Omnye ulawula ukukhangela umdla waseArmenia ngokulula kwaye ukhululekile, kwaye umntu, nangona yonke imizamo kunye nokuzama, unqatshelwe. Ngoko, makhe sizame ukuphendula umbuzo: indlela yokuphumelela ngayo uthando lomntu waseArmenia?
Yintoni indoda yaseArmenia?
Okokuqala sifuna ukufumanisa, kodwa yintoni esiyaziyo ngamadoda aseArmenia?
Kwiingcamango zethu, umfanekiso womntu obulalayo onobubele kunye nesimo sengqondo esithintekayo ngokubhekiselele kwintombi sele ihleli ngokuqinile. Enyanisweni, amadoda ase-Armenia ayengabonakali kakhulu phakathi kwamadoda athile. AmaArmenia aneenguqu ezibukhali, ukukhwele, ukunyaniseka kwezithethe, ukuhlonela ubudlelwane beentsapho, ukunyamekela. Ezi ziimpawu eziphambili ezifunyenwe kubasetyhini abahlala okanye banxibelelana namadoda obu buzwe. AmaArmenia ahlala kwiidolophu zaseRashiya ahlalisana ngakumbi kunabantu basekhaya abahlala ezweni lakubo. Kodwa, kufuneka kukhunjulwe ukuba wonke umntu - lo mntu kunye nabantu besizwe saseArmenia akafani.
Unokutsalisa njani umntu waseArmenia?
Ngaphambi kokuba ubone indlela yokuphumelela uthando lomntu waseArmenia, kufuneka ucacise indlela onokumnceda ngayo umntu wakhe. Akukho zizathu ukuba amadoda aseArmenian akhetha uhlobo oluthile lwabafazi. Ngako oko, akunakuqonda ukulungiswa kwi-blonde kwi-brunette, ukulahlekelwa isisindo okanye ukubuyisela. IArmenian inokutsalisa into emfihlakeleyo kumfazi, okanye ubukho befesile, obonakala bubonakala, kodwa engasombululwa. Oku unokuyichukumisa kwaye uyamdla. Ukuba umhlangano wakho ungumngcipheko, kwaye ungathanda ukuqala ulwalamano nalo mntu, ungazami ukumnyanzelisa, zama ukunyanzelisa ukuba wenze isenzo kwaye unganqabile ukungena kwisicelo sakhe. Yenza njengokuba kungenakuhambelana nangoko, oku kuya kumshukumisela ukuba aqhubele phambili, kuba amadoda ase-Armenian ayabanqobile. Ukubonakala okungenangqiqo, ekufikelelekiyo nokuzilungele kakuhle kuyisiphambili sakho esikhulu kwisigaba sokuqala ukuya kutsho.
Ungayinqoba njani uthando lwamaArmenia?
Ngoko, ngoku kufuneka udibanise isiqalo kwaye uhambe kwinqanaba elitsha lolwalamano kunye nesifundo samaphupha akho. Kufuneka uzame ukuzibophelela. Funda indlela yokupheka izitya ezithandayo kwaye ufunde ulwimi lwase-Armenia, oku kuya kumthoba kwaye kuya kuba lula kuwe ukuthetha kunye nosapho lwakhe ngokuzibandakanya ngakumbi kunye nosapho kunye nabahlobo. Kwaye kuya kwenzeka ukuba loo mntu uyazi. Yaye ukuba ulwalamano lwakho lube luhlala luhlala njalo kwaye luhlala lunaphakade, kufuneka ukholise abazali bomntu waseArmenia. Ngoluvo lwakhe lwentsapho oluza kudlala indima ebalulekileyo kwi lamano. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba yintoni imfesane engazange ikwazi ukuyenza ngayo, uya kukwazi ukuhlukanisa ubudlelwane nawe, ukuba intsapho iyanquma.
Ukuba ufuna ubuhlobo besikhathi eside kunye neqabane lakho, ngokuqinisekileyo uyaziqhayisa ukuba uyazi iingcambu zakhe kwaye uyaziqonda zonke "amagatsha" entsapho yakhe enkulu.
Uya kufuneka ubonise iqabane lakho ukuba nguye odlala indima ephambili ebuhlotsheni bakho, kodwa ungamvumeli ukuba akuphelise umbono wakhe. Oku kuya kwenza ukuba akuhloniphe, kwaye uya kuziqhayisa ukuba umntu ozimeleyo kwintombazana uyamqonda njengentloko yobudlelwane.
Musa ukujonga iimvakalelo zakhe ngomona. AmaArmenia, njengomthetho, abanomona kakhulu kwaye unokulindela ngokugqithiseleyo, ngokugqithiseleyo ukulwa kweentsebenziswano.
Funda ukuhlonela umntu wakho waseArmenian. Mbonise ingqondo yakho, ukuqonda nokumxelisa. Indoda yaseArmenia iya kuba nekratshi ukuba inentombazana enengqiqo neqondayo. Kwaye into ephambili ... Ukuba ulwalamano lwakho lukhule luba lukhulu kwaye ufikelele ekujoliseni kwakho okokuqala, bonisa uthando lwakho. Emva koko, wonke umntu kufuneka adandwe.
Kwaye ekupheleni ...
Uyenze imizamo eninzi ukuze ufumane uthando lomntu waseArmenia. Yaye uyifumana ntoni? Amadoda aseArmenia, njengomthetho, aphakanyiswe kakuhle, ayanomdla ukuthetha nabo, abanobakhathalelayo kwaye banenkathalo. Ukuba uceba ukudala intsapho kunye naye, ngoko ngokwemibare, iArmenian yindoda elungileyo, ootata abanomdla, obeka intsapho kwindawo yokuqala. Bahlonela umfazi wakhe nembono yakhe.
Le mabhunga ayikho konke isikhokelo sokuthatha isenzo, kuba umntu ngamnye, okokuqala, ubumba obunomgaqo kunye nemigaqo yakhe yehlabathi, kwaye, ngokufanelekileyo, ufuna indlela ekhethekileyo. Kodwa, ezi ngcebiso zinokukunceda uqonde ngakumbi iingcamango, iimvakalelo kunye neziqhotyoshelo zaseArmenia, eziza kukunceda ekudaleni nasekuqiniseni ulwalamano lwakho nendoda ethandekayo.