Umntwana wazalwa, kwaye unomama onolonwabo, ongenakukwazi ukudibanisa iimvakalelo ezithandekayo, ubanga izihlathi, iingxowa, kunye nebunzi lwengane yakhe. Ngoko uyayazi ithole elibiza.
Ukutshilo kumntu oshonile, izalamane kunye nezihlobo zanga i-coronet ekhethekileyo ephepheni lakhe, kwaye icele intethelelo kuyo yonke into ayeyenzile, mhlawumbi, yacaphuka. Ngobusuku bokugqibela benza isithethe sokuthintela umntu onokushiya ngonaphakade. Kwaye kutheni abafazi bathanda ukumanga?
Akunakuphina umntu ocinga ngayo, kodwa ukubamba kuhamba nathi ebudeni bomi, kwaye ngokukodwa ukuthanda ukumanga abantwana besifazane, ingakumbi xa bethandana kakuhle . Abantu bayabana xa bedibana okanye bethetha, xa bebuhlungu, babulele, babonise ukubulela kwabo, baxolele, baxolele, kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu - babonise uthando lwabo. Ubusiso bokuqala bezithandwa ezimbini! Ingaba nzima kwaye ilula, njengomoya ophelileyo, kodwa inokuphefumula umphefumlo wonke kwaye ivele ikhuphe imimoya. Unzima kwaye unamahloni, unokuzaliswa ngumnqweno wokwenene wokudibanisa nendoda nomzimba kunye nomphefumlo. Yaye mhlawumbi ingacinywa kwaye iphela, njengokuphefumula kwamanzi amanzi, eyenziwa ngumhambi ohluphekileyo. Okanye ufana nobunzulu obubuhlungu emva kobushushu obushushu.
Awunakuze ufune nje ukubanga itekisi lomntu ongaqhelekanga okanye ongathandanga. Ukuba kukho ukukhawuleza nje "ukubanga", oko kuthetha ukuba iimvakalelo ezithile kunye nemvakalelo yento ebusayo sele ibonakale.
Xa umanga ubonisa uthando
Akukho mntu ucinga ngendlela yokubamba ngobomi. Kwaye nangona abanye oogqirha bacinga ukuba ukumanga, mhlawumbi, kuya kuba ngumthombo wesifo esithile kwaye, ngenxa yoko, izifo, sisondele ngakumbi kwimbono yabanye ososayensi. Kwaye okokugqibela kuthi ezinye iintsholongwane zabantu kunye neebhaktheriya eziqulethwe ematheni, xa zinyiswa, zibangele ukuxhaswa kwemikhosi yokukhusela yendalo, kunye nokuveliswa kwamagciwane. Iingcali ziqhathanisa nokumanga kunye nokufakwa kwesitofu esikhethekileyo komnye nomnye (oko kuthiwa ugonywa ngokuchasene nezifo). Ngoko ke, ukuvuna kuvuselela amandla omzimba! Ngethuba lokumangalisa ngentshiseko, intliziyo iqala ukuthuthumela kwaye yonke imitha ipompo ngaphezulu kweyitha enye yegazi ngaphezu kwesimo sezoxolo; qalisa ukuhamba malunga nemisipha yomzimba engamashumi amane, ukujikeleza okunzulu okuphucula ukondla kwazo zonke izicubu zobuso, eziza kubangela ukucola imibimbi kunye nokukhuthaza ukuhlengahlengiswa kwesikhumba. Ngenxa yokukhululwa okukhulu kwe-adrenaline egazini, kungekhona kuphela uxinzelelo lwegazi lwegazi, kodwa i-tone yonke yomzimba.
Ubusiso obusondeleyo bukhathaze ngokwenene, kuba akuyona into yokuba abafazi bathanda ukumanga. I-kisses anesthetize, inqanda ukuveliswa kwama-hormone oxinzelelo kunye nexhala (apho izifo ezinzulu ezifana nesifo sikashukela kunye nomfutho wegazi ophezulu zidibene), ukunciphisa umxholo we-cholesterol egazini. Iibherezi zikhusela inkqubo yeentlanzi kwimiphumo ebangela ukunyamezela, kwaye yizona zinto zihamba phambili "zokungcola" ukutshisa amafutha.
Yaye indlela i-stlands eziphatha ngayo ngexesha lokumanga! Bayakwazi ukukhonkxa umsila onomxholo ophezulu we-phosphorus kunye ne-calcium usawoti ukuba i-enamel yezinyo ihlaselwa ngumzimba.
Kwaye, ke, makhe sikhumbule impembelelo enkulu yokubamba, okukunzima ukuyijonga ...
Yintoni ebusiso yangempela?
Okumangalisa kukuba, isiqingatha sabantu sisazi oku. Ubusiso obunomzwelo kunye nomzimba, njengokuba ngoku siwaqonda, ixesha elide babengaqhelanga nakwiintlanga eziphuhlisiwe, kuba bebengathandi ukumanga. Ngokomzekelo, amaRoma asendulo awaziwa ngokubingelelana. Ngamhla, abameli belizwe lakwa-Afrika abamangazanga nonke, kuba besaba ukulahlekelwa ngumphefumlo wabo. AmaTshayina acinga ukuba ukubamba kungento engcolileyo, kwaye amaPapu ahlekisayo. Kodwa abantu baseMerika bathanda ukuphana, nokuba bavula iqela eliyingqayizivele labathandi bebango, apho banokubanga khona njengoko bafuna ngamadoda ahlukeneyo.
Ziziphi izinto zokubanga?
Njengoko iingqondo zengqondo zithi, u kisses zifana nomntu ngamnye, njengamehlo, amehlo. Kukho ukhetho oluthile, ngokweziphi na umntu onokuyifumanisa uluvo olucacileyo malunga nendoda, ngendlela awanga ngayo.
Ngokomzekelo, ngexesha lokumanga, akayi kuthatha inxaxheba kuyo. Imilebe yakhe ayinasiphako, ihlala yodwa - i-kiss kiss ye-psychologists ifanelekile njenge-SCOULD. Amadoda awamanga ngale ndlela awanako ukuhamba ngexesha elide, kungakhathaliseki ukuba abanomdla kunye nemvelo abayithembisayo. Bazama kwaye banako ukuzilawula, kwaye ngoko kuya kufuneka ukuba uchithe ixesha elaneleyo kunye nomgudu wokwenza ezi "zikhuni" zibonakalisa iimvakalelo zabo neemvakalelo zabo. Kodwa ngenxa yoko unokufumana ithala lokuhlala elincinci, kuba njengokuba iqabane lobomi lithembekile, liqikelele kwaye lihlala lihlala njalo. Ngokungafaniyo nentsingiselo, okubizwa ngokuba ngumama wokunyusa, u-muzhins onomdla uthanda ukumanga. Imilebe yabantu ayifuni nje ukuyijonga eyakho, kodwa iyaqhubeka ifuna. Baya ngokukhawuleza, bekunzulu, nje ngokuba nonke unomoya owaneleyo. Kuba amadoda anjalo, uxhoba, banqobile. Ngokumangca bafaka ubungqina babo kumandla abo kunye nokubeka intando yabo. Qaphela kakhulu: phambi kwakho "unoboloni wangempela". Amadoda anjalo enza ngokusemgangathweni kaNapoleon "Wafika, wabona, wanqoba." Akukho mfanelo. Abasetyhini banqwenela ukumanga kunye namadoda anjalo. Ukugqiba ukungabi naso kwezicwangciso ezide. Ngoko ke, kufuneka uthabathe into oyifunayo namhlanje. Ukuba kusasa uya kuba nako ukulibala malunga nalo.
Nangona indima yabathandi bezona zinto zifanelekile kakhulu amadoda awazi kakuhle ubugcisa bolu kiss. Banikezeli nje ukubanga, kodwa okwenene ukuvalela. Bayakwazi ukunyamezela imilomo yakho, ngokunyanisekileyo bakhohlise ulwimi lwenu, bebetha ngobumnene baze bathe into encinci "abanokuyenza ngayo." Baye baxakeke ngokukhawuleza kwaye bakugubungele, kwaye sele sele niyikhohlile ngokupheleleyo into yonke ehlabathini, abafazi bathanda ukumanga kunye nabafana abanjalo. Kodwa ngelize. Emva kwayo yonke, ngomso, nangona kunjalo, kuya kusasa.
Luhlobo luni lokubanga onokubonisa ngayo ubudlelwane apho abantu banqula khona abafazi? Ubumnene kakhulu, abafazi abathanda kakhulu. Xa bakuchukumisa ukuze bangabangeli ngephina ingxaki okanye intlungu; ukuze ungakucaphukisi ngovuyo lwakho, kungekhona ukuthusa umvakalelo ongenayo ngokungabalulekanga, kodwa ukubonisa ukuzonwabisa kwintanda yakho.