Indlela yokumanga ngokuchanekileyo

Njengokuba ulala ngesondo, ukubamba kunokuphuculiswa ngokusebenzisa ubomi bakho bonke. Siyabonga ngokubanga, unokufumana uvuyo kunye namava. Iingcali zenzululwazi zazikwazi ukuchonga izinto ezi-2 ezibonisa ukuba ukubamba kuncedo. Kule nqaku, siza kutyhila zonke iimfihlelo zamantombazana indlela yokubamba ngokuchanekileyo kunye nokwenza ukuba uzonwabe. Into yokuqala omele uyikhumbule kwaye uyayazi ukugcina umoya omtsha. Ngoko ukuba emva kokuba uvuke, unomoya ophefumulayo, uqhube amazinyo ngaphambi kokuba ulale. Ekumangeni akukho mfuneko yokwabela amaninzi. Phuza amanzi atyayo ukunciphisa ukukhuselwa kwayo.

Indlela yokubamba intombazana ngokuchanekileyo ngolwimi :

1. Ukuba ubanga kuqala, zama ukukhululeka uze uzame ukuvalela ukuzonwabisa. Musa ukuba neentloni nonke.
2. Umele ulinde ukuphefumula okutsha.
3. Yakha umoya obusondelene kunye nomoya.
4. Xa ubanga umfana, ungazibetha iinwele zakhe uze uthinte umqolo wakhe.
5. Whisper amazwi amnandi amnandi, eli liyindoda enomdla kakhulu.
6. Phulaphule umlomo wakho, akufanele kuhlanjululwe.
7. Ngethuba lokubanga ngenyameko luma umlomo ophantsi weqabane.

Ukuze unqume ukuba uyayazi indlela yokumanga, khawuqwalasele ubuso bomlingane wakho. Ukuba ubuso bubukeka bukhululekile kwaye uhleka kancinci, kuthetha ukuba uyakuthanda ukuwanga kwakho. Ewe, ukuba ubona umonakalo ongenakuvuyisa, ngoko awukafumani ubuchule obufanelekileyo bokumanga.

Umele uzive lakho iqabane ngokumanga, ungamanga nje ngenxa yokuzonwabisa kwakho. Xa uwanga, ungagcini umlomo wakho kwaye ungayivuli umlomo wakho ngokubanzi. Indoda yakho iya kubonisa indlela ethanda ngayo ukumanga. Jonga indlela asabela ngayo ngokucophelela.

Ukubambisa iqabane lakho, ungalibali ukunyamekela imihlaba engafanelekanga. Amadoda amaninzi ayavuya kakhulu ngokumanga entanyeni nasendlebe. Ukubanga okunjalo kubangele kwaye kubangele amadoda kakhulu. Zama ukuzama, ungaba neentloni, uqeqeshe kwaye udibanise yonke ingcinga yakho. Indoda yakho iya kukwazi ukukhumbula ukutshana kwakho okutshisayo nokunyamezela ixesha elide.

Ekuhambeni kwexesha, uya kufunda indlela yokumanga ngokuchanekileyo kwaye ufumane amava amaninzi. Kwaye akukho namnye umntu onokumelana nayo emva kokumangalela okungenakulibaleka ngolwimi. Yenza yonke imizamo kwaye uphumelele kwimfesane ukwenzela ukuba uziva nje ehlazileyo.

Ngoku, mantombazana amthandayo, uyazi ukuba uyamanga njani iqabane lakho ngokuchanekileyo.