka kwaye sinexhala, kodwa awuyi kufa ngokukhawuleza kwizinto zonke kwaye ugula ngezifo zonke. Sichitha amandla amaninzi kunye namandla engqondo ngokucinga malunga neentsuku ezimnyama ezinokuza, kwaye ngoko ke sizicwangcisa oko zihlaselayo.
Xa sicinga ngakumbi ngeengxaki zethu, iingxaki, ukungaphumeleli, ngoko sibaphindaphinda. Kufuneka uhlaziye iingcamango zakho, uzigcwalise ngokuchuma kunye novuyo, ulonwabo, obuhle kunye nokukhanya. Kuphela ukuqonda ngokucacileyo ukuba yonke into iyinyani, kungenzeka ukuba amaphupha azaliseke, ukuba yonke into iya kulungele. Ukuze ube yinto enqabileyo yenhlanhla, kufuneka uziphatha kwaye uzive, ucinge nje ukuba sele usufezile yonke into oyifunayo.
Cinga okulungileyo
Iingcamango zethu zilungile kwaye zimbi, zigqoke ngamazwi, ziphuka emlonyeni, zijikeleza zibe yiyinyani, ziyichitha okanye ziyiguqule. Sichaza loo mabinzana, angabangela umonakalo kumthumeli nakwi-addressee: "Ubambelele esibindi sam! Ewe, ndiyindoda! Andikwazi ukukubona! kwaye siyazibuza ukuba kutheni kwenzeka ntoni na. Ngoko kuvela ukuba ucele, ngoko uyifumane. Ukuba ufuna inhlanhla ukuba eze endlwini yakho, kufuneka uzithathele umthetho, ungathethi nto embi ngabantu okanye malunga nawe. Ukuqinisekiswa kwenhlanhla kunye nokusetyenziswa kwamandla okukhanya kweli gama kuya kuncedwa yiziqinisekiso, ezi zichanekileyo, iingxelo ezichanekileyo, ukuba xa ziphindaphindiweyo, ziyaziswa ngokutsha, ziguqulwe kwaye zibe yinxalenye yobomi bethu. Isicatshulwa sabo sinokuthi singabonakaliyo kwaye sichazwe kuphela ngexesha langoku kunye namazwi athi "Ndinguye".
Khangela ubungqina bokuba: "Ndingumama ongcono, mfazi, mfazi! Ndiyena mnandi, onobuqili, onamandla! Ndiyintle! Ndiphilile! Kuhle kum! Ndinezinto ezilungileyo kwaye ndifanelwe zonke ezilungileyo! Ndihlala ubomi bomntwana! Emva kwam, ndithandekayo, ndithembekileyo nithembekileyo! Sonke sinokwenza konke! "Emva kombhalo ofanayo, uhlala ufudumele kwaye ulula. Qalisa kwaye usuphelise usuku lwakho ngokuqinisekiswa okuya kukhanyisa ubomi bakho. Emva koko, onke amagama afanele athole impendulo emphefumlweni wakho, yenza itekisi yakho, umsebenzi ube mnandi kakhulu, ungaphuthelwa ithuba lokuba uzive njengomtshi okanye ufeya.
Ukufunda ukujonga
Amazwi kunye neengcamango, kunjalo oku kulungile, kodwa umfanekiso oqaqambileyo uya kunceda ukuqinisa umphumo, oya kuba yimifanekiso yeminqweno. Yakha ii-castle, uphupha, uzivelele. Ukuba uphupha imoto, zicinga ukuba uqhuba impawu ethile, cinga ukukhupha i-cabin, umbala, uzive ujikeleza ngezandla zakho, izandi, ucofa, ucinge ngemimoya ngaphandle kwewindow. Ikhonkrithi ecacileyo, inkcazelo, eyona mfanekiso, ingcono. Khawucinge ukuba unomshini onjalo kwaye wenze njalo nayo yonke iminqweno kunye nezicwangciso.
Sisebenzisa amakhadi anomnqweno
Okanye njengoko kuthiwa, isiqithi sobutyebi, oku kuya kunceda uqonde iminqweno yakho. Kule nto sithatha amaphephancwadi amahle, iifoto ezithandayo, kwaye ngoncedo lwezikrini senza ikhadi lethu lesifiso. Senza njalo ngenyanga. Siyanamathela kwiphepha lephepha kwiindawo ezifana nempilo, uthando, udumo, ubutyebi, imifanekiso enjalo odibanisa namaphupha akho, kwaye phakathi kwendawo esifaka ngayo isithombe sakho. Akukho nto eyoyikisayo kunye nexhala. Icandelo ngalinye lizaliswe ngokuqinisekiswa kwalo, kufuneka ukwazi ukuba yonke into iya kuvela. Ngokudala ikhadi lomnqweno, uthumela imikhosi yendalo yonke isicelo esicacileyo esiyidingayo. Yonke imihla, yithanda le khadi, siyabonga, ngokungathi ukhona. Thembela imikhosi yendalo yonke, musa ukukhawuleza izinto uze uqhubeke uphila. Ukuba ufuna ukunqoba iidola ezigidi, kufuneka usebenze nzima, ubuncinci uthenge ithikithi leloti.
Ukuxolela nokubulela kukuchaphazela njani inhlanhla?
Xa uyabulela kwaye udumisa umsebenzi wakho, ufuna ukusebenzela. Imikhosi yendalo yonke ihleliwe. Musa ukukhupha iindumiso ezinkulu kunye ezincinci. Ndiyabulela umoya ophelileyo, phezu kwezulu ngaphezu kwentloko yakho, kubazali bakho, ngesidlo sakusihlwa esimnandi, kwikhompyutha, kubahlobo kunye njalo njalo. Ukuze ube nakho okungakumbi kunako, xabisa yonke into onayo.
Cinga ukuba kwizandla zakho ezithandayo kukho ibhola elincinci lomhlaba. Kwaye ngeli xesha ientyatyambo eziqhaqhaqhaqhazelayo entliziyweni yakho, eziza kuzaliswa ngokubulela nothando nokulunga. Yibonge umhlaba ngomthanda noxolo. Konke oku, kholwa kwam, kuza kubuya kuwe. Into oyifunayo iya kubonakala xa ufuna.
Ndiyabonga amandla asezulwini kunye nabantu abahlala bekulungele ukunceda:
Ndiyabulela yonke imimandla emihle yokukhanya yendalo yonke into yokuba ubomi bam buvuyiswa imihla ngemihla, ngakumbi uvuyo, ngakumbi, kuba impilo yam iyaphucula kwaye ikhula ngamandla, kuba amandla am ayenyuka.
Funda ukuxolela kwaye uvumele ukuhamba nawe kunye naboni bakho. Ukuvakalelwa kwintlungu kunye nentyala kuyonakalisa ngaphakathi komntu. Kuyimfuneko ukuyifaka endaweni yokuxolelwa kunye nothando. Kuyafaneleka ukuqinisekiswa:
Ndiyakholwa ngokuvuya kunye nothando. Ndiyazi ukuba ndizungezwe ngabantu abanomdla, abanomusa nabathandekayo. Nsuku zonke ebomini bam ndidala indawo ehambelana neyobuhle. Ndixolela wonke umntu, kwaye ndiyazixolela. Ndiyathumela uthando kubo bonke abasondelene nam kunye nabangqongileyo.
Ekugqibeleni, songeza: unokwenza inqabileyo inhlanhla kunye nezilwanyana zabantu, ezi ndlela zisebenzayo kwaye zilula ziya kunceda ukwenza ubomi bakho buhambelane kwaye buphelele, bancede ukukhangela inhlanhla. Ukuphuhlisa, sebenza kuwe. Cinga nje ngokulungileyo, uthando, ithemba kunye nokukholelwa, kwaye inhlanhla ayiyi kudlula kuwe.