Igama lokudlala ngothando luneenkcazelo ezimbini. Okokuqala kwaye ngokugqithiseleyo, ukuthandana ngentsingiselo kuchazwa ngokuthi "ukuziphatha okudlalayo okujoliswe ekuvuseleleni umdla wesondo." Kwimeko yesibini "ukuziphatha ngothando ngaphandle kweenjongo ezibonakalayo zokubonisa umdla okanye ukungathandabuzeki."
Ukudlala
Ukudlala ngothando kungabangela ubudlelwane obunecala phakathi kwabahlobo okanye abaqhelana nabo. Unokudlala ngothando nomnye umntu de ukuba umlingane wakho okanye indoda yakho ibone. Olu hlobo lokuziphatha lithetha ukuba ufihla into evela kumlingane wakho.
Abanye abantu bathandana nomnye umntu ngezikhathi ezithile. Ingaba ngumdlalo wothando kunye neenjongo ezingaba yingozi kwaye musa ukuwela umda wokuvunyelwa. Ukudlala ngothando ngaphandle kweenjongo, kuphela ukwenza umntu amomotheka.
Amehlo ngenye yezona zixhobo ezibalulekileyo zothando. Amehlo ethu kuthathwa njengendlela yokufumana ulwazi kunye neendlela ezinamandla zokutshintshela abantu.
Kukho iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zokudlala ngothando. Uninzi lwabantu luthandana ngengozi kwaye ngendlela enobubele. Ukudlala ngothando kunye nenjongo yokuphuhlisa ubudlelwane kuqhubela phambili kwaye kuqhubekile ngokungafani nokudlala ngothando. Ukuba umntu unomdla kuwe, usebenzisa i-flirtation "ukuhlola umhlaba." Isenzo esongezelelweyo sokudlala ngothando kuxhomekeke kwimpendulo yakho. Unokubamba ngenyameko isandla sakho, uze udibanise. Ukudlala ngesantya kolwimi kwaye umzimba uya kugxininisa ngakumbi. Ukudlala ngothando kukhangele impendulo emihle ukuze uqhubeke udlala ngothando, kuba iimpendulo zakho zenza uzive ulungile.
Ukutshatyalaliswa kwentlalo kubaluleke kakhulu kuluntu kwimibutho, iiholide.
Nangona ungakhange ukhangele iqabane elide, uza kufumana umncinane nomntu onomdla kuwe.
Ukudlala ngothando kuyinkundla yemidlalo apho udlala indima ethile. Ukudlala ngothando kuya kwehla ukuba ube mnandi kwaye ungakhathazeki ngokuchasene nabanye. Qinisekisa ukuba awuthathi mkhulu kakhulu.
Coquetry
Inqobo ephambili yokutya i-charter charm kunye nokumomotheka, ukumomotheka, ukumomotheka!
Cinga ngeengcamango ezidlalayo xa ufuna ukuzithoba. Ukudlala ngokuzonwabisa nokuzonwabisa, njengokungathi udlala nabanye abantu.
Ukunxibelelana namadoda, bonke abesetyhini banomdla omkhulu kuncinane okanye ngaphantsi.
Ezi zibonakaliso zichazwe ngokukodwa kula madoda esithandayo kunye nokutsala ingqalelo yabo. Amadoda athanda iikonkco.
I-Coquetry ibonakalisa ngakumbi amantombazana angatshatanga. Abasetyhini abasetyhini, baxhamla ebomini bentsapho, abafanekanga babonise indlela yokuziphatha.
Iingcali zengqondo zijonga le mpazamo enkulu. Ubomi bentsapho, kufuneka kube nomdla, ukukhanya kubudlelwane, kunye nokutya komfazi kuza kufaka umonakalo kunye nokuthandana komnye nomnye. Emva kwakho konke, ukupheka ngumdlalo wombukeli omnye, omele udlalwe ngobuchule.
Intombazana ekhuselekileyo, njengomthetho, ijikelezwe ngamadoda amaninzi afuna ukumnceda. Usebenzisa iindlela ezahlukahlukeneyo zokuthetha kunye neendlela zokumnceda amadoda. Intombazana ifumana into ekhangayo kuye, ukwenza iqabane lithandane naye. Injongo kukutsala kunye nokunyanzela ubudlelwane. Ukukhupha, intombazana iziphatha ngokudlala kwaye iyakwazi ukukhawuleza.
Musa ukuyithatha ngokuziphatha okuqhekezayo, kungenjalo kuya kubonakala kukuhle. Qaphela ukuba akufanele uxoxe ngawe. Yiba nomdla, ubuze imibuzo ngaphandle kokuphazamisa umnxibelelwano.
Abasetyhini bavunyelwe ukuba banconywe ekhaya, kwiqela, kwiindawo zokuzonwabisa. Jabulela, kungakhathaliseki ukuba yintoni. Ukuba ungumntu ozolile kunye novuyo, uya kwenza umvelelo.
Ngoko makhe uphendule lo mbuzo, yintoni umehluko phakathi kokudlala ngothando kunye nokutya?
Ukwahlukana phakathi kokudlala ngothando kunye nokuqhathaniswa kukuba ukukhwabanisa ngumnqweno wokuba unomdla kuwe, njengokuziphatha kwakho okanye ukubonakala, kunye nokudlala ngothando. Kukho uluvo lokuba phakathi kokudlala ngothando kunye nokuqhathaniswa kukho ukungafani okwenkcenkceshe ekutheni udlalwa ngothando olungenalo ulwazi lwezesondo, kwaye ukukhangela kukuyinxalenye yokuqala yesandulela ngesondo.
I-Coquetry inokuziphatha ngendlela yokuziphatha, kwaye ngezinye izihlandlo zobuwula.
Phakathi kokutya kunye nokudlala ngothando, kukho ukuma kwinto yokuba amadoda nabesifazane bangabelana ngothando, kwaye isiqingatha sabantu besithandwa kakhulu.