Uthando luvakalelo olungenamkhawulo oluchaphazela iintliziyo zabo bonke, kungakhathaliseki ukuba luhlanga nobuni. Ngoko waba lixhoba lothando olungenammiselo ngendlela eyiyo yelizwi. Okhethiweyo wakho ungumfokazi. Ngoko ke kufuneka uyenze ntoni ukukhusela lo mthando ukuba ungabi neengxaki xa uhamba kumyeni ngonaphakade? Kwaye ubunzima kukujongana nani?
Unxibelelwano lwakho luye lwadlulela ngaphaya kwemida yokunxibelelana ngomnxeba, ii-sms zobusuku obude kunye nezingxoxo ze-Skype. Ucinga ukuba sele ulazi kakuhle kwaye ulungele ukushiya amaMeland uze ubalekele intanda yakho ekupheleni kwehlabathi. Kodwa ke kubalulekile ukuhla phantsi kwaye ucinge ngenyameko malunga nokuba ulungele ukujika oku.Ngaba ulungele ukushiya abathandekayo bakho, abazali kunye neentombi, kuba akuyi kuba nethuba lokukhala kwisiqwenga okanye, ngokuchaseneyo, ukuziqhayisa ngeengubo ezintsha. Abayi kuza kuwe ngomhla wokuzalwa nangomnyaka omtsha, kwaye awukwazi ukuya kubo kwiholide. Uya kufuneka uphile ixesha elide phakathi kwabantu abangaziwayo kunye nabasemzini.
Ukuba awunqatshiwe, kwaye ulungele ukudibanisa ngokokuqala ngenyameko, ngoko siza kuzisa iingcebiso ezimbalwa, njengoko zithi, kwindlela.
Ngaphambi kokuba sigqibe isigqibo sokuhamba, siyacebisa inyanga ukuba siye kumtyelela, sijwayelane nabazali bakhe, sibone apho kwaye uhlala phi. Hlola, unengcamango efanayo yokuphila kwansuku zonke kunye neentsapho zexabiso. Kungcono, ukuba uza kutyelela iholide ebalulekileyo kwintsapho. Leli thuba elihle lokuziqhelanisa nezihlobo zakhe, kwaye ufunde iinkcukacha ezithandekayo malunga nekamva lomyeni. Kholwa, oogogo kunye nogogo bakulungele ukwabelana ngale ngcaciso kunye nawe.
Amava amahle kunye nokuqinisekiswa kobudlelwane buya kuba sisimemo somyeni ukuba simtyelele. Uza kubona indlela umntu aziphatha ngayo imeko engakhululekile kuye. Ngexesha elifanayo uya kubona indlela ohlala ngayo. Ukuba yonke into iyasithatha, siyaqhubeka.
Yintoni efunekayo ukukhumbuza nokwazi xa uya kwelinye ilizwe? Into ongeke uyiphume kuyo kwimiqobo yolwimi. Kwaye kungcono ukusombulula le ngxaki kwi-Motherland. Ukubhalisa kwikhosi yolwimi lwangaphandle, thabatha ukuphindaphinda ukubiza amagama okuthetha. Oku kubaluleke kakhulu. Ndikholelwe, lakho iqabane alikwazi ukuba nani yonke iiyure ezingama-24 ngosuku.
Kwakhona kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuba kwilizwe oya kulo, kukho iziko, imigaqo kunye namasiko akho, omele ufunde, uyazi kwaye uzigcine. Funda kabanzi malunga nabo. Yiyiphi inkolo eli lizwe, yintoni indlela yobomi kukuba akunqunyelwe ukwenza.
Khangela kwiqabane lakho elizayo ukuba unokwenza umsebenzi wakhe kwilizwe lakhe. Kuyinto enhle ukuba uqeqesho lwakho lufunwa kwamanye amazwe. Kwaye ukuba akunjalo, cingisisa ngazo zonke iinketho zengqesho. Kuya kuba yinto enqabileyo yokunyamekela izakhono zokuqhuba ukuba awukwazi ukuqhuba. Ukholelwa ngaphandle, ngokuqhelekileyo ilayisenisi yokuqhuba imfuno iyadingeka ngumntu wonke.
Kwaye, ke, into ebaluleke kakhulu yimali. Kuyaphawuleka ukuba iqabane elizayo liza kukunika ixesha elipheleleyo lokulungelelanisa, okanye, nangcono, ubomi bakho bonke. Kodwa kungcono ukuthabatha imali kunye nawe, ukuxelela emva kweemeko ezingalindelekanga. Bala inani elingakanani kwimfuno oyifunayo okokuqala, kwaye qi niqiniseke ukuba uyilungiselela le mali ngaphambi kokuba uhambe. Le nto ingabakhenkethi, i-credit card okanye imali. Kwaye uthathe ixesha lokuthengisa izinto eziphathekayo kunye neendawo zokuhlala kwilizwe lakubo, liyakwenza njalo.
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