Khumbula, indoda yindoda yokulwa, kuquka nentlalo yolonwabo, ngoko ulungiselele. Into ephambili ayiyikunyanzelisa imeko esele ilukhuni. Kufuneka ukuba ukhumbule indlela obalawule ngayo ukubonisa uxolo lwakho ebuntwaneni. Kwaye kwakungekho nkqubela ebomini ubomi, intlungu yamava okuhlukana kunye nentukuthelo. Ukuvulwa kunye nokunyaniseka kuyisinyathelo sokuqala sokuphumelela intliziyo yowesifazane.
Yenza isinyathelo sokumazi
Ukuba awuqhelanga nolunye, okhethekileyo - ungalibali. Ukuba uthe wazi kakuhle ubukhulu, ixesha lokuba nobuhlobo obusondeleyo. Mmema kwi-movie okanye kwi-cafe, uhamba ngepaki. Ungacingi ukuba yonke into ilahlekile xa enqaba. Mhlawumbi unezinye izicwangciso kwaye kufuneka ucebise elinye ixesha.
Unokuhlala unomdla kwimicimbi yakhe, imizwa. Hlalani nisondele, nithinteke ngakumbi. Mkholise ngokuthembeka nokuvuleka.
Musa ukutyhoboza kakhulu
Nangona uzama ukuvuleka kunye nokuthe ngqo, akufanelekanga kwintlanganiso yokuqala ukuthetha ngovelwano lwakho kunye nesifiso sokudibana. Kungcono ukuba ungadluli, kuba unokwesabisa intombazana enengcinezelo enjalo. Fumana intetho yegolide phakathi kokuvuleka ngokupheleleyo kunye nokulindela isigulane.
Zama ukutyelela naye rhoqo ngangokunokwenzeka. Ukuvakalisa uxolo lwakho ngokucophelela: ukuvula umnyango kwigumbi, ukunikela ngekhofi, ukumomotheka. Pamper intombazana enezipho ezincinci, ezingabonakaliyo okanye iimangalisa.
Khangela Emehlo Akho
Okumangalisa kukuba, amehlo akwazi ukuxelela malunga ninzi. Ukubukeka komntu othandweni akunakudideka nantoni na, ngoko ke uyisebenzise. Ngaloo ndlela, uya kukwazi ukuseka ukudibanisa kwaye, mhlawumbi, ubone intsiza emehlweni akhe.
Enyanisweni, oku akuthethi ukuba ufanele ugule amehlo akhe. Kwezinye iimeko le nto ayinakufaneleka ngokupheleleyo. Njalo ukhumbule ngokumodareyitha.
Ukuthetha ngokuchanekileyo
Ukuba uzame konke esikuchazile ngasentla, unokuqhubeka nokugxeka kakhulu: ingxoxo engathandabuzekiyo malunga neemvakalelo. Nangona kunjalo, siyacebisa ukuba singaqalanga ngesiphakamiso sokudibana. Kukulungele ukuyenza kwibanga lesihlanu, ukunyamekela umntwana ofunda naye. Indlela elula yokuthetha ukuba uziva ngayo iimvakalelo ezithile uze ubuze oko acinga ngako. Mhlawumbi intombazana yona ikude ilinde ixesha kwaye ilindele isimemo kumhla.
Isimemo ukuya kumhla singaba sisihlandlo esihle sokuthetha ngeemvakalelo zakho.
Ungakhathazeki kakhulu ukuba intombazana enqabe. Ngelo xesha, ungazami ukunyanzelisa ubuhlobo apho engenalo umdla. Imbali iyazi imeko ezininzi xa umfazi engamthandi umntu, kodwa waqhubeka emnyamekela, ngenxa yesiphumo sakhe. Musa ukuyeka, kuba ubomi bakho budalwe ngabo.