Kuye, okhethiweyo wakhe uyintle, kwaye akanako ukumxelela ngoku. Kodwa apha ngokwalo umbuzo wokuba luncedo kangakanani ukuncoma intanda yakho. Ngokukodwa kwabo bangayazi indlela yokwenza izimvo ezintle malunga nokuthanda kwabo.
Ukuthobela ukulindela.
Ngoko kutheni ukuncoma intombazana? Kulula: ngoko, ukuba ulindele la mazwi amnandi avela kumbongi wakhe okanye amanye amadoda anomdla kuwo. Ngaba kufanelekile ukuthetha malunga nantoni na eyenzakalisa ukungafani phakathi kokulindelwa kommeli wesini? Yonke into inokwenzeka apha: ukususela ekuthukutheleni okungenasithuko ukuya kwihlazo elihlaselayo. Kodwa ezi ngxaki zilula ukuphepheka, zenza kuphela ukunconywa okulula okulula.
Akumangalisi ukuba i-smoothies ephumelele kakhulu le sixhobo esilula sele isamkela. Iingcali zengqondo zikholelwa ukuba amandla okwenza iincamenti ezinjalo zinika i-50% impumelelo. Bonke abanye-ngaphakathi kweengcebiso zekosi yengqondo, D. uCarnegie - ukumncoma nokukhumbula igama. Kwaye intombazana ilungele ukunika umtsalane onyameleyo. Kunikezelwe ukuba wayengazange acetyiswe ngaphambi kwezicwangciso zakhe ezingenakunqwenelekayo zokuchitha kunye nobusuku bakhe obubodwa, kwaye ukuncoma kwayo ubuncinci bukhangelekile.
Kuba nabani na owake wathandana, akungabazeki ukuba kuyimfuneko kwaye kunokwenzeka ukuncoma. Imvakalelo ephezulu ngokwenene ibonakaliswa: ngokukwazi ukuwabona nokuqinisekisa iinkcukacha ngomfanekiso wakhe kunye nokubulela kwakhe ukuxabisa okukhulu. Ukuncoma - njengento ebalulekileyo ekuqwalaseleni kwakhe: nangona umthandi wemfihlo yakhe engazange azibone ngaphambili, uya kuthatha isigqibo kuye. Kwaye sele sele isabela ngokusabela kwakhe kuya kuba nako ukunquma ukuba ngaba kukho ithuba lolwalamano kunye naye okanye engekho ngokupheleleyo.
Isikhumbuzo semvakalelo.
Ukuba ukhumbule ukuziphatha, ke kukho izizathu ezininzi zokuncoma amantombazana. Ngoko, ngokwemigaqo yomthetho, umfazi angabulawa kuphela ngokuncoma. Emva kwakho konke, umlomo omnandi, ingakumbi ukuba unyanisekileyo, awunakuchukumisa kuphela umfazi, kodwa uya kunceda ukuwuhambisa ngendlela efanelekileyo. Ukuncoma ngokucophelela ngexesha lokuxabana kunokutshintsha kakhulu intombazana. Yaye ukuba uyayisebenzisa ngentetho kunye neentombi zakho ezithandekayo, unokufunda malunga nantoni na ngezinto ezithandayo, izinto ezithandayo, izinto ezithandwayo kunye neemfihlelo.
Ngaphandle koko, akusikho ukusikhumbuza kumbhinqa ngokwakhe malunga nezo mpawu aqale wazithandana nazo. Xa ekhuluma nomncoma wakhe, uxhasa umlilo kungekhona entliziyweni yakhe kuphela, kodwa uvelisa uthando oluhle kum. Ngaphezu koko, kwindoda enokukwazi ukuncoma rhoqo iqabane layo, akuyimfuneko ukuba rhoqo uqiniseke ukuba uyamthanda, okuyiyo yonke into enqabileyo ngesondo ayithandiyo. Umetsa ngexesha elifanelekileyo ukuxelela intshiseko yakhe, izinto ezintle aziyi kuhlushwa yimibandela malunga nokufaneleka kunye nokuhlaselwa komfanekiso wakhe. Emva kwakho konke, le mibuzo engenakuchukumisayo ayinanto kodwa umnqweno wentombazana ukufumana oko akufunayo ngokwenene-ukuncoma.
Yaye ungayichazela njani ubunzulu beemvakalelo ezifudumala intliziyo yomntu? Imibala? Ngaphandle. Okokuqala, i-trite, kwaye okwesibini, akubona wonke umntu unemali eyaneleyo yokubonisa amandla okwenene evakalelo. Ukuthinta kwakhona akuncedisi ukucacisa zonke iziqhwithi zengqungquthela eyenziwa ngumfazi kumntu othandweni. Nangona ukuthintela ngamanye amaxesha kungabakho ukuncoma: obumnene, othandekayo, kwinto engathintekiyo ngokuchukumisayo, ibonisa oko intombazana enqwenela ukuyiva. Kukho nawuphi na, ukuvakalisa iimvakalelo ngokuncoma kukukhethekileyo. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, intombazana ifumana ukuphuma kwamanzi amnandi, ngakwelinye icala, indoda iyaziqonda imfuno yakhe yokwenza umthandi wakhe ajabule. Kwaye ibhonasi yakhe iyamomotheka kunye nemihlo, apho kungenakwenzeka ukuba ingabikho.
Imisebenzi ekhethekileyo yokuncoma.
Ukumnika intanda yakhe into ayifunayo, ukumbonisa ubunzulu beemvakalelo zakhe, ukukhumbuza indlela intlekele ngayo umfazi, yinto nje encinane yemisebenzi apho ukuncoma kungayifeza. Ukuba sisixhobo esinokufikeleleka kakhulu soBungqina Bothando Lwawo, alufunanga nayiphi na imali-mali okanye iimalungiselelo emide - ukuncoma kuvula umntu jikelele umhlaba. Ngoncedo lwakhe kulula ukutshintsha isihloko esithandekayo malunga nama-boutiques, izicathulo, iintombi zamantombazana, ezithandwa kakhulu, ukuba amandla okuqhubeka ephulaphule. Kwaye incomo yindlela efanelekileyo yokumisa isikhalazo. Yenza kuphela ngokucokisekileyo.
Ukuncoma kungasenza sibe isizathu sokuhlukana, ukuba inkalipho yokuqaphela ngokuthe ngqo ukungabikho kwemvakalelo yentombazana ayanele. Kuphela, ewe, oku kufuneka kube ngongoma olubi kakhulu malunga nomlingisi wakhe okanye ukubonakala kwakhe. Ukuba ufuna ukuphawula ngezinye zeempawu ze ntombazana ingaba yindlela yokuxhaphaza intanda. Kodwa apha akakwazi ukwenza ngaphandle kokunyaniseka. Ukuba iziphakamiso zenziwe, ke nawuphi na umfazi uya kuziva kwaye uya kudana kakhulu.
Umgangatho okhethekileyo wokukwazi ukuncoma intombazana kukukwazi kwamagama amnandi ukutshintsha iimeko zentombi. Phantse yonke indoda okanye inkwenkwe iyika iinyembezi zabesifazane. Kodwa ukuziphepha ekubudlelaneni nobulili obuhle akunakho nabani na. Ngoko uziphatha njani ngokufanelekileyo ukuze udibanise ukukhungatheka kwentlungu? Kakade, menze uncome. Ubuncinane uya kuzisa kum ubuso bakhe. Njengomlinganiselo ophezulu, uphazamise ngokupheleleyo kwiingcinga ezibuhlungu. Kwaye nasiphi na iziphumo, loo moya uya kuba yiqhawe lokwenene kumfazi ophethe iinqwelo ezikhawulezayo, apho ngokuqinisekileyo uya kubakho ukuzithemba.
Kukho umsebenzi omnye wokumncoma. Yiyiphi indoda efuna ukuyibona ecaleni kwowesifazane othembele ekungcoleni kwakhe? Akukho madoda anjalo. Ubuncinane phakathi kwengqondo. Akunabo bonke abameleli besondo oluqinileyo bathanda abafazi abazithemba. Kodwa ukuba umntu okhethiweyo uyaqiniseka ukuba lo mfanekiso owenza udidekile kwaye ubuso obuhle, obulungele ukuyikhumbula ubusuku, buyinto enyanyekayo, ngoko umntu uyaqala ukucinga ngokusinda kuyo. Kwaye ubalekele kwizinto ozithandayo, ukuba unokutshintsha nje ingcamango yakhe. Ukuncoma. Yaye ukubulela kwintombazana ngesipho esinjalo-inkolelo ebuhleni bayo - iya kuguqulwa ngokwenene umtsalane wothando oluhle, olufudumeleyo, olunyanisekileyo nolunikela naye.