Namhlanje sichitha ixesha elide kwihlabathi elithe tye. Kwi-intanethi sithetha nabahlobo kunye nabaqhelana nabo, baqhelane nabantu abatsha, ngokuqhelekileyo amadoda, kwaye baninzi abangenangqiqo kodwa balawule ukubandakanyeka kwisini esithe tye.
Ndiyazibuza ukuba kukho nayiphi na imithetho ecacileyo yokunxibelelana nokudlala ngothando kwi-intanethi okanye kwimithetho esiyibeka yona ... Kwi-intanethi, akukho mntu uyasibona, yingako kulula ukuthetha, ngakumbi kubantu abanenkathazo yokunxibelelana kweli hlabathi . Kwi-Intanethi, abantu abanjalo bakhululwa. Ngokuqhelekileyo loo mntu unzima kakhulu ukwazi, ukuthetha naye kwilizwe elithengileyo, njengokungathi ubomi bobubini obuhlukeneyo.
Unxibelelwano lwe-Intanethi luqulethe imithetho ethile engabonakaliyo, ukuthobela kuyo yonke into ayayikulimaza nawuphi na umntu ohloniphayo.
Kukho iindlela ezininzi zokunxibelelana. Zizo, okokuqala, iiforam, iingxoxo, iintlobo zeenkomfa, i-imeyile, imidlalo yomnxeba kunye nokunye okuninzi.
Iindlela ezininzi zokunxibelelana ngekhomputha yi-imeyile. Iinkcukacha zobhaliso lwe-elektroniki zilandelayo:
- unxibelelwano lubambisene okanye iqela;
- olu hlobo lwanxibelelwano luhlala ludluliselwe, apho inxaxheba yombambisi ikhompyutha kunye neenkonzo zeposi;
- Unxibelelwano olungqongileyo lunokuthi lube lusetshenzisweni okanye ingxoxo;
- uhlobo loqhagamshelwano lunokubhaliweyo okanye ngomlomo (ngenxa yokunamathiselwa kweefayile ezizithethiweyo zentetho);
- isitala yentetho ingaba sesibini ishishini kwaye lithethiwe, kusetyenziswe isilulumagama esingaqhelekanga.
Enye indlela eqhelekileyo yokunxibelelana kukunxibelelana kwiifom ezahlukeneyo. Siza kuhlala kule ndlela yoqhagamshelwano oluqinileyo ngokubanzi. Iforamu yintlangano yokutshintshisiswa kolwazi kunye noqhagamshelwano phakathi kwenani elikhulu labadibaniselwano. Kwiingqungquthela unganxibelelana ngezihloko ezahlukahlukeneyo nabantu abahlukeneyo.
Iingeniso zee-intanethi ngaphambi kokuba uqhagamshelwano oluhamba phambili zilandelayo:
- Unokubanxibelelana nabantu abalungileyo kuyo nayiphi na indawo efanelekileyo, nangaliphi na ixesha, kwindawo epholileyo;
- ukusindisa okukhulu kwamandla, ixesha kunye nemali kunye nokuthatha inxaxheba kwiforum;
- ithuba lokuthatha inxaxheba ngexesha elinye kwiiforamu ezininzi;
- ukukwazi ukuphepha iingxaki zengxabano ngokusetyenziswa kwamandla.
Iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zeeforamu ezahlukileyo ngokungabikho kwintlalo ethile yentlalo okanye yesayensi kuyintetho. Ziyadalwa, okokuqala, ukuxubusha kweqela labantu abatsha.
Ukunxibelelana kwiifom okanye kwiingxoxo, abantu abaninzi banokukwazi ukufumana ubuninzi obungakumbi kunobomi bokwenene, ngokuqhelekileyo ukuhlambalaza okanye amagama athethayo. Ewe, ewe, kweli hlabathi, akukho mntu uyakubona okanye akuva, kodwa, ndiza kuthi, nawuphi na umntu ozihlonelayo uya kuziphatha ngokuchanekileyo nakweyiphi na imeko.
Ngoko, ingxoxo epheleleyo kodwa iifom ekhangeleka kanje:
- akukho magama angcolileyo kunye namazwi abonxibelelwano;
- unxibelelwano aluququzeleli ubuhlanga, ubuhlanga okanye nayiphi na inyucalulo;
Iposi nganye eyahlukileyo kwi-forum ibhaliwe ngencwadi enkulu, ngaphandle kweeposiso ezinkulu zegrammatical and syntactic;
- Kwakhona kuthathwa njengento embi kwiifom.
Enyanisweni, uluntu ngalunye luyifumene nemithetho yalo yomgaqo-nkqubo we-network (netiquette). Izikhundla ze-netiquette zingahlulwa zibe ziindidi zintathu:
- Iengqondo okanye imvakalelo - ukunxibelelana kunye "nawe" okanye "wena", nokuba ungasebenzisa imimiselo kunye nokuba mangaphi, njl.
- Ubuchwephesha okanye ukusetyenziswa - imigqa yokusebenzisa ubude obuthile, khuphela ii-avatars zamanani athile, sebenzisa ukuguqulela, njl.
- Ulawulo - imithetho yokudala izihloko ezintsha, ukusetyenziswa okanye ukunqandwa kweentengiso, ilangatye kufuneka ihambelane nomxholo woluntu.
Ngokuphathelele ukudlala ngothando kwi-intanethi, apha njengawo akukho mithetho. Unxibelelwano olungqinileyo nolwabelana ngesondo, ufanele uziqonde ngokwakho amaphuzu ambalwa.
Okokuqala, musa ukulibala ukuba oku kungumnxibelelwano oluqhelekileyo. Ngokuba ama-smileys amahle, amagama "amnandi" angafihla ayilungileyo lamaphupha akho. Ngoko ke, akudingeki ukuba uzakhele Yena ngokwakhe, kuba akayi kuba ngubani omele yena. Ngoko ke, kungcono ukuba ungalindeli ubuhlobo obunzulu kunye nomnxibelelanisi ongenanto. Ixesha elihle - nceda! Abanye abanye - engozini yakho!
Okwesibini, ngokuqhelekileyo ulwalamano oluqhelekileyo lunokukukhohlisa (thumela isithombe somnye umntu, ukukhohlisa kwiminyaka yobudala, isimo somtshato, njl.). Kufuneka ulungele oku. Ukuba ungumngcakazo-ngoko unxibelelwano olungqinileyo yi-credo yakho!
I nyaniso iyinyaniso. Iingcali zeengqondo zaseBrithani zifikile kwisigqibo sokuba ukuthetha ngokugqithisileyo kukukhokelela. Iingcali zithetha ukuba unxibelelwano olungqalileyo lunokusongela ubuhlobo bokwenene boluntu. Ukutshatyalaliswa okwenyaniso kubangela iimpawu ezifanayo njengentetho eqhelekileyo - intlungu, intukuthelo, ukulahlekelwa yithemba. Ngoko ke, ukuba unokwenene, kwaye akusiyo isiqingatha sesibini, cinga kwangaphambili ukuba ufuna ukudlala ngothando.
Enyanisweni, "ubudlelwane obuninzi" bubuyisa ubomi obuhle, buye kunceda ukuphumla kwihlabathi elininzi, kulungile ukuthetha. Abantu abanefantasy ephuculweyo banokuzibandakanya kwisini esithe tye. Ngaphambi kwekhompyutheni, kumagama eskrini ... kwaye ukuba phakathi kwamazwi aphindaphindiweyo amagama: "izandla", "imilomo", "intamo", "ulwimi", "thintela", "faka", njl. - Ngokwezesondo zesini. Yaye yintoni umehluko onjani uhlobo lwesondo luyinto enqabileyo enkulu evela kwii ...
Ubomi obunjani luhlobo oluthile lokunxibelelana. Imigaqo yoqhagamshelwano kunye nokudlala ngothando kwi-Intanethi ixhomekeka nje, ngenxa yokuba uzidala ngokwakho, iimvakalelo zakho, iiminqweno kunye ... nokuzithemba kwakho. Ewe, ukuzithemba nje, njengoko uza kuthethana kwinqanaba ongathanda ukuthetha nawe. Kwaye ukuthetha ngokulula kwaye ngokwemvelo, ukunyaniseka, ukuthanda uthando oluqhelekileyo kuya kuba kunye nexesha elifanelekileyo kunye kwindawo efanelekileyo ...