Enyanisweni, inkqubo yokubonisa isipho ayikho mnandi kangako kunenkqubo yokuyifumana. Kodwa indlela yokubonisa isipho sokuqala ngomhla wokuzalwa ngendlela yangaphambili ukuze ingakhange ibhekane nesimo se-banal? Ukuba ubuye ufike ngeendlela ezingaqhelekanga zokubonisa isipho, oko kuza kuqala kwaye kuyithakazelisa, kuya kuba ngcono ukukhunjulwa ngumntu ofuna ukumnika okuthile. Kwaye kukho iindlela ezininzi zesipho ezizenzileyo kwaye ezingezizo eziqhelekileyo.
Yaye khumbula ukuba ngokuqhelekileyo umntu akakwazi ukukhumbula kuphela isipho ngokwayo, kodwa indlela eyanikwa ngayo. Inkqubo yokuhambisa ingaba yinye yezinto ezilungileyo kakhulu zomntu, ngoko ungakulibali malunga nale ngxaki. Kufuneka uzame ngokucophelela kunokwenzeka ukuba ucinge ngendlela onokwenza ngayo isipho ukuze kukhunjulwe ngobomi.
Ukuba unyanzelekile kwindlela, kodwa ufuna ukwenza inkundla enomdla wokubhiyozela, isipho esasisiseko sinikwe uncedo. Ngokomzekelo, vumela ufike ukuthenga kuphela isipho esibi kakhulu, njengebhakethi yeziqhamo. Ngoko kukuthintela ukuthini ukudibanisa nenkqubo yokunika ezinye iindwendwe? Yakha iskripthi, umzekelo, unikezele ukulungiselela amakhophiswano ahlukeneyo, amabhaso apho esiza kuba sisiqhamo esicaleni sakho. Ukuthatha inxaxheba kumncintiswano kuya kwamenywa iindwendwe, kwaye izipho ziya kunikwa kumsunguli wokubhiyozela. Ndikholelwe, oku kuya kubangela ukuba abantu bajabule kwaye bakhumbule okungcono kunokuba isipho esifanelekileyo.
Ngokuqhelekileyo, ukulungiselela inkqubo yokunikezela, kufuneka ufunde kabanzi malunga nendawo apho baya kuchitha iholide. Ukuba le yindlu yomntu okanye igumbi, ke ukuba unako ukufikelela kubo, ungaqalisa ukuqeqeshwa ixesha elide ngaphambi kokubhiyozela, ukudala uhlobo lwe-cache apho uya kugcina khona iinkcukacha ozifunayo ukulungiselela inkqubo yokubonisa isipho. Ukuba iholide iya kuba yiphina indawo efana nevenkile yokudlela, ngoko unako ukudibanisa abasebenzi, oko kukuthi, abapheki, abaculi, abaculi, njl, ukunikezelwa kwesipho. Kulo mzekelo, kubalulekile ukucwangcisa ixesha ngokungangoko kunokwenzeka ukuze ungaphazamisi umcimbi ngenxa yokuba ziweyo. Ngokomzekelo, unokucela ukuba abalindi bazise isipho sakho, bafihliwe ngoncedo lompheki kwisiphi na isidlo, kwaye babuze abaculi beli xesha ukuba badlale umculo othile. Ngokuqinisekileyo, kufuneka ukhuphe, uhlawule iinkonzo ezongezelelweyo ezivela kubasebenzi, kodwa emva koko, isipho siya kuba seyona nto ingakumbi kunezinye iindwendwe! Ngendlela, le ndlela ihlala isetyenziswa ngabameli bezesondo eziqinileyo, xa benza isiphakamiso kumthandi wabo.
Unokwenza oko-kuthiwa udibanisa. Nangona kunjalo, kuyimfuneko ukuchitha ixesha elide ukuvumelana nabantu abaninzi. Ingongoma kukuba umqalisi wombhiyozo uyavuyiswa ngabantu abaninzi ngexesha elifutshane. Umntu uyavuya kakhulu kukuba abantu abaninzi bakhumbula ngomhla obalulekileyo okanye umcimbi kuye.
Nangona ukucinga kwakho kwakungeke kwanele isipho kwaye ufuna nje ukunika imali, ngoko kwimeko apho unokucinga ngento ethile. Ngokomzekelo, imali ingafihla kwindawo yokudlala, kwibhaluni, ifakwe kwiphakethe engavamile. Okanye ungazifihla kwindawo eyimfihlo, kwaye unike isipho somhla wokuzalwa "kwindawo ephambili yemephu" apho angayifumana khona.
Ungabonisa isipho kwaye ke: yibeke emgqeni emnyango womsunguli wombhiyozo, bhinqa (okanye ubize) kwaye uphindze ubuye umva omnye okanye ezimbini ukuze ungabonakali, kodwa ukuva oko kwenzekayo. Into ephambili kukuba umnyango uvulekile, nangona kungekho mntu ubonayo kwinqanaba.
Ukuba isipho senzelwe isicwangciso sokuthandana, unokwenza oku ngale ndlela: uyifake ngokucophelela kwiphakethe yokutywinwa, unamathele kuyo izibane zokutsala ezininzi ezikuyo kwaye uzifake konke kwisitya. Lindela ubumnyama, ukhanyise ikhandlela uze unike isipho. Umoya wothando uhanjiswa!
Njengoko bethetha, iindlela azikho isipho, kodwa qwa lasela. Ngoko ke, nayiphina indlela yokubonisa umhla wokuzalwa iya kuba yinto entle ukuba ibonisa ukuba umntu onika kuye isipho uyithande kakhulu kuwe. Yaye khumbula ukuba akukho mithetho yokubonisa isipho, kwaye ingaba kuya kukhunjulwa kangakanani kuxhomekeke kuwe nangengcinga yakho!