Ibali lokuba amadoda afanelekileyo akhona, kwaye angena ebomini bakho kungekhona xa ubakhangela kwaye ulinde, kodwa xa isigqibo senza isigqibo esifanelekileyo.
Ubomi bam besandul 'ubomi bufana nobomi baninzi bafazi besimanje, bahlakaniphile, banhle kwaye banesizungu. Phantse umfundi obalaseleyo kwisikolo (enye-ezine), isiko esine-diploma ebomvu (enye enye eyongezelelweyo), uthando olungathandabuzekiyo kunyaka wokuqala, ukutshata emva kwesiko kwaye ungasebenzi kwindawo ekhethekileyo, kuba kufuneka.
Kuphela, ngokungafani nabaninzi bam bahlobo bam, ndandingenalo ixesha lokuba nabantwana ababini okanye abathathu, ngoko kwakungekho mfuneko yokubamba kumyeni ongekhoyo. Kwiminyaka emithathu, phantse ngoBegbeder, zonke iimvakalelo zam ezinzulu ngomyeni wam, ingqondo engacatshangelwayo, ingasomile. Kwakungekho mfuneko yokwabelana ngepropati efunyenweyo, kuba ngokuqinisekileyo yonke into, kuquka i-shirt-socks-pants yakhe, ithengwe kumvuzo wam. Kwaye indlu iyaqhubeka ibe ngumkhulu wam, owaye waya kwidolophana yakhe ethandekayo kwi-strawberries ayithandayo.
Kwilingo, i-ex yangu yayizama ukubonisa into ethile, ithembisa ukuba yayisetyenziswe ekusebenzeni, kwaye ukuphuhliswa kwakhe kwakuza kubetha, ukuba kungabikho kwiNobel, ngoko kuya kumvuzo welizwe ngokuqinisekileyo, kwaye ukuba ndizisola ngokubuhlungu ubomi bam bonke ngesigqibo sam esiphuthumayo.
Kwafuneka ndizisole kuphela into enye. Okokuba emva kokuba umyeni wam ushiye ubomi bam, abahlobo bakhe baphelelwa kuye, endibamcela ngandlela-thile ukulungisa into endlwini, ukuba ukubizwa ngokukhawuleza kwenkosi kwakungekho imali eyaneleyo /
Ngexesha elithile, ndagqiba ekubeni ndenze ukulungiswa kwamancinane kwindlu. Ndathengela iisethi zezixhobo, kuba akukho nto eseleyo ngaphandle kwendoda yomkhulu kunye ne-screwdriver ephilileyo. Kwaye kwakubonakala kum ukuba ngaphambili kwirejista kwakuzo zonke iintlobo zamantongomane, i-bolts, i-screws.
Okokuqala, ndagqiba isigqibo sokulungisa i-kettle kagesi kagogo. Kwafuneka ndiqeqeshe into ethile, kodwa andinayo ikati. Okumangalisa kukuba, kodwa inyaniso - ndijamelana neettle ngaphandle komzamo omkhulu. Uphefumulelwe yimpumelelo, ndagqiba ekubeni nditshintshe iphepha lodonga kwiholo. Ngokukhawuleza wakrazula iphepha lodonga elidala, wakrazula ebhodini waza waqaphela ukuba ixesha elide laliza kutshintsha indawo yokutshintsha kunye neziseko. Umntu wokuqala wayengenalo ixesha lokuguqulwa okunje, kwaye mna, ngokwenene, ndingeke ndiyenze yonke into ngokufanelekileyo nangokukhuselekileyo.
Njengoko inhlanhla yayiya kuba nayo, ukuhlamba i-mashchinka, ukukhumbuza inkani yakhe iminyaka ehloniphekileyo, kuyeka ukufeza imisebenzi yakhe ngqo. Ukuyilungisa kwakungeyona nto inentsingiselo, yayiza kuphelisa ngokuzenzekelayo kwiworkshop, ngaphandle kokubuya. Kwaye amalungu ayavuma ukuba ayamkele, abuye akhokhe imali encinane. Ukongeza ixesha eliphindwe lishumi kwixabiso elifunyenweyo, ndithenge i-bell-bell, endiyibonayo ixesha elide, kodwa andinakukwazi ukuyithengela, kuba ndingenayo imali kunye nam nomyeni wam, kodwa kaninzi ngunina.
Intlanganiso yokuqala kunye nendoda enhle
Ndifumene nenombolo yefowuni yenkonzo "Umyeni ngeyure" kwaye wenza umnxeba kwi-plumber kunye nombane. I-dispatcher yathi unokuthumela inkosi engayifaka ipallalki, kwaye ishintshe iziseko. Ngaphantsi kweempembelelo, wayekulindela ukuba umalume onoqingatha oneminyaka engabonakaliyo uza kuza kwintsebenzo yelyuwa. Xa indoda ehlambulukileyo, egqoke kakuhle, eneenwele ezifanelekileyo, kunye nesicatshulwa esisesandleni sayo yayisemnyango, ndagqiba ekubeni idilesi engalunganga. Engqondweni yam, inkosi yokulungiswa kwendlu encinci yayingakhange ibonakale njengommeli ophumeleleyo okanye umphathi ophezulu kwenkampani enkulu.
Umatshini wokuhlamba "umyeni ngeyure" exhagamshelwe imizuzu emibini. Yaye kungekhona nje kumbhobho wamanzi, njengowokudala, kodwa nakwipayipi yokudonsa. Ngaphambili, umatshini wam wawagalela amanzi kwindawo yokuhlambela. Umntu ongaphambili akazange afune ukukhathazeka ukuthenga i-adapter kwi-siphon kwi-sink. Emva kokuqhuba iindawo zokuhlamba, ndaya ekhitshini.
Ngelixa idilesi ikhetha kwi-wiring, ndenza ikhofi kwaye ndakhawuleza ndizibamba ukuba ndicinga ukuba kungakumbi ukuba ndisebenzise i-styaralka entsha, utshintsho olutsha kunye nesongezelelo esongezelelweyo. Ndacinga ukuba le ndoda enhle yayingakwazi ukukhonza ingubo yowesifazane, vula umnyango weemoto zangaphandle kunye ne-cookie ibhotile ye-champagne. Kwaye emva kweyure kamva wangibonisa ukutshintshwa kokusebenza, ndagqiba ekubeni ndizame i-kettle kagesi kwindawo entsha. Ngesizathu esithile wayeziqhayisa ukuba wakwazi ukuzilungisa.
Inkosi yamangaliswa kukuba umsebenzi wendoda uyenziwa ngumfazi onobuqilileyo nowesibhakabhaka. Ukufunda ukuba mna kunye nowethu saqalisa ukulungiswa, sanikela uncedo ekukhetheni i-glue egciniweyo yeglue, ikhuthazwa uphawu lwephepha lodonga olulula ukulugcina. Ndiyifunde konke kwi-Intanethi, kodwa amava okusebenzisa ngokuchanekileyo ayengqiqweni kunokuba aqinisekiswe ngabathengisi.
Ukudibanisa yesibini
Mhlawumbi inzululwazi phakathi kwethu yavela ngolokuqala kusihlwa, kuba inkosi yayinikela ukusebenzisa ikhadi layo ngesaphulelo kwisitolo sezinto zokwakha. Ngenxa yam, kuya kuba budenge ukungavumelani; njengowomfazi wokwenene, ndiyazi ukuba akukho zindleko ezininzi.
Sakhele iphepha lodonga lwam, i-glue, i-spatula, yazisa zonke izixhobo kunye nezixhobo kwiphepha, zaziswa emnyango wangaphambili. Ukususela kwisibonelelo sokusela ikhofi, umncedisi wam wenqaba, ecacisa imiyalelo yangoku, kodwa ngokubuyisela kuncedwa ekuthandeni iphepha lodonga. Ukususela apho mna, ndiyamangaliswa kukuba, akazange anqabe.
Kwimihla emithathu ndenza indlela yam ukuya emagumbini nge-quil of rolls, iipakethi kunye nokufakelwa okutsha kwendawo yokulala kwidolophu, ibhokisi kunye nezibane nezinye izinto. Ukunyaniseka ukunyaniseka isithembiso sokungaqalanga nantoni na. Kodwa NgoLwesihlanu kusihlwa umsebenzi wawuqala ukubilisa ngelo lijubane ukuba andizange ndibe nexesha lokulungisa ixesha, apho i-hallway yami yaguqulwa. Esikhundleni seengcango ezikhululekile zekhabhinethi ngemigca yokuqhawulwa kweefowusta zomyeni, iingcango zezibuko zazikhanyisa, iifestile ezidibeneyo kunye nezityiki ezidibeneyo zahlengahlengiswa. Emva koko umninimzi watshintsha isibane esidala esangweni, waxhobisa i-closet ngezibane ezintsha.
Ngaloo mzuzu, ndamthanda ngomfazi wakhe othandekayo. Ekubeni ukhona, ndiphantse ndingaqiniseki. Emva kwakho konke, ungazami ukunyenga umfazi womnye umntu, ukhululekile kwaye uyedwa, kwaye nokuba ube yedwa kunye naye kwindlu yakhe, unokuthanda umntu othile kuphela.
Xa saqala ukunamathisela iphepha lodonga, ndisazama ukuqala ingxoxo malunga nendlela ndiyibulela ngayo ubuchule kunye nobuchule bam mncedisi kunye nendlela enenhlanhla ngayo umfazi wakhe. Uthe waphendula wathi umfazi wakhe wangaphambili wayenombono ohluke kakhulu kuye, waxoshwa kwaye waxilongwa ngaphandle nangaphandle, egxeka zonke izono ezifayo kunye nokukwazi ukwenza umntwana, kwaye wayeseqhawule umtshato iminyaka engaphezu kwemihlanu.
Emva kokuba umsebenzi wokulungiswa kwindlovu igqityiwe, kwaye igumbi lalikhanya ngokucoceka nokuthuthuzela, saqala ukusela itiye. Emva kokuthetha kunye nokuncoma, andizange ndibonakale xa ehamba esuka esihlalweni waya kwi-sofa yekhitshi. Kodwa andizange ndihambe, njengoko ndandisoloko ndenza xa omnye wamadoda esondele kakhulu kumda wendawo yam esondeleyo. Ndandifuna ukuba ndimbambe ngezandla zakhe ezintle ezintle ngezipikili ezilungele kakuhle, wayefuna okungaphezulu kokumangalela. Njengokuba ufunda izicamango zam, wanganga endlebeni, wafike wafika emlonyeni wam. Ukutsala okude kwalandelwa, ukutshisa okutshisa rhoqo ngomzuzu.
Saqhekeka omnye nomnye esele elala kwigumbi lokulala. Kwenzeka ntoni emva koko, kuhlazo ukuthetha nokukhumbula ngokulungileyo.
Ndingathanda ukubhala malunga nentlanganiso yesithathu, kwaye yesine. Kodwa bekunjalo nje. Ekuseni, "indoda yehora," yafuduka yonke imiyalelo yakhe, intsikelelo yabo yayingabini kuphela. Kwaye yonke impelasonto sasiyithandana nenkampani. Kwavela ukuba sinemibono efana neyokubaluleka kwizinto ezibalulekileyo, sifunda ezinye iincwadi kwaye siphulaphule ezinye iingoma.
Xa ngeCawa ngokuhlwa wayeya kubuthana, ndathi ngokukrakra ukuba andiyi kumvumela ukuba aye ekhaya. Kwakhona wabiza ukuba akayi kushiya, kufuneka nje atyekele intlanzi.
Sondla intlanzi ndawonye, ngoko wandidla ngokutya kakhulu, emva koko ndagqiba ekubeni ekubeni engenako abantwana, ngoko, andiyikukhuselwa. Ngenxa yesigqibo, ndaqala ukuthanda ikhukhamba yetyuwa.
Namhlanje endlwini yam ukususela kumyalelo wokuqala wangaphambili kwakukho izikhumbuzo ezimnandi. Kodwa ndinomyeni ococekileyo kunye namawele amabini aphelileyo, ngamehlo aluhlaza kunye neenwele zombala wephiko le-crow, njengamaconsi amanzi afana nobaba. Ziyakhwela kuzo zonke iikona zendlu, kwaye ngokukhawuleza ziqala ukukhawuleza malunga nazo zibe zibini zeemilenze. Kulungile ukuba i-styaralka entsha inamandla, inexesha lokuhlamba yonke into. Iphepha lodonga elingaphandle kwinqanaba elincinci lalingenalucalulo, ukuqala abaqulunqi bezinto zangaphakathi sele befikile kubo. Ukulungiswa okutsha akukude, ingakumbi ukususela kwisefriji kwakhona kwaqala ukukhetha ukhukhamba.