Ukuqhelwaniswa nge-intanethi yehlabathi jikelele akuyiyo inkunkuma yexesha kunye nomsebenzi osisidenge. Eli li shishini elithembisayo, elikufutshane elizayo lingavelisa iziphumo ezilungileyo. Emva kokuqhelana nabafana nge-Intanethi, wena, kwindawo yokuqala, fumana ithuba elihle lokunxibelelana nabo kwaye kunye nayo yonke into onokuyenza ngokulula ukhetha umntu odibanisa naye onomdla kunye neminqweno yakho. Ewe, masigxininise kwimigaqo-siseko kunye nemithetho yokuthandana, ukunxibelelana, incwadi kunye nenethiwekhi yonxibelelwano.
Ulwalamano oluhle.
Eyona nto ihamba phambili, idilesi kunye nolwazi lwakho luya kufumana isimo sokubaluleka xa uhamba ukukhangela "wakho umhlobo onguhlobo" kwisayithi ekhethekileyo yokuthandana. Ubuncedo bezo ndawo zilapha, ngokukhululeka kunye nokuchaneka okukhethekileyo, unokukhangela igama lomntu onokubhenela kakhulu kumbuzo wokukhangela. Apha, "udidi lomntu" olulodwa unemibuzo yakhe, i-albhamu yesithombe kunye uluhlu olupheleleyo lwezinto ezithandayo kunye nezinto ezithandayo. Ngoko, ngenxa yolu, unokwenza lula umfanekiso oye wadibana naye kwaye ukhokela ukunxibelelana kwakho.
Kodwa kukufanelekile ukukhumbula ukuba ukuzibandakanya kwiisayithi ezinjalo, kwaye kwi-Intanethi ngokubanzi, kunemibandela yayo, apho sifuna ukukuzisa khona. Ngoko, kwinethiwekhi yomhlaba kukho inani elikhulu labantu abaphishekela iinjongo ezahlukeneyo. Umzekelo, ubuhlobo, uthando, ubudlelwane obunzulu, ubulili, ukudlala ngothando okanye iinjongo zabo kuphela-idilesi kunye nomnxibelelanisi ongokoqobo. Ewe, kukho abantu abaye bayityelela inethiwekhi yomhlaba ngenxa yentswelo eqhelekileyo. Khumbula ukuba ukuba umntu usetyenziselwa ukuxubusha olunzulu kwaye unokukwazi ukuqhubeka nencwadana eqhelekileyo, kufuneka agcwalise iprofayili yakhe ngokucokisekileyo kwaye afake iifoto zakhe kuyo.
Ngendlela, malunga neefoto. Ukuba unenjongo yokwenza ulwazi olunzulu, ungalibali ukwenza i-albhamu yezithombe ze-elektroniki. Eyona nto ihamba phambili kuzo zonke iinjongo, iifoto ezenziwe ngomoya othobekileyo kwaye ococekileyo uya kwenza. Kubalulekile ukuba umfanekiso ubonise ngokucacileyo umntu (iifoto ngeiglasi okanye ezithathwe kwinqanaba elide aziqwalaselwa).
Inqaku elithandekayo kukuba uninzi lweendwendwe kwiindawo zokuthandana zibeka ingqwalasela enkulu ekubukeni kweefrimu zezithombe, kunokuba ziqhelane neemibuzo. Ksta, malunga nebuzo lemibuzo. Ukuba usaphila ukwenza ulwazi olunzulu, ungalibali ukucacisa ngokucacileyo kwiphepha lemibuzo yakho ofuna ukuyifunayo kule ndawo kunye neenjongo ezizifunayo. Ungalibali ukubonisa iimfuno zakho kunye nezinto zokuzilibazisa.
Khumbula ukuba apha awufumani nje uthando lwakho kuphela, kodwa nomhlobo wakho othembekileyo, kodwa ukuba uphonsela udlala ngothando kunye nomntu omaziyo, uze ulayishe iifoto ngakumbi ngokukhululekile kwaye ubeke ingqwalasela kwabo banokuziqhayisa ngokufanayo.
Kwaye, ekugqibeleni, khumbula ukuba ukuziqhelanisa ne-network network kungasoloko kujika ibe yinto engakumbi kunye nophuhliso olumnandi lwecebo. Ngoko, ukuba uyamthanda lo mfana. , ungabhalela ngokuphepha kuye kuqala. Ngendlela, kwiindawo zokuthandana isinyathelo sokuqala esivela kwicala lentombazana kubonakala ngokuqhelekileyo.
Ukunxibelelana nge-intanethi kunye nento yayo.
Ukuqala ukuthetha nomhlobo wakho ongeyena, musa ukulibala malunga neenjongo eziphambili, oko ukwenzayo. Kuphela ke uya kuba nako ukuphepha iingxaki ezingaqondakaliyo neengxaki. Ngethuba le ncoko, zama ukuchonga kwi-interlocutor yayo yonke "i-pluses" kunye ne "minuses", kwaye uzama ukujonga ukuba unomdla kangakanani lo mntu.
Ubunxibelelwano obuqinileyo, kunye nobomi, kubalulekile ukubonisa intlonipho kunye nentlonelo kumntu onecala kweso siso, kwaye kufuneka ukhuphe izitatimende ezingenangqiqo nezimbi ngaye. Ngendlela, musa ukulibala malunga nombono wehlazo. Kungenxa yamahlaya ukuba unomdla kumhlobo wakho kwaye ukhanyise uqhagamshelwano lwakho.
Imeyili kunye neendlela zayo.
Unxibelelwano olungqinileyo kunye neenkcukacha nazo zinemithetho yazo ethile kunye neyodwa, ukuphula umthetho, ukuba kunokwenzeka ukuba ithintele ngamandla kwiikhosi eziqhubekayo. Ngoko, imigaqo ebalulekileyo yombhalelwano kunye nomntu nge-Intanethi:
Umgaqo wokuqala: ungazami ukuchaza ngokukhawuleza ubomi bakho bonke, kungakhathaliseki ukuba unomdla kwaye unotyebi. Ukunyaniseka okunjalo kunokukwesaba ngokugqithisileyo isini esahlukileyo. Bhala yonke into oyicingayo, ungayicacisi. Kwimibuzo ethile, phendula ngokulula kwaye ngokufutshane "yebo" okanye "cha" ngaphandle kokuzifaka kwiinkcukacha. Njalo ubuze inani elinganayo lemibuzo, elingayi kudlulela kwinani elinikwe lona.
Umgaqo wesibini: zama ukuthetha inyaniso kwaye akukho nto. Ungathethi ngokubonakala kwakho, isimo somtshato kunye nezinye iinkcukacha zobomi. Khumbula ukuba kungekudala okanye kamva nayiphina inkohliso iya kuba yinyani kwaye iya kubachaphazela kakhulu indlela oya kunyangwa ngayo kwikamva. Kufuneka uqondwe njengokuba unako, ngaphandle kwemaski eyongezelelweyo kunye ne-tinsel.
Umthetho wesithathu: ungabonakali umsebenzi wakho omkhulu. Musa ukulala ulalele umyalezo wekhompyutha kunye neposi. Ingamnxusa. Khumbula ukuba bonke abantu bathanda ukuzitholela ngokwayo, yingakho umsebenzi wakho kukubangela umdla kumlingane wakho, kwaye abanye bebekho emva kwakhe. Ukuba uya kuhamba naye, uya kulahlekelwa ngumdla kuwe. Ewe, ukuba ungaphenduli kwisigijimi sakhe akukufanelekanga, thola iziko eliphambili kwincwadi yakho kwaye unamathele kwiinkalo zalo. Kodwa ukuba kunjalo, khumbula ukuba ikhosi ephezulu yeziganeko ivela kuphela kumntu.
Kwaye ekugqibeleni, ungalangazeli ukukhawuleza unxibelelwano olufanelekileyo kunye neenkcukacha. Ukuba umhlobo wakho onyanisekileyo uyakukufanisa, ungamthinteli kwintlanganiso yangempela. Yayazi nje ukuba ungayichaphazela njani ngexesha. Ukuphumelela kuwe kwintetho!