Kutheni amadoda edlala ngothando?
Ukudlala ngothando kukubonakalisa uvelwano kunye nokukhanga. Ukudlala ngothando, amadoda azama ukulungiselela le ntombazana, ukuba amkhathalele umntu wakhe, kumdla. Ngomncedisi wokudlala, indoda ingakwazi ukuphumeza oku kulandelayo:
- ukufumana intombazana ebenomtsalane naye.
- ingaba ngumdlalo kunye nokuzonwabisa ngaye.
- vuyisa loo ntokazi.
Ungayibona njani indoda yothando kunye nokuqonda oko umntu akufunayo kuwe?
Ukuba uqaphela ukuba umntu ulungisa iincwele zakhe, i-winks kuwe, uyamomotheka - unokuqiniseka, uyanqabana nawe, awuyikuthandabuza. Kuphela akunakwenzeka, oku kubonakaliswa ngokunyanisekileyo kwenceba yakhe.
Makhe sijonge indlela umntu afanele aziphathe ngayo, ngubani onzulu kakhulu ngawe.
Xa indoda iphosa, izama ukubonakala ihlakaniphile, ilumkele, iyabakhathalela, inetalente. Amagunya akhe onke aya kubhekiswa ukuba angqinise kumfazi ukuba nguye kuphela onokumenza avuye.
Indoda ikhangele ibhinqa, izama ukumbonisa ukuba umntu wayo uyamdla. Ukudlala ngothando kuhlose ukulungiselela nokufezekisa intombazana.
Injongo yalo naluphi na ulwabelana ngothando ukuphakamisa umdla kumntu. Yenza oko ukuze into enqweno yakho ifune ukwazi kuwe.
Ukuthintela ngokuqhelekileyo, ukudibana nomhlobo - oku kungomnye wempawu eziza kunika umntu onothando. Ukuthintana nomntu, ngoko sizongena kwindawo yakhe. Kwaye, ukuba umnxeba wakho udibene kakuhle, ngoko uhamba ngendlela efanelekileyo.
Xa indoda iphosa, into yokuqala eyamkhaphelayo iyabonakala, iphila, inobumba obubi. Emehlweni akhe, ufunda ukuba unomdla kuwe, ulangazelela ukuthetha ngokukhawuleza.
Amadoda ahlakaniphile akalibali ukuba abafazi bathanda ngeendlebe zabo. Kwaye, ukuba unomdla wokukufumana, akayi kuwugcina amandla akhe ngamazwi amahle, ukuncoma. Ilizwi lakhe liya kuthoba, linyame. Wena ngokwakho ngeke uqaphele ukuba uncibilike njani kwintlambo yamagama amnandi. Akayi kuthetha ngelizwi, ukuze ufune ukusondela kuye.
Amadoda iminyaka emininzi njengezixhobo, sebenzisa iincoma. Emva koko, ibhinqa liya kuhlala livuyisa, ibinzana: "Yeka indlela enhle ngayo namhlanje!". Ukunconywa, kodwa ngokunyanisekileyo, bonise uvelwano lomntu, ukhulule umfazi kwaye ukhuphe umlindi wakhe.
Enye indlela amadoda ayenzayo xa bedlala ngothando ukubandakanya umhlobo wabo. Ibhinqa liza ku kholelwa umntu ongaphandle oya kumdumisa wakhethayo, kunokuba abe ngumfana.
Ukudlala ngothando lubugcisa obunzima kwaye bunzima, xa umnqweno wokubonakalisa uvelwano nokufezekisa ukulungelelaniswa kumntu udibene kunye nekhono lokuqamba nokubala. Kwaye ke into eyona nto ayiyikugqithisa intonga, mhlawumbi uya kulahleka, kubaluleke kakhulu - ukuzithemba kwakho.
Qaphela ukuba umfana udlala ngothando, akunzima kakhulu, ingakumbi ukuba umfazi uthanda ukuthandana. Kunzima ukuyiqonda: akayena umfazi?
Umanizer - indoda enomdla wokufumana ibhinqa, iya kwenza konke ngenjongo yakhe. Uhlala ehle kwaye emomothekayo. Uhlala eyazi ukuba uthethe ntoni na. Kwaye, akusiyo into eyinqaba ukuba xa umfazi edibana "nomfazi" endleleni yakhe, uyamthanda aze adeke. Kodwa, ngelishwa, abafazi bahlelwe ukuba ngokukhawuleza xa efumana oko akufunayo, uyalala.
Ngoko ke, ukuqala ubudlelwane nomntu, qwa lasela izenzo kunye namazwi akhe. Zibuze: ngaba kunjalo? Yaye ke, uya kukhwankqiswa kukuba xa ucela umbuzo malunga nobomi bakhe, uyayithanda impendulo.