Kwaye akumangalisi, kuba "ukuguga akusiyovuyo." Kuthiwani ngeJubhi? Iyintoni le holide, kwaye yintoni enye engcono kunokuba iLuku lokuzalwa? Ukuba uphendula ngokuthe ngqo, ngowokuzalwa okufanayo, nje ngokuba negama elihlukile. IJubhi yeholide engabonakaliyo, oku kuthetha ukuba isipho saleli holide kufanele sibe yodwa. Imiqathango, iindwendwe - konke oku kufuneka kufake isandla kwiholide elihle. Ukubhiyozela le holide kubaluleke kakhulu, ngokukodwa ngokuza kudala. Indoda endala iya kuba nemihlali kakhulu yokuba abayilibala ngaye. Ukuba sithetha ngabantu abangaphantsi okanye abatsha abantu, banokuvuyela ukubhiyozela esi siganeko, kodwa abayikunyamekela kakhulu njengabantu abaseminyakeni yabo.
Namhlanje siza kuthetha ngolu hlobo olubalulekileyo njengolu hlobo "Yintoni onokuyinika umfazi wesibhiyozo? ". Lo mbandela unenkxalabo enkulu kumadoda amaninzi, kodwa ukukhathazeka, apha, ngokukodwa akufanelekanga. Makhe sibhale umgca kunye, kwaye siya kuchaza ngokuchanekileyo, yintoni umcimbi owawuhlukileyo ohlukile kwiNyanga yokuzalwa? Ekubeni iholide kunokuba iyinqabile, ithetha ukuba inokubaluleka ngakumbi. Yingakho kukho into enjalo. Yintoni ongayinika kulo mzekelo? Ewe, yonke into iyafana nangosuku lokuzalwa. Ewe, awuveki kakhulu ngenxa yokuqala, kodwa ayithethi ukuba kufuneka yenziwe, kuba umfazi / intombazana uya kuvuya ukuba uyamthanda, umnyamekele.
Ukuba awuyithandi loo ndlela, makhe siqhubeke size sihambe kunye noonxibelelwano. Lungiselela isikhumbuzo osifunayo ixesha elide ngaphambi kokuqala kweeholide. Njengoko uyazi, isipho esona siphumo sezempilo. Kodwa, ngelishwa, oku akusixabiso lento kwaye akunakwenzeka ukuyiveza njengesipho. Kulungile, ngoko kufuneka uncede ukugcina impilo yakho. Ibhinqa ekuqaleni ayinakuqaphela, kodwa ungakhathazeki, ekugqibeleni uya kuqonda yonke into. Ngoko, sinqwenela ukuba isipho esona siza kuba sempilo. Ngoku sizame ukuqonda indlela yokuphucula impilo, okanye ugcine nje.
Unokuthatha isiluleko kuma-centenarians aseJapan, icebiso labo liyakunceda unike isiqhelo sempilo kwiqhawe lomhla. Ngoko, ukuze baphile iminyaka emininzi, bona, ngokwemiva yabo ecebileyo, cebisa:
Okokuqala nokuphambili, oku kukutya okulungileyo. Ukuba umntu uyazi iimfihlakalo eziphambili zesondlo esifanelekileyo, iimfihlelo zokutya zaseJapan ezixhamlayo, ngoko uya kuphila iminyaka emininzi. Unokunika iikhosi zowesifazane ekuphekeni kwe-sushi. Okubizwa ngokuba yi "School of Sushi". Oko kukuthi, uholele umfazi wakho, ngokuqinisekileyo, nje intlanzi, kodwa ngokwenene ubamba i-adventure exotic. Ngokuqinisekileyo uya kukuxabisa, kuba abafazi bathanda ukufunda into entsha kunye nokungachangekanga, kunye nokupheka kwe-sushi yiyona nto ayifunayo. Ukuba umfazi, kungakhathaliseki isizathu, akayithandi i-sushi, okanye abangela ukurhoxiswa kuwe, ngoko ukuzonwabisa kweJapan kunokutya apho.
Kukho umkhosi odumile waseTshayina wokwenza itiye - Gong Fu Cha. Le yinto enomdla kakhulu kwaye iyamangalisa yasendulo, iimfihlakalo zazo zisasazeka ukusuka kwizizukulwana ngezizukulwana. Umfazi wam uya kuxabisa isipho esinjalo. I-taste of tea iyamangalisa nje, kwaye amabali aya kuxelwa kulo mbhiyozo uyamangalisa. Kuye konke oku, kulo mkhosi uya kudlala umculo ozolileyo kunye nomlingo, oya kunika umoya ophumayo. Ukongeza, awudingi nto. Inkosi yokupheka iya kwenza yonke into, unokonwabela kuphela.
Ekubeni sithetha ngeeholide, ayikwazi ukwenza ngaphandle kokumnandi, akunjalo? Kodwa ngokukhawuleza kukho intetho ngezempilo. Yintoni enokuyenza kule meko? Yintoni ongayibonisa ngayo umcimbi wokugubha isiganeko kulo nyaka, ukuze ugcine impilo? Impendulo ilula. Hlanganisa i-sweet and useful. Nika umfazi wakho ikheke elimnandi kakhulu, kodwa makabe mnene, ehamba emoyeni kwaye enhle kakhulu, kwaye ebaluleke kakhulu-incedo! Makube ne-yogurt ecebileyo, isiqhamo kunye nezinye izithako ezincedo.
Njengoko wonke umntu uyazi, imidlalo iyongeza kwimpilo yethu. Kodwa yintoni enokuyenza, kuba lo mfazi? Apha, umdlalo kufuneka uphucule kwaye uhlonipheke. Ukuba unika umfazi isifundo kwisifundo segalufa, uya kuba mnandi kakhulu kuwe, ngokuba igalofu, kulo mzekelo, yindlela efanelekileyo. Ibhinqa liya kuvuyela ukufunda ibali le sifundo seminyaka eli-600 ubudala, ufunde imithetho kwaye uchithe ixesha elihle ngaphandle. Yisipho esilungileyo sonyaka wama-50!
Ngaphandle koko, unako ukunikela isipho sokuzalwa kwi-kimono yaseJapane, eyenziwe kwindwangu yemvelo yemibala eqinisekisiweyo yobomi, eya kunika ifulethi kungekhona nje into entsha yokuthakazelisa, kodwa kunye nolonwabo lwasekhaya kunye nomnqweno wokuhlala ujikeleze indlu kwaye uhlale uhamba emoyeni.
Ekubeni sithetha ngendawo yokuhlala, makhe sikhuphe okufutshane kwesi sihloko. Ukulala efulethini akuyona into enhle, kwaye oku kuyinyaniso, kwaye kwiminyaka engama-50 ndiyathanda kakhulu ukuvuyiswa kwaye ndilale ngempilweni.
Ukuze yonke into isebenze kakuhle, kuyinqweneleka ukuba indlu yakho ibe yindawo apho ungonwabile ukuchitha ukuguga kwakho. Ukuba usenayo indlu - sele isele isiqingatha semfazwe, iya kusinika ubuthongo obuhle. Ngo lonwabo. Mnike indawo kwenyanga kunye ne-telescope ukuze azincoma ngokuhlwa-oku kuya kumenza avuyiswe kakhulu.
Kwintombazana yokuzalwa inokukhumbula yonke into evuyayo ebomini bakhe, ungamnika i-albhamu yesithombe yesikhumba esenziwe ngesandla. Kuya kuba sisipho se-chic.
Yenza kube mnandi. Unokumnika ikhathuni ngokwakho, qinisekisa ukuba akacaphukisi. Ukuba awuqinisekanga, mnike i doll enesimo esifana nesifaniso. Esi sipho ngokuqinisekileyo siya kumncothela ngokuhlwa.
Unokunika "iphephandaba elivuyayo". Makuboniswe zonke iziganeko ezibalaseleyo zobomi beqhawe lomhla, kunye nemifanekiso kunye neefoto, akukho mntu uya kukwenqaba eso sipho.
Kwaye ekugqibeleni, ukuba unayo imali eyaneleyo, unokukwazi ukubonakalisa umnqweno wakho kwimpilo, ixesha elide nolonwabileyo ngoncedo lwepeyinti ye-crystal eyenziwe nge-Swarovski crystals ngendlela ye-hieroglyph yaseJapane, ekuguquleleni ithetha "umthi wobomi".