Kwanele ukwazi imithetho embalwa elula, kwaye unokwazi umntu ogqwesileyo.
Yifunde!
Ukuqala, kuyafaneleka ukufunda ngokucacileyo le mibuzo. Funda ukufunda phakathi kwemigca. Jonga ngokucophelela kwizinto ozikhethileyo kunye nezinto ozikhethayo. Ukuba uthanda imini nobusuku kunye noqhagamshelwano olungathandabuzekiyo phantsi kweenkwenkwezi, akunakwenzeka ukuba uya kuba nomdla kwintombazana ethanda amaqela, amaqela amnyama kunye nobusuku bobusuku. Uyathanda idwala, uyathanda imimoya evulekile, usela ubhiya kunye nomsi? Unokusilela ngokuphepha iphepha apho imibongo, izele kunye neendlovu zeendlovu. Awunanto into efanayo, unxibelelwano aluyi kusebenza.
Ifoto.
Ngesondo esilungileyo, iifoto zabalingani bendoda zikhupha okanye zihleka. Akunakuxhamla ukuthetha nomntu xa ubona umfanekiso "ongenasiphelo." Njengomthetho, amantombazana enza isigqibo malunga nenkxalabo yendoda. Ungalindeli ukuba uqhagamshelwano oluqhelekileyo. Iimvo ezipholileyo kunye nezilangazelayo ngomzimba wakho, kwaye ngakumbi nakakhulu - ngesithunzi, kunokukulimaza. Ngoko shiya iifoto ezithandanayo zokujonga umntu.
Ngesondo.
Ekugqibeleni, wonke umntu ohlala kwiindawo zokuthandana ufuna ukulala ngesondo. Kodwa kumfazi, isibonelelo esibalulekileyo sokudibana ngoku kwaye (!) Kwindlu yeeklasi "ngokuqondakalayo kunokuba" kubangele ububi kunye nobudlova. Sithandana kwinduna ehashe elimhlophe, sibheka imibuzo, sihleli eofisi yenkampani enzulu, okanye ekhaya ngasese kumyeni wayo, kwaye sifuna ukutshata kunye nokuzonwabisa. Umyalezo ufika kuphela ngesondo ngezinye izihlandlo ezimbalwa. Isingqisho sesimo sangoku sichaphazela ngokucacileyo ibinzana elivela kwi-movie "Isiqhelo esiqhelekileyo": "Ukhangelekile. Ndiyingozi kakhulu, ngoko ke ungayichitha ixesha ... "Konke oko kuyinyaniso, kodwa ukuqala kwintlanganiso, iintlanganiso kwaye uya kufumana oko ufunayo nangaphezulu kunokuba ulindele.
UkuFunda nokuBhala.
Akukho nto engathandekiyo kunomyalezo ongafundiwe obhaliweyo. Kubangela umnqweno ukususa kwi-Recycle Bin okanye ukungawuthobeli uluhlu. Nangona esikolweni ngesikolo saseRashiya wenza konke, kodwa kungekhona ngokufunda imigaqo yokupelisa kunye negrama, kukho izixhobo zokuqala zokuvavanya ukufunda nokubhala. Umzekelo, iMicrosoft Word. Funda ngokucophelela oko ubhalayo. Kholelwa iimpazamo zakho, kwaye unokuthanda intombazana kunye nomdla wakhe.
Imemori.
Wonke umfazi ophupha lokuba ngumntu ongatshatanga, akukho "ngaphandle kwewaka", ngoko ke xa ucela ixesha leshumi malunga nalapho asebenza khona okanye yiziphi izilwanyana ezihlala ekhaya, ubeka umngcipheko wokulahlekelwa ngumhlobo omhle. Bhala phantsi okanye ujonge ngeembali zonxibelelwano ngaphambi kokuba ubhale intombazana engumntu osisidenge okanye uyibize igama lomfokazi. Ngokufanelekileyo, ukuthetha nomnye, nangona, ngenxa yesithembu kunye nokukhetha okubanzi, kunzima ukumelana nesilingo sokuthetha nabantu abathandekayo abalishumi ngexesha.
Ukuthozama.
Imiyalezo "Andifanelekanga", "unjalo u-rastakaya, kwaye andinguye" kubangele ubudlelwane obuqinileyo nomntwana kunye nendoda ebuthathaka. Ngokukodwa xa ifoto ibonisa intombazana ye-photogenic kusihlwa kwebhulabhu yefashoni. Ewe, mhlawumbi ufike apho kwaye ulungile kakhulu kwiifoto, uze wenze isigqibo ngokuphathelele "ukuhambelana" kwayo.
Abafazi bathanda ithemba kunye namadoda anamandla, amaxesha 'okuthozama' adlule. Sithanda uxinzelelo kwaye ke, xa siphumelele naphezu kwayo yonke into. Kwanele ukukhawuleza!
Iintlanganiso.
Ukuba unxibelelwano lwenu luyaqhubeka, uyavuya ukuthetha, kunye neveki yokuqala "yokuhlonipha" idlulileyo, kwaye awuyi kumema ngosuku, intombazana inokugqiba ukuba "uyindoda", awukwazi ukuthatyathwa kwinyani kwaye ulahlekelwe ngumdla. Musa ukutsala! Yika usuku!