Ayikho imfihlelo yokuba isondo luyingxenye ebalulekileyo yobomi bethu bemihla ngemihla - ngumlinganiselo omkhulu wamava amatsha angalibalekiyo. Nangona kunjalo, luhlobo luni lwesini kunye nolonwabo onokukuthetha ngalo, ukuba ngokuphindaphindiweyo kukho amagama anjalo: "Intloko, ukukhubeka, ukhathala, i-perenervnichala, njl.". Kwaye emva kweminyaka embalwa nje, inkqubo yesinibano socansi iyalungelelanisa (yathabatha ishawa waza wenza uthando), oko kungenxa yoko akukho ndawo ihamba kuyo. Ngaphandle kwexesha eliqhelekileyo lokuzimela, ukuphuma kwimpilo yemihla ngemihla kwaye kungabi kukuvumela ukuba ugxobhe le mvakalelo enhle kakhulu ngumsebenzi onokuzenzekelayo.
"Umlambo omtsha" wobudlelwane bakho bobulili - indlela yokwenza ngayo
Ukuqinisekisa ukuba umbhede wakho womtshato awuhlali ungenasiphako, ungadinga kuphela ukudibanisa imfesane yakho yesifazane, umele umda wokuziphatha, uqalise ngesibindi ixesha lokuvavanya. Ngokuqinisekileyo, "umoya omtsha" kwiintlobano zesini ngokuqinisekileyo uya kufuna umonde, ukunyamezela, nangona kunjalo kulungile.
Qala ngokubonisa ngokucacileyo iimfuno zakho komnye nomnye. Emva kwakho konke, ukuvakalisa malunga nekhati elingenanto okanye malunga ne-cutlets ezingenakusihlwa zihlala ziqinileyo, kwaye zihlala phantsi ukuxoxa ngesini-sex otnoshniya, njenge-nistranno, ngesizathu esithile asinaso isibindi nesikhathi. Amazwi nje awanxulumene nesigwebo esichaphazelayo, esomile emlonyeni, kwaye amagama alinganayo "aphephe" ngaphandle kwentloko. Kule micimbi, kufuneka ube nomonde kwaye uqikelele, kuba le mibuzo ilandelayo: "Kutheni uvula umva wakho eludongeni ngaphambi kokuba uyiqede?" Okanye "Kutheni sifanele sihambe ngokukhawuleza yonke imihla, kodwa siya kuyanceda?" Akukho nto ngaphezu kokucaphukisa, kunye nentukuthelo. Kwaye ekubeni le ngxaki ibuthakathaka, ilapha ngokuyinhloko "ukuphula imithi", ukuba ungaphosisi iqabane. Nangona kunjalo, oku akuthethi ukuba intetho "malunga nesondo" ngokubanzi akufanele iqale.
Ubundlobongela, njengento yokuhlambalaza, ukucaphuka, ukukhuthaza ukudibanisa, kunye nokuxolelana kwabatshatileyo. Ngokuncediswa yintsapho, ezininzi iingxaki zeentsapho zixazululwa. Akusiyo nto into yokuba ubudala bokuba uthi "abathandekayo baxoliswa - bayigcisa nje kuphela," kuba emva kokuxabana, ngokomthetho, "isenzo sokuxolelana" siza. Kuphela kwithuba elidlulileyo, ukufumana ukuzonwabisa okungathandabuzekiyo kwintsebenziswano, uqala ukuqonda ubuncinane beengxaki eziye zaphikisana nawe.
Ngokusoloko banesikhalazo ngesondo, okokuqala ngaphambi kokuqikelelwa kwinto eqikelelweyo, xa uyazi yonke into kusengaphambili-amagama, ukunyakaza, kunye nokuphila kwakho ngokwesondo kukukhokelela ekukhunjeni. Kodwa zama ukuzisa ubomi obutsha kwindawo ebusondeleyo, ngaphandle kokulinda indawo echanekileyo kunye neyure.
Ngokomzekelo, ukuba umyeni, emva kokubuya emsebenzini, uqala iinqabetho zakhe zesondo ngokusuka emnyango, musa ukumcingela ngamazwi ukulinda ngokuhlwa, ukuhlamba, njl. Emva koko, ukulala ngesondo ngokungathandabuzekiyo kunika unomdla obuninzi, ububele, ukufudumala, okungazilibaleki.
Kwakhona kufanelekile amagama ambalwa ukunika imbonakalo. Ngokomzekelo, iimaski zobuso ezinomsoco okanye ukukhanda ukutshatyalaliswa kwentloko kwintloko ayikho inxaxheba kwigalelo zesondo. Ngokuphambene noko, iingubo zangaphantsi ezitsha, iimpahla ezinobomi kunye nezicathulo eziphezulu ziyakwenza njalo into yakho nendoda. Nangona kunjalo, apha kuyimfuneko ukuhambelana nomlinganiselo wenani, ukwenzela ukuba ungayesabi umlingane wakho, udibanise umgca kwimbala engabonakaliyo yombala, i-mini skirt, amabhuthi, amabhuthi.
Nangona kunjalo, ukulala embhedeni kwendima yesigqila esithobelayo, kuyinto enomdla. Abanye bobukhulu babo banomdla kakhulu. Sebenzisa kwi-arsenal yakho yokungenakunceda nokuthobela, kwaye umntu wakho akayi kushiya nto, ngokukhawuleza xa ethatha inyathelo ezandleni zakhe. Yintoni efunwa kwaye ifunwa.
Kwakhona unokwenza indlela ekhohlisayo. Khetha iingubo zangaphantsi ezinemibala enhle, lungiselela umculo omnandi wokusasaza, ulungiselele i-muzhustrichtiz yakho. Zama ukuvuma ngaphambi kokuba, unokubukela kwaye ungathinti, kwaye le ndoda iyakhuthaza kakhulu.
Enyanisweni, ezo zibini ezitshatileyo kwiminyaka emininzi yobomi esitshatileyo azikwazi ukuba kuthini ukuzala zonke iintlobano zesini. Kwaye, nawe, uya kufezekisa oku, ukuba ungayesabi ukuzama kwaye uthathe isinyathelo, ubeka amaphupha akho axabisekileyo kwizinto zesini. Ngaloo ndlela ke uya kuphonsa kwilo moya epholileyo, apho uqhube khona ukuqala kwintsapho yakho.