Ukwabelana ngesondo kwiqumrhu: uyavuma okanye wenqaba?


Kwabaninzi, ukubhiyozelwa koNyaka omtsha kuqala ngeveki, okanye ezimbini ngaphambi koDisemba 31. Akunakwenzeka ukufika kwiindawo zokutya ngenxa yamaqela ahlangeneyo aphethwe kuwo, kwaye kukho ukuvakalelwa emoyeni ukuba into emangalisayo kunye nemilingo iya kwenzeka. Iimpawu zothando ziqinisekile ukuba uEva kaNtshontsha yithuba elifanelekileyo lokuhlangabezana nomlingane wabo womntu, kwaye amaqela asebenzayo afanelekile kule ndawo. Kwaye xa, ekuphakameni kokumnandi, kukho isiphakamiso sokuthatha umhlala-phantsi kwindawo ethile, ukwesaba kwangaphakathi kukunika utywala obilisa egazini kwaye ingqondo ephazamisayo iqinisekisa ukuba "kutheni."

Ukuba uyingxaki, ngubani ongathinteli ngesini ngexesha loshishino

Unqatshelwe iinkomfa, kwaye ungacingi ukuba kuyimfuneko ukuphawula intloko yakho ngokuzikhethela. Ucinga ukuba ukuba ufuna, kufuneka uyenze, uphelele oko abanye bacinga okanye bathi. Ewe, unombono ohambela phambili wobomi.

Wena, mhlawumbi, awudingi ukucacisa ukuba yintoni umyalelo onokuwukhetha kulo mcimbi. Uyazi ukuba kwenzekani kwaye yintoni kwaye yintoni inkokhelo eya kugxininisa isidima somfanekiso wakho. Ixesha eliphambili lokulungiselela iholide uya ku-SPA-salon, ukukhethwa kwe-makeup, i-perfume kunye neengubo zangaphantsi ezimangalisayo. Uyazi ukuba uya kuba ukhanyisa kakhulu kwiholide, kodwa kutheni ungazithokozi ukuthenga izibuyekezo eziza kukuqinisekisa ukuba uzonwaba ngokuzibamba nje kuphela kodwa uzikhwele.

Ukuze ufumane indoda enomona kunabo bonke abantu abakhona, kufuneka ube yinto enqwenelekayo. Ngelo xesha, akufanele ubonise umdla ogqithiseleyo kwizinto ezikhethiweyo, nje ungahambi kulo, ungalibali ngokuzibiza kwakho. Ngakolunye uhlangothi unomotheka, kwaye ngenye indlela, kubonakala kufinyeleleke kakhulu, kwaye ke kungenakuchukumisa. Kumntu ngomvelo, umzingeli, ungakulibali, kwaye umnike ithuba lokuwina.

Musa ukuchitha ixesha lakho ngothando kunye namadoda afika kwiqela kunye nesiqingatha sabo sesibini, kwaye uqaphele ukudikibala amadoda avela kubaphathi kunye neentombi. Kwimeko yokuqala, uya kufumana iintloko, ukwaneliseka kunye neengqalelo, kwaye okwesibini - awudingi iingxaki kunye nokuthuka.

Iingxaki zinokuvela xa sifuna indawo eyimfihlo. Kungenzeka ukuba iindawo ezifanelekileyo zihlala zihlala. Kodwa ukuba unethamsanqa, ungayinaki ukuzinza kwakho, kufuphi okanye, kwiimeko ezimbi kakhulu, vimba umnyango ukuze ungabuyi kubuyisa "indawo phantsi kwelanga" ngabanye abantu abanomdla, kwaye ungaphazanyiswa ngabanye abagulayo.

Wonke umntu, i-strategist enjengawe, uyazi ukuba unako ukuhlambulula imbonakalo yobungqina bakho obubhetele. Ngoko, umsebenzi usuyenziwe, uvuyo luyafunyanwa, udibene kunye kwaye uzibeke ngokwendlela, jonga ngeenxa zonke. Akufuneki ukuba ushiye inkcazelo emva kwakho okuza kukuxelela malunga nobukho bakho "kwimeko yolwaphulo-mthetho" kubantu abangenasidingo, ukuzonwabisa kwakho kukukhathazayo kuphela. Kuya kuba yinyani ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba, kungekudala ngaphambi kokuphela kombhiyozo, wena kunye nomlingane wakho ushiye iholide.

Ukuba kunjalo kwavela ukuba amanyathelo okuphepha ayinakunceda, ingcaciso engayifumananga nolwazi malunga neenqwelwana zakho zafika kubantu, musa ukuzichaza ngokungadingekile. U-Milo umomotheka ebusweni babantu abanobukhwele, ubanike isizathu sokuba nomona ngakumbi.

Naphezulu! Ngaphantsi kweemeko, kwaye ngaphantsi kweemeko awuyilibala malunga nokukhulelwa komzimba! Vumela isondo kwicandelo lenkampani liyeke iikhumbuzo ezimnandi, kwaye mhlawumbi i-sequel enomdla.

Ukuba awuyithandi isondo kwiqumrhu

Abasetyhini abaninzi abajonga ukuba ukuzijabulisa ngokwesondo kuya kwamkeleka. Ewe, ilungelo labo. Kodwa nangona kunjalo, ufanele ulungele ukuba iincwadana ezingenakwenzekayo aziyi kukugqitha. Konke okufanayo, zilahlekise imeko engathandeki kwaye ungakhubeki nabani na, kufuneka nje unamathele kwiminye imithetho.

Musa ukukrazula kwaye kungabikho nto inokubangela ukuba amadoda angcolileyo kunye nabangacwangcisi. Ngaphandle koko, unokuba nemiphumo emibi kakhulu kuwe.

Cinga ngengubo yakho. Akukufuneki ukuba ugqoke into ekhuselekileyo kwaye evulekile, uzibeke kumlinganiselo othile wendlu yangasese nenhle.

Ungasebenzisi kakubi iziphuzo zokusela. Wonke umntu omdala kunye oqolileyo uyazi indlela yakhe yokuhlala, ngoko uzame ukungena ngaphaya kwemida eyamkelekileyo. Emva koko, ukuba ngekamva kufuneka uchaze imeko ephosakeleyo apho ungaxutywa khona, ukwamkela ngokweqile utywala akuyi kusenza sibe nodumo.

Ngokukhawuleza okanye kamva iqumrhu liza kungena kwisigaba esikhululekile, ngoku kuyafaneleka ukuba uhlale emacaleni. Gcina kwi-mass mass, kwaye uzame ukuphepha "iingxoxo ngasese", awukwazi ukuba yintoni eya kucinga engqondweni kunye novelwano onobubele phantsi kweempembelelo zokungadliyo. Ngesizathu esifanayo, kungcono ukufika ekhaya ngeteksi ukuya endlwini, okanye ukucela ukuba ucele umnxeba wakho, umzalwana, ngokubanzi, umntu onokuqonda, oqinisekileyo ngokwabo.